Ladies , what are your feelings about regulars ?

I was just curious how most of you ladies feel about your regular clients . Other than the consistent ( usually ) income , do you still get excited about seeing the same person every week ( or every 2 weeks ) ? And what do most of you consider a regular ( see the once a week , once a month , etc... ) ?

Regulars are great. You build up a comfort level which makes the time together that much better.

It is so much more relaxing and yet not quite the thrill of someone new.

I have grown to adore my regulars and it does make scheduling alot easier.

I consider someone a regular if I see him more than once. From my experience that is all it takes for a gentlemen to decide whether he wants to see me on a consistent basis.

Many of my regulars are in Texas. Therefore, when I do have the opportunity to visit I am excited. I feel as though I am going to be reunited with a former lover. I pick up where I left off.

To be honest, not seeing each other on a weekly basis keeps the experience fresh. Great advantage.

Kisses

Love 'em. The experience just gets better when the nervousness is over and each person really starts to become attuned to the other. I consider a "regular" someone who sees me on any consistent basis, whether weekly, monthly, even seasonally for some of my business traveling friends who live elsewhere.

I consider a regular someone I visit with weekly/monthly.

I adore my regulars they became friends on a hobby level,To me its always fresh and exciting The more you know the person the better you two learn whats marks each other feel better than the last time you were together .

Safire Sweet

Not to imply that the ladies don't honestly enjoy their regulars, but this would be a fairly difficult question for them to answer in the negative, don't you think?

i consider a regular someone i see weekly or bi weekly. I actually look more forward to seeing my regulars because we have already started building our chemistry. I feel more comfortable bringing entertainment and extras and going out with them or cutting them breaks based on whats going on in our lives.

My view on what defines a regular is somewhat different, but I feel if we have seen each other several times or whenever we can get together, you are a regular. I have friends that I don't get to see but a few times a year, maybe even twice a year. But the fact that we have evolved over the years to be really close with respect to our boundaries is the coolest thing ever. It's one of those things in life that some people tell you can't happen. You can't have sex with a person, genuinely care about them, AND have money involved, and go on about your daily lives. I'm lucky to know the men I consider regulars...

Not to imply that the ladies don't honestly enjoy their regulars, but this would be a fairly difficult question for them to answer in the negative, don't you think? Originally Posted by TheBizz

I agree, don't see too many ads saying I am sick of my regulars, please somebody new show up.

I always figured seeing regulars allowed the ladies to plan their liquor intake better to maintain that illusion of passion.

Brutal.

*Giggling*

I agree, don't see too many ads saying I am sick of my regulars, please somebody new show up.

I always figured seeing regulars allowed the ladies to plan their liquor intake better to maintain that illusion of passion. Originally Posted by monkmonk

Good topic - thanks. I'm still pretty new to the hobby (have seen 2 providers). Both times, I've had a great experience, but I keep thinking that I would have an even better time if I went back to see these ladies after having the initial get-to-know-you experience. It seems like we would be more comfortable with each other and could start out in second gear rather than first gear, so to speak. However, I read one post somewhere where a guy said his repeat experiences weren't as good as his first experiences because he felt the ladies just went through the motions now that they had hooked him. I'm encouraged to hear some of you ladies saying that it can get better with repeat business and that you can develop a level of comfort and relationship with a client. I'm not naive enough to think that we're going to become truly close friends like might happen if we met outside of the hobby, but I'd like to think that we could develop a level of friendship within the context of what we're doing and that our experiences together could get better.

I guess that brings up another thought. I suppose it is possible that the follow up visits could get better and then level off and eventually become stale. Has that been the case for anyone?

In my limited experience I've found that first visits and repeats have their own form of rewards. First time visits have the excitement and a certain anxiety attached which has a certain kind of rush. Whereas repeat visits have the advantage of familiarity and starting to know and be comfortable with each other. Both can be great. When you find someone you really click with, repeats are particularly good. Of course if it didn't really click the first time there is no real reason to go back for seconds in this great Dallas market.

To see a regular ATF or try someone new? I try to see RHJ every week. Part of not seeing someone new is the hassle of screening. I used to write reviews on ASPD but have only written 1 on ECCIE and only because it was such a bad experience I felt others should be warned. With no positive reviews for a provider to see if I am a hobbiest or Lurker I have to try to remember who I have seen and realize I see the same 2 or 3 ladies all the time makes seeing someone new not happen at all. I'm not saying she shouldn't screen. Just saying I'm too lazy to become a regular with another provider. Excuse my rambling hi-jack of the thread.

I can't stand them!!!

I am so kidding! I have been seeing some of the same gentlemen for going on 5 years and It is just as exciting as it was the first time I met them. Some I see weekly, others monthly...either way, we have great chemistry and they are the best part time boyfriends ever!