LOL - I was an E-9 and served overseas and I don't feel like a vet either! I did support the WWII vets during the government shutdown - with my long hair and everything ... nobody really thought I was a vet in that crowd but they appreciated me being there.
When I retired, I decided to start a new life and not try to lean on that stuff I did in the military. It was fun - but it's over and the next phase begins. If you don't do this then you are just constantly mired in the past and you will never accomplish anything else in life. My old shipmates, when they see me, they call me "Master Chief" ... I tell them ... "Nope - I have a name now". LOL
Originally Posted by Arverni
I knew you were a MCPO although I don't know your rate. But you have NO idea how many times when we're arguing about something I've nearly typed, "Now G*DDAMMIT Master-Chief!.." which I spent a fair amount of MY career saying, both "up" & "down".
I agree w/the way you look @ it though Arv. Too many times, guys (and I DO mean men--women don't seem to have this particular psychological issue or not have it as often, maybe b/c they have their crises @ other triggering events: children grown, death of spouse, etc.?) retire (not just military--I mean retire from anything) & have nothing left to live for. It sucks for them & those who care about them. Having a plan to do something else, ANYTHING else, is a good one. Retirement, overall, kills people I'm convinced: I meet a lot of guys who really are just sort-of waiting to die after they retire, yet you're young enough & in many cases now (far more than even 20-30 yrs ago) still are healthy enough to productively embark on another career or at least do a decent job @ something.
You may not call bouncing a career, but you have a job you seem to like, some free time, etc. It's not a bad place to be in--I'm not saying your life is perfect or you never have cause to bitch, I'm saying I think you've done a smart thing & I hope I can structure mine in a similar way. You & I fundamentally disagree about some things, but the way you have structured & planned post-retirement for yourself strikes me as admirable.
And to those guys like getsum69 & ILTG68 who enlisted before I did (they weren't QUITE desperate enough for me yet in July 1990), so actually made it to Gulf I, THANK YOU! And LL too!--I knew you were a veteran, you told me awhile back. I have GOT to plan better so I can visit again before Xmas...