See a newbie friendly provider. Write a review and get premium access. Do your homework. Zero in on the ladies you'd like to eventually see and reach out to them. Be nice and think about their safety. Work up to their requirements and you ought to be set.
Above all, don't be a dick.
Originally Posted by private2
The only thing I would add is don't necessarily limit yourself to Eccie. I personally have found Preferred411 has allowed me to meet several young, petite and beautiful ladies. Many of their reviews are on Eccie but I have found it most useful to utilize both sites. There are others too, of course but I know this one works well for me. Narrow down to a favorite list, find their reveiws on Eccie, analyze, make the decision and follow private2's advice above. Best of luck.