The importance of ladies screening

I need to vent!!

Guys if a lady requires screening and you supply her with your references. It is not the ladies fault that you want to book with her and the screening does not happen as quickly as you wish. Either you have not given the proper info or your references just out right suck!!

So here is what I just had to deal with today. (My phone is next to me so I will be quoting exactly how the conversation went.)

So guy text me to book appointment. I ask for references. He gives me 3 (Names and numbers). I ask for handles and he tells me that they go by the same names and all but one are from Austin.

I reach out to the known ladies....guess what?? Their handles aren't popping up. So either they aren't real or he was leaving out part of their handles.

So here is how our conversation went..


Him: "so should I pass?"

Me: "still waiting"

Me: "send me the list again. So I can have it"

Him: sends me the list again

Him: "Don't know what the deal is but if your that worried then forget it I'll stick with the ones I have"

Me: Woo. Please do not be rude. I screen guys that I have not seen. If you cant respect that I wish you well.

Him: "You need to get over yourself you are not that special"

Me: "I will never get over the peace of mind of my safety"

Him: "Yea ok"

Me: "Good Day"

Him: Then sends a pic of 1k (100 dollar bills) and says "this is what you could have had"

Me: "I rather have respect than your money"


Needless to say with an attitude like that and outlook that safety/security isn't important; he will be placed on my no see list.

Guys have patience with us to get our screening complete before flying off the handle. Or either get screened before hand or go through p411 for last minute appointments.

ok off of my soap box.

Have a great evening!!!

Guys need to be specific about the provider's handle as well. Sometimes there is a space, dash, underscore or some other symbol that prevents us from being able to find the referred provider.
I've had guys who will send a link to the provider's profile and some will give a phone number. Personally, I do NOT want the lady's phone number. Who's to say that number really belongs to the lady in question unless she has it on her profile. But I like to contact ladies on here, not text.

On another although similar note...
It seems that where screening is concerned, we can't do short notice appts. So the guys need to be more patient in these cases.
Some ladies may take hours or even days to get back to us and some may not reply at all. There are some out there who reply to requests right away, which is GREAT!

^ so we should just give the phone numbers for references instead of email or pm, right?

I would think the safest way is communication through pm. Then check his profile like we check the ladies profile.

Check his reviews just like we check the ladies reviews. Maybe just maybe pm one or two of the ladies and ask about the guy and judge from there.

Now this would be the case if he had as few reviews and has been a member for a year plus. But that's just me.

If a guy is a newbie with less than 5 reviews and has only been a member a few months, then I would see where references would really come in place.

I just think it goes both ways just Like when your shopping for a product to buy. You check reviews before you buy.

Safety first and passionate sex always

^ so we should just give the phone numbers for references instead of email or pm, right? Originally Posted by russellevans

Best policy when giving references to a lady is to give correct handle or p411 idea to the lady.

I know I personally as well as a few other ladies don't like those we don't know having our numbers

Why did that conversation go on for so long? At the first sign of toxic rudeness, I'd be more inclined to cut it short and bring it to a close. In any event, the screening was successful, because you weeded out the crappy attitude, so kudos for that.

Him: Then sends a pic of 1k (100 dollar bills) and says "this is what you could have had" Originally Posted by Daddys Girl ATX

Yeah, because random pics of money aren't all over the internet for someone to send to a hooker trying to impress her... That dude is a fucking joke.

But they work so well.


Agreed with that this was a successful screening !!!

Why did that conversation go on for so long? At the first sign of toxic rudeness, I'd be more inclined to cut it short and bring it to a close. In any event, the screening was successful, because you weeded out the crappy attitude, so kudos for that. Originally Posted by Dev Null

He wouldnt stop texting. But after the comment of having respect vs his money. Im sure he had nothing else to say to that, lol.

But they work so well.


Agreed with that this was a successful screening !!! Originally Posted by fun2come

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I'm still considered a newb so I will probably get the "verbal" jimmy kick or throat punch against my comments. None the less, here they go. I respect the concept of screening, as mentioned above I think it makes a better time for both parties if each do a little research. Unfortunately I think the providers get shorted and assume more risk because there is less information about us readily available. I applaud you ladies for taking us on.

I often wonder what goes through you mind upon meeting someone new, we see your showcase and pictures but for you, it could be a human sack of acne scarred broken dildos showing up at your door; "with references" and then ackwardness ensues.

So although I've seen two providers here, no names as I don't have their permission to speak for them, both exercised a fair, responsible, reasonable, and rapid method of verification for our meeting. It was a piece of mind that you did request the verification because it builds trust on this side that you are professional.

Unfortunately I still must apologize for being Irish and having to "short" you, but I can make you laugh so that is something.

So although I've seen two providers here, no names as I don't have their permission to speak for them...... Originally Posted by Irish Bob Parr

If they are advertising on ECCIE you have the right to review any aspect of your interaction with them in a review and to share any relevant information about them with other members here.

Seems like you are off to a wussy start... Why did you join ECCIE?

As to the subject matter presented by the OP..... Competition is growing rapidly in the local market place and screening is something you engage in for your own purposes.....

Rather than presenting your problems to the prospective clients who are simply trying to get their dicks wet..... You should be addressing this problem among yourselves looking for a faster more efficient solution....

While you are trying to get comfortable with the idea of seeing the guy you need to keep in mind HE has a hard dick and is looking at alternatives.

Too many of you rely too heavily on "screening".....

Whoring is the oldest profession in the world right? How many tricks got turned without screening?

You should realize that guys are hooking up with whores day in and day out without this website or others like it in ways that have been around for decades if not longer.

So Whispers, can you please elaborate on your statements? Are you saying that if an escort can't screen within 30 minutes, she should just take the appointment?
Your logic is that there is competition for that dick, and the early bird gets the worm.
Or are you trying to say that providers are simply using "screening" as a delay tactic as she looks for a better score? Your argument would be a dick in her hand is worth more than the hypothetical two in her bush.
Which argument are you really making?

Since joining P411 I have not had to give references. I have not tried to see a lady that is not a member so guess I have been lucky.

DG you are probably off better that his references did not work out. He sounds like an ass.

Stay safe ladies and screen to your needs.

Stilll don't know how you do it with guys you don't know. At least we have showcase and reviews. As ugly and old as I am hopefully lady will not open door laugh and say you have got to be kidding.

Sam

Still don't know how you do it with guys you don't know. At least we have showcase and reviews. As ugly and old as I am hopefully lady will not open door laugh and say you have got to be kidding.

Sam Originally Posted by Samcro84

Think about this the next time you're giving DATY