I'm pretty new at this hobby. I've read a TON of reviews, checked out a few providers. One I was REALLY impressed with, and a few not so much.
I've noticed that I've never read a review that didn't recommend the provider being reviewed. I wonder if it's for the same reason I haven't given a negative review. I'm pretty much of the belief that if I don't have something nice to say, probably best to not say anything at all.
That said, there was one provider that I really should have given a bad review. The closest I've seen is a thread about a certain provider where replies criticized the provider in question. Obviously I've chosen to avoid that provider, even though she looks pretty damn hot.
It seems that collectively, we really don't like not recommending providers. Anyone have any theories why? Or if I have a bad experience, should I go ahead and give that bad review? Part of my fear (for lack of a better word) in giving a bad review is that I don't want to be perceived as difficult or demanding. I'm really not very demanding, pretty easy to please, am kind and respectful to anyone I meet (until given damn good reason to behave otherwise).
Anyway, I know it's sort of a random rant but would love to have anyone's feedback on the thoughts presented.