If you have to come on a hooker board to act like a stud and hire hookers to make you feel like a stud you have a sorry life. It's pathetic to worry about your online persona so much when your real life is what's fucked up.
Lose some weight or change your attitude or whatever you need to do so that a woman will actually want to have sex with you in the real world.
When your sexual needs are being met in the real world providers can be treated as a hobby in your sex life instead of being your sex life.