Howdy, Folks!
Yeah - I had this experience with Maxie Ryan as well.
Yeah - I didn't post anything.
1. I was so angry over this situation, I figured I should cool off for a while before I sat down in front of a keyboard.
Steeljohnson10, you have my sincerest apologies. I feel really bad now - if I had written something and you had read it, I might have prevented your situation from occurring.
2. I've posted stuff like this before, and WKs and all sorts of pilers-on have avalanched on me, attempting to bury the original message. No big deal - it doesn't bother me - but it *does* prevent people like me from posting this sort of information again; it's just not worth the time and effort.
As a result - Hobbyists like Steeljohnson10 suffer. In other words, ALL of us suffer.
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Onto the story...
I had read many, many glowing reviews of Maxie Ryan, and as I was going to be leaving Texas, thought I would see if we could get together before I left.
From
http://maxieryan.escortwebsite.com/photos.phtml :
"maxieryan@ymail.com: only for advance scheduling"
From
http://maxieryan.escortwebsite.com/faq.phtml :
http://maxieryan.escortsite.com/faq....qid=7080#63336
"4.* Is there any way to communicate thru(sic) e mails instead of phone calls?* Need to be very secretive?
Answer: Sure, we can always schedule in advance via e-mail.* You will still need a phone to call me when you are on your way (unless we make arrangements) but scheduling in advance will significantly limit your phone usage!* I'm always glad to help out when I can!*
* Maxie"
http://maxieryan.escortwebsite.com/f...id=11249#63336
"9. How do we advance schedule with you through emailing? What is your email?
Yes sir, you can e-mail me at
maxieryan@ymail.com. You can also advance schedule by phone if you like by calling 289-9013. I am always happy to schedule in advance!
"
Okay - cool. So, email works.
So, on Sunday, November 13, 2011 I checked availability with Maxie Ryan for November 26, 2011. I figured 13 days in advance was plenty of time to do advance scheduling via email.
I also indicated in this and subsequent emails that I use email and private messages exclusively for setting appointments, and I do NOT use a telephone for setting appointments.
I got email confirmation back that this would be fine.
I had some pre-screening questions of my own, and asked them. I never received a response.
If Maxie did indeed have an issue with me terminating the session, I could always come back as say,
"Hey, I asked, and you never responded. I would have politely declined to schedule with you if I had known about x, y, and z prior to showing up, but since you didn't respond to my messages concerning these issues, I assumed good faith on your part and came to the session."
Okay, no big deal; I had asked them, had email confirmations that I *had* indeed asked them, and figured if I got to the session and things did not meet my personal criteria - it would not be an issue for me to terminate the session before it started.
The last communication I got from Maxie was on Monday, November 21, 2011 saying essentially that everything was a "go" for the scheduled date and time.
Subsequent emails from me received no response.
Still, I *had* received positive confirmation.
Monday, November 28, 2011:
On the scheduled day and around the appropriate time, I was in the area of Maxie's incall.
To get final confirmation and directions, I called.
TWICE.
Just an answering machine. So, I left messages, and the phone number I could be reached at.
No response back from the messages I left.
No callback, no email, no NOTHING.
I had reorganized my life to schedule this session, and I really didn't appreciate the lack of response.
If this session wasn't going to work out for any reason, a simple email from Maxie stating as such at ANY TIME during the THIRTEEN DAY planning phase would have been perfectly acceptable.
Nothing. Nada. Zip.
11/28/2011 - no response.
11/29/2011 - NO response.
We have now left the territory known as Lame and Irresponsible and entered into the Land of Insulting.
FINALLY, on 11/30/2011 - NINE days, mind you, since the last communication, and I got an email from Maxie.
She informed me that:
• she was so sorry
• she's constantly watched, so using a computer is incredibly difficult for her
• from now on, she needs to schedule by phone and not try to work from email
BULLSHIT on all three counts.
• she was sorry - if she's *so* sorry, why didn't she contact me sooner than 48 hours to say so? Which leads us to...
• she's constantly watched, so using a computer is incredibly difficult for her - if that's the case, how can she possibly run a successful Sensual Massage service?
[This thread may actually be the answer to that question, folks.]
If one is being watched, what's the difference between making a phone call vs. an email? I can do either from a locked restroom stall in a coffee shop, for crissakes. I have a portable computer that's perfectly capable of sending an email that can be had for less than $20.
ANY provider that's in this business should use some sort of portable device they can do their business from that they could afford to either lose or destroy at a moment's notice.
My sincerest apologies to this gentleman. I have a new phone and forgot to charge it at home. Too cheap to buy a car charger (which I now have!!!!). The phone died soon before the appt, his # was in my phone and I had no way to contact him.
Originally Posted by maxieryan
If you cannot afford tens of dollars on business expenses, or if your in a situation where your every move is watched - including those of your bowels, for crissakes; can't you even go into a bathroom, lock the door, and have 5 minutes of privacy? - you *may* wanna consider stopping ALL advertising and getting out of The Hobby completely.
• from now on, she needs to schedule by phone and not try to work from email -
I received this in the email response from Maxie on 11/30/2011; today is January 16, 2012. Check out the links I provided - her website *still* advertises email advanced scheduling is okay; nothing has changed on the site, even though she told me she needs to schedule by phone and not try to work from email. See attached time-stamped screenshots, in case things magically repair themselves. :/
Not only will she waste your time, but if she is actually telling the truth about being constantly watched to the point that she cannot send a simple, discreet email during a NINE DAY TIME FRAME, what is preventing her Watcher from gaining access to every single thing she reads and writes?
RUN, do not walk - from this provider.