No. 1 Thing A Hobbyist Requests in Private but...

Ladies, he's inside the locale for your encounter and asks to...? What's the No. 1 request you receive from Hobbyists that he'd vehemently deny?
Ladies, he's inside the locale for your encounter and asks to...? What's the No. 1 request you receive from Hobbyists that he'd vehemently deny? Originally Posted by txcwby6
Well there are a couple that I get:

#1 and for most is BBFS, which makes me wonder if I said something in my ads or on my showcase that made guys assume I do that...

#2 is MMF action, I'm a freak so I'm down. It's just hard to find 2 guys that I think will be comfortable with each other with out them meeting first. And it's hard to get them to meet, if they don't want anyone to know...
Well there are a couple that I get:

#1 and for most is BBFS, which makes me wonder if I said something in my ads or on my showcase that made guys assume I do that...

#2 is MMF action, I'm a freak so I'm down. It's just hard to find 2 guys that I think will be comfortable with each other with out them meeting first. And it's hard to get them to meet, if they don't want anyone to know... Originally Posted by AmberBamber
Of course all guys want #1 in a perfect world. Most reasonable guys should know this is not the place for that to occur. And the ladies are wise to avoid the guys who want it, because they probably are getting it somewhere else, and that can have dangerous consequences.

#2 would be hot to try, but yes due to guys discretion concerns, its rare for it to happen. On the other hand, the FFFM review of you recently is totally off the chain!
I'm no provider, but to underscore Amber's point...per some of the BCD discussions I've had post-session, #3 (or 2a?) on that list is probably MTF.

This probably lends itself to the TS-phobia that exists elsewhere on ECCIE...right?
Toys in their ass.
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I miss the old days of BBFS but gave it up about '86 or '87 ....times change for sure!
I am surprised how many seek it though

Finally got to do MFM, I did not know him or meet with him before hand but we both knew her and for me it was super hot and very very fun. I would love to do F-M-TS , no phobia here just that I'm not too into the ass play but the oral challenge would be cool. Then I really do what to do MFF ( vs. MFM which I've done...)

My latest frequent request has been for DFM after a BBBJCIM...(usually mine) ... For some reason it has been the hot button...
On the other hand, the FFFM review of you recently is totally off the chain! Originally Posted by Falcon58
Thanks it was some freaky fun. There will definitely be more to cum.
Prostate massage and strap on play.

I seriously don't see what the big deal is, but I come from a medical background, have had a child and am a sex worker.....nothing shocks me! Nothing to be ashamed of! Just means you like ass play and one hell of an intense orgasm and are comfortable enough with yourself to ask for what you want!

+1 on the MMF or me acting as Domme forcing my sub to go Bi. Consentual non consentual of course!
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1) Prostate massage. 2) daddy/daughter roleplay
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1) Prostate massage. 2) daddy/daughter roleplay Originally Posted by spicyzoey
I expect the RP requested is be based on your looks. You have a very young look. I am certain there are some women who regularly get requested to fill the mom role.
SOUNDS
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I expect the RP requested is be based on your looks. You have a very young look. I am certain there are some women who regularly get requested to fill the mom role. Originally Posted by mrhamm
I get a lot of requests for age play. Generally, I'm in the "mom" role.

But I would have to agree with a few of the ladies above. I get the most requests for anal play (including prostate stimulation), toy use and forced bisexuality.

Although often, I just don't have the extra guy around for it to actually happen but with time and some planning, sometimes it's come together!

I've certainly had some pretty macho men have no issue with having a dildo put in his mouth and told how to suck it.

I don't see this as being less masculine. Just a normal little variety in everyday sexuality.

I'm sure that some might disagree with me, though. I find that men who are more open, sexually, tend to be more worldly and (sometimes) well traveled than others.
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I expect the RP requested is be based on your looks. You have a very young look. I am certain there are some women who regularly get requested to fill the mom role. Originally Posted by mrhamm
Luckily, it's a request I don't mind. I kinda think it makes things fun to role play. My mother looked very young for quite a long time, so I imagine I might look like a teenager (even though I am not one anymore) for a while yet...
SOUNDS Originally Posted by *GoddessDallas*
Wow, that's really among the top requests? To each his own of course, but personally I will never understand why a guy would do that to himself or allow it to be done. I mean, I get the "hurts so good" thing in theory, but jesus, there have to be limits. I dunno, a lot of the more extreme BDSM stuff freaks me out. The medical stuff is another thing that I kind of get, but when I look at pics of the kind of hardware they use, just freaks me the hell out. Guess I'm just squeamish.
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Prostate massage and strap on play.

I seriously don't see what the big deal is, but I come from a medical background, have had a child and am a sex worker.....nothing shocks me! Nothing to be ashamed of! Just means you like ass play and one hell of an intense orgasm and are comfortable enough with yourself to ask for what you want!

+1 on the MMF or me acting as Domme forcing my sub to go Bi. Consentual non consentual of course! Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi
Hmmm....
Never done it but sounds kinda fun !