I am a long time hobbyist, ASPD/ECCIE member. I have always considered that I/we ask a lot of providers but in turn we also give. When considering approaching; I read the profiles, I read the reviews, I follow the specific requests for screening, and after a response proceed accordingly.
Lately I have run into a string of what I consider to be rudeness. After having connected, after being screened and approved and a bunch of text exchanges, right up to the point I am getting in my car to head over then POOF. Crickets, silence, no responses, no follow-up and definitely no apologies. Now before you frequently posting knights start putting your armor on to come to the defense so your post count numbers go up and you can, once again, state the obvious; I know things come up, I know shit happens and I know I am not the only hard cock out there BUTT......I do my part and I don’t think it is asking too much to be given the same consideration, as a client, that is demanded by providers.