Seeking arrangements

Just wondering if someone could explain how to go about finding actual providers on the SA site? Seems like alot of these girls are scams or are looking for an actual arrangement.

Do you just straight up throw the question out there? Or do you need to spit a little game before you ask?

The actual providers will usually find you. Sometimes they 'cold call' by bulk mailing all the guys profiles in their area.

Look for the women's profiles that have the scantily clad sexy pics, the profile names that have an 'XXX' or '69' in them. Pretty much the girls who look like hoes usually are. If they respond or start calling you 'Honey' or 'Sweetie' in the first conversation they are a pro.

The UTR gals you may need to dig a bit for, as they may not be as free wheeling on who they see as a pro hooker gal. They are more selective, well because they usually have a life and job and don't depend on screwing ten guys a day to make a living. They are in it for the extra cash.

If you think you have a pro hoe on the line, ask about meeting the same day. A pro is not going to turn away business.

The best way is to say what you want in your profile in a nice way and then by being a gentlemen.

A lot of girls want quick cash but hate being called a provider or escort or whore and some girls are not looking for first date sex please be nice to them its not a straight out hooker site. A lot of the girls want to pick out the ones they feel would be a match and just understand some are not looking for what you are and some are playing a game.

I have found that the pros don't want to do lunch and discuss an arrangement. And watch those college girls. They can blow a lot of smoke up your ass. The blue collar girls have lots of baggage. Some have steady jobs but they'll whore up a storm on the side for extra money. I met one for the first time and she had no makeup, hair pulled back, drove her own car. Second time 3.5 hrs late and had a driver, makeup, fuck me pumps and was looking me in the eye at 6'4". Said she couldn't find a babysitter but I realized, too late, that she fucked her way to me.

I can tell some HILARIOUS stories about SA chicks just in this year alone!!!

Ive regularly saw at least 5 girls this summer and 2 still reach out to me from time to time.

Took A LOT of filtering thru BS to get to this point tho

I use SA and a lot of dating sites...yes I put XXX in my handles haha. 99% of Gents get it and are totally down. No matter what the wording "bring lunch /dinner and cover my room" or "speed date with a donation towards my time and travel expenses" or "I'll get a room on my lunch break, you be a Gent and reimburse me for the room and quick date"... Gents are looking for the same thing as here but they don't want to think of themselves as seeing an escort.
I agree with nicely word it in your profile and be a Gent. I've met 2 great SDs off of there that I have real friendships with.

Lots learned from the posts here. Thanks for sharing

Seeking men/woman and Negotiable are often used in the profile as well as NSA . But not 100% of the time.

One thing to remember is on SA or CL or FB its all about the clicks to get ad money so SA is a place were girls will sign up for free and play after a while you will get good a spotting the BS and understand who is looking.

It comes down to the obvious ones looking for money. The fringe players looking for a sugar daddy may get lucky but most guys want a bump and run.

that site takes a lot of work.. just stick to the real deal.

that site takes a lot of work.. just stick to the real deal. Originally Posted by VIP Mya Michelle

SA is the real deal. Yes, it takes a little more effort and maybe a slight amount of game. But, I've had far more success on SA than on all of the "real deal" escort sites combined. I've met much nicer, younger and better looking women with absolutely great attitudes compared to what I've experienced with escorts over many, many years of hobbying. And as an added bonus, I usually spend much less money for much more time and good fun.

You sound like your in a bit of denial. But it's totally understandable.

Well put, stig

so true. I get a decent GFE deal with the SA gals everytime. Never had a SA gal cash dash me, rush me, etc.. Its worth the extra effort. And it costs less. Only advantage to using an escort, and we've all been there, is if you want something now.

Hello gents, sorry to piggy back on this thread. But how much, generally, do you pay for an SA girl? I'm thinking about daveling on Sa

Thanks for all the great info! im usually spur of the moment (like late night when im fucked up), but seems like most of you think its worth the extra effort. i will check it out.