What's an acceptable amount to pay

So this year I have decided NOT to give the thousands of dollars away for NOTHING! So, my exact question is.

Provider shows up, and not what I saw as advertised. Infact, shows up in sweats, no makeup, nothing. I'm not attracted at all. I decide this ain't happening. Do I pay gas, time reserved, nothing?

Let's ALL do this and maybe 2014, will be a good time.

Providers feel free to also respond, after all I am talking about some of YOU!

So this year I have decided NOT to give the thousands of dollars away for NOTHING! So, my exact question is.

Provider shows up, and not what I saw as advertised. Infact, shows up in sweats, no makeup, nothing. I'm not attracted at all. I decide this ain't happen. Do I pay gas, time reserved, nothing?

Let's ALL do this and maybe 2014, will be a good time.

Providers feel free to also respond, after all I am talking about some of YOU! Originally Posted by Lustnotlove

If she's polite but not your cup of tea. $20 for time and gas then say, "no thank you."

For me the answer is somewhere between jackshit and half her rate, depending. If I'm TOFTT with a BP chick at her incall and she answers the door looking nothing like her pics, I'll say something like "You're not my Aunt Eloise." or "Sorry, wrong room." And take off. Alot of them use that trick of hiding behind the door until you're all the way in the room before revealing herself. Wait for them to get away from the door before executing this maneuver. I've had a girl try to block me from leaving. You damn sure don't want to get into a physical altercation with one of these girls. Worst that happens with this technique is she tells her pimp she lost a trick and he comes out to the parking lot looking for you. Odds are you're long gone before then. Sorry, but I'm of the philosophy that if they're going to lie about what they look like, I'm going to lie about paying them.

I've only had to tell an outcall that I wasn't happy and didn't want the appointment one time. She had clearly lied about her age by a couple decades and wrinkles make my penis soft. I was honest about it without being a dick and asked if I could just compensate her for her time and gas. She countered with the whole fee and we dickered a bit, finally settling on half and me feeling stupid and resentful. I still think it was the right move though because she knew where I lived and had the ability to start all kinds of problems for me with neighbors, theft, vandalism, etc. Basically, she could have brought unwanted attention to me. I saw a couple hundred then as being alot cheaper than the potential thousands she could have cost me later.

How about giving the lady a wardrobe suggestion when setting up the date?

How about giving the lady a wardrobe suggestion when setting up the date? Originally Posted by drax1

And when she doesn't comply because you're 5 of 6 appointments that day, she's lazy/forgetful, or her schoolgirl outfit still has cum-stains from the last guy?

Now this is good exchange. I thought about 20-50 at best.
In this particular case, it wasn't a TOFTT. It's a provider who has a few good reviews.

Should the provider always tell the customer, I'm not exactly meeting ready, but if I can have more time, I have things withme?

Providers, do you carry stuff with you, so when you are out doing normal life Bussiness and decide to take an appointment while your on that side of town or whatever?

I have to admit, one of the likes about most of the agencies (Asian and Spanish), the ladies will look nice, smell nice.

I don't want to hear, well everyone can't be ready at all times. Then don't accept a request. Providers take time to have nice photos to draw the Bussiness. They take time to find 10-15 yr old photos to put in their showcase.

Now to those providers who do show up as expected or even more than, I do suggest a tip.

So this year I have decided NOT to give the thousands of dollars away for NOTHING! So, my exact question is.

Provider shows up, and not what I saw as advertised. Infact, shows up in sweats, no makeup, nothing. I'm not attracted at all. I decide this ain't happening. Do I pay gas, time reserved, nothing?

Let's ALL do this and maybe 2014, will be a good time.

Providers feel free to also respond, after all I am talking about some of YOU! Originally Posted by Lustnotlove

I'd give her $20 in this situation. Maybe $30 if I knew she got a Notel just for the appointment. If she's not as advertised, I'm not giving her full fucking price to walk away.

And when she doesn't comply because you're 5 of 6 appointments that day, she's lazy/forgetful, or her schoolgirl outfit still has cum-stains from the last guy? Originally Posted by enderwiggin

I haven't experienced that situation. I don't do same day appointments. I usually make morning or early afternoon appointments. That might be my cum stains you're referring to.

... Provider shows up, and not what I saw as advertised ... Originally Posted by Lustnotlove

Inviting strangers do one's house is living dangerously. I suggest erring on the side of generosity if this is how you choose to do your hobby business. Like buying Insurance: nobody likes paying the premium but everyone is happy to have it when the house burns down.

Here's a suggestion. You make a check a list of what you want and discuss it with the well researched, well chosen provider that you want to see and make it clear that this is the arrangement you both are entering into. Anything less than what is agreed upon will render the agreement null and void. I'm not trying to come down heavy on the girls because I have to say I choose carefully and I'm easy to please but sometimes I do make requests and they have always had no trouble complying. Bottom line is they provide the service and if you're going to add a few extra toppings then that's the deal and of course for some kind of really exotic topping then they should be a bit more compensated. If they agree then they should be held accountable and if they fail then tough titty city kitty. It would be the same thing if you did all the above and then when they arrived you told them Sorry baby but I'm a little short in the greens. They would be justified in asking for some partial compensation and then splattering your brains all over Co-Ed. But that's just me. Good luck and let us see the review.

For me the answer is somewhere between jackshit and half her rate, depending. If I'm TOFTT with a BP chick at her incall and she answers the door looking nothing like her pics, I'll say something like "You're not my Aunt Eloise." or "Sorry, wrong room." And take off. Alot of them use that trick of hiding behind the door until you're all the way in the room before revealing herself. Wait for them to get away from the door before executing this maneuver. I've had a girl try to block me from leaving. You damn sure don't want to get into a physical altercation with one of these girls. Worst that happens with this technique is she tells her pimp she lost a trick and he comes out to the parking lot looking for you. Odds are you're long gone before then. Sorry, but I'm of the philosophy that if they're going to lie about what they look like, I'm going to lie about paying them. Originally Posted by enderwiggin

And when she doesn't comply because you're 5 of 6 appointments that day, she's lazy/forgetful, or her schoolgirl outfit still has cum-stains from the last guy? Originally Posted by enderwiggin

Just a little Tide To Go should fix her up, since she's just gonna bathe with baby wipes anyway.


Just make sure the last guy isn't still wearing it when I show up.



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Twenty Dollars & Zero Cents($20.00)

There seems to be a trend in the amount.

Does it matter if it is a provider with decent reviews and not a newbie BP?

They should know better so...Nope.

If I go to her incall (and I'd never, ever invite a provider to my place) and she's much different than advertised, I don't give her a dime. I see zero reason to reward deceptive advertising. If she's only slightly different (say, year old pictures and she's gained 10 lbs) then I either go through with the session or tell her "I don't think we're a good fit" and give her $20 for her time.

If I were to invite a provider to my place and had this happen, I'd give her the minimum required to go away without causing me problems, and then I'd hit myself on the head with a 2x4 and remind myself to never, ever bring a provider to my home again.