Why do you schedule 30 min?

I’m dying for an answer here lol. I offered them years ago for a very short time before I figured out they were only for those trying to push them to 40/45 minutes. These days it’s pretty rare an encounter only lasts an hour and most are 2-3, so when the rare person asks for a hh rate it makes me laugh a little. How do you dress and undress plus have any fun at all in 30 minutes? Do tell.

I’ve wondered the same thing

Why do I schedule 30 minutes? Because Science!

https://www.jsm.jsexmed.org/article/...017-8/fulltext

I don't, and people in general don't need more than 30 minutes to get off sufficiently.

I haven't done a session longer than an hour and I am wondering what you are doing for 2-3 hours.

I have not done half hour appts, but, there are times when i wish i would of. lol My thoughts are this.... Some "providers", no matter if you schedule, an hour, two hours etc, try to get you in and out the door as fast as they can. Or they will "give" you the full hours time but, look at their phones, have a cigarette break, text, etc.. making you want to leave. So why pay for the full hours time? Then there are providers like yourself, true professionals, experts at their craft, that know how to fill the time, whether its an hour, two hours, an evening etc and give you their full attention and make our time together an very good experience. So perhaps the gentlemen that ask you for half hours do not know your reputation as being a true pro, and assume you are going to chase them out. Also, there are times when we just want to sneak out of the house or office and have a quickie. That is my view.

If I schedule 30 minutes, it's because my schedule is usually very busy and that's the only amount of time I can carve out. With time to get ready, travel time to and from the appointment, a half hour session consumes 2+ hours. I can't usually spare more time than that. I prefer an hour or 90 minutes, but it's hard to find that much time.

Why do I schedule 30 minutes? Because Science!

https://www.jsm.jsexmed.org/article/...017-8/fulltext

I don't, and people in general don't need more than 30 minutes to get off sufficiently.

I haven't done a session longer than an hour and I am wondering what you are doing for 2-3 hours. Originally Posted by Depurefymii

I wouldn’t say the average client’s goal is just to get off, that can be done in the safety of your own home for free but understood. I’m doing exactly what you think I’m doing for 2-3 hours and enjoying every minute lol. I just can’t imagine 30 minutes, but then again I can’t imagine rushing or checking my phone.

Interesting. I had to ask since I got a text from NY that asked for 15 min and 30 min rates. I just ignored it but I know a lot of the reviews here are for less than an hour so I had to ask what the main motivation is....

I recently had a dinner date with a lady friend from turtle creek that I wished had qv. these days I only do multiple hour dates. The experience of a dinner date with benefits just suits my lifestyle better these days.

Time. Usually a lack of it.

My prep time is my prep time. My drive time is my drive time. Often I will need to devote and hour and a half to two hours to those parts of the process, round trip. All the while building various levels of anticipation and frustration.

My motivation is to relax, enjoy, refresh and recharge my batteries.

So it comes down to time and then what I am craving. Who I am craving. If I want a new experience with someone I know can get that job done or as a test of your adaptability, innovation and ability to manage my experience. I'm counting on you to be prompt and have the EI and interpersonal savvy to deliver an experience that is concentrated, focused and still rewarding.

And that's knowing that the per minute rate for a 30 is typically higher than the per minute rate for an hour or longer appointments.

If I want 3 hours and have the time I may need 5. I'm going to need to do that on a weekend when I have more time, not the work week when I come with the baggage of a compressed schedule and/or the stress of my job and really just want to go home, eat dinner and get into my wind down routine so I can try to go to bed and not get much sleep.

If you can provide me with legitimate respite and escape from my life and my stresses, even in a half hour increment, then you'll find me appreciative.

And when I say it's about what I'm craving I mean it. Whether it be something vanilla or risqué, sneaky or that would blow the doors off the barn. Maybe even as simple as just showering together followed by cuddling until the timer goes off, just so I can unwind.

Comes down to time, then what I'm craving

I’m dying for an answer here lol. I offered them years ago for a very short time before I figured out they were only for those trying to push them to 40/45 minutes. These days it’s pretty rare an encounter only lasts an hour and most are 2-3, so when the rare person asks for a hh rate it makes me laugh a little. How do you dress and undress plus have any fun at all in 30 minutes? Do tell. Originally Posted by MorganOBM

You're thinking of this from a single perspective, as a good provider. There are not many providers that are out there that are interesting or engaging enough to even want to have a drink with let alone spend multiple hours. The average provider just wants to get you in, get you off and get you out. Even some of the higher priced girls are that way. It takes a lot of time to find the right provider that is a fit for both where a whole evening appointment is worth it. Otherwise just a waste of cash.

I’ve never heard of trying to push 30 into 40/45 but if a provider offers 30 minute rates and I’m interested I usually go for that. It’s been summed up for you already but it’s both the lack of anymore time than that being required to complete my task and factors like available time or funds even. Being rushed out like another said is commonplace too and it doesn’t matter sometimes if you’re a qv or full hour to some providers.

It doesn’t take me but a second to strip down and ready up though so even if they were all great time fillers I might still shoot for 30 minutes because why not?

I rarely ask just because I don’t want to come across as cheap but I understand it. I don’t want anyone near my junk for about an hour after I pop so it’s one and done for me. But even with that I like a lot of foreplay and visual stimulation so it may take 35-40 minutes so an hour is fine.

I started doing 1/2hrs 10years ago. I’m usually out the door in 20minutes. 2 pops in an hour is not a goal for me anymore. I don’t waste time. But I don’t rush either. I can get my rocks off in less than 30minutes. Mission accomplished.

I play mostly during the weekdays morning/afternoon. My regulars generally use their hour lunch breaks to see me. I am 10 min from downtown so hhr works well. I do randomly get hotels to see new people and have longer more intimate encounters. Such as birthdays and special occasions where I plan something unique for the client. Which usually involves a blindfold for some reason. 🤷♀️ I don’t mind hhr. Conversation etc usually isn’t good anyway when someone is in a rush and thinking of work etc.

I play mostly during the weekdays morning/afternoon. My regulars generally use their hour lunch breaks to see me. I am 10 min from downtown so hhr works well. I do randomly get hotels to see new people and have longer more intimate encounters. Such as birthdays and special occasions where I plan something unique for the client. Which usually involves a blindfold for some reason. 🤷♀️ I don’t mind hhr. Conversation etc usually isn’t good anyway when someone is in a rush and thinking of work etc. Originally Posted by klassygerl

Exactly.

I've yet to meet someone who would realistically do a whole hour, or would not charge double the rate for mpop. Every non-massage place I've visited is pop and out the door