I can't be fixed:(

Once the session ends, my high fades, the search for the next provider begins. I'm tired of this constant urge that some would call addiction. But how can something so natural even be classified as an addiction? I digress. I get great sex from my lover so sex is definitely not what I'm looking for. I should be enjoying the hobby but I always have it in the back of my mind that this woman I'm on top of probably loathes me more than I'll ever know. I've seen a few more than I've reviewed, one being quite reputable so they aren't the problem. I just want to either have fun at hobbying or let it go all together. One thing I can add is that I generally let the provider direct most of the session. Perhaps I can be more vocal about the things I like. Hell we can pillow fight for all I care as long as I'm in the presence of a beautiful woman I'm satisfied I dunno...just thinking out loud here.

Okbye

WELL I LOVE THE ADDICTION!!! AND YOUR AVATAR!!!

Yep, sounds like you're addicted, Jay! I've fought off a few addictions in my life and can tell you, that's how they work: as soon as the high leaves, the mind begins to beg for another!!! It's crazy, man. But I gotta tell you, being hooked on beautiful women isn't that bad is it??!

I don't think so!!!!!!!!!

being hooked on beautiful women isn't that bad is it? Originally Posted by Ladies' Gent

Right On! We've all got our addictions, beautiful women surely is not a bad one!

+1 LG and MH

I don't see a problem with being addicted to being with beautiful women,but being addicted to paying to be with beautiful women(especially the 200/hr,300/hr variety) can be quite taxing on the wallet.However,true addiction means you will do anything to get that substance in your veins(or that lady in your bed)and that beast needs to be quelled quickly.And of course the people you're paying love that you have this addiction.

All women, especially beautiful women, cost money and resources. When I was a family provider, most all my money and time went toward my family. Now that I no longer have those responsibilities, my priorities have changed and my extra money goes toward my personal pursuits. I have found that when left to myself I can't get away from beautiful women. So in various ways for various girls I spend money on them. And you are right for the most part they love receiving my gifts.

In each situation I want the girl to get what she wants and I make it clear what I want. If we agree we usually both have fun. And having fun is the major requirement for wanting to be with and return to, any girl. I am seeing a girl now who admits to being a sex addict. After some discussion she convinced me that I was as well. Now I am proud of it (as is she!). So yes, beautiful women and good sex cost money. Personally I forgo vacations/entertainment events/new vehicles/etc. to maintain my passion. My choice and I love it. And I love the girls who love me with it.

I don't see a problem with being addicted to being with beautiful women,but being addicted to paying to be with beautiful women(especially the 200/hr,300/hr variety) can be quite taxing on the wallet.However,true addiction means you will do anything to get that substance in your veins(or that lady in your bed)and that beast needs to be quelled quickly.And of course the people you're paying love that you have this addiction. Originally Posted by mrmike69

Ahhhhh...... Sweet Addiction .... LMAO

I was in a 20+ year marriage..... the last 4 years were 100% "Marriage Without Benefits"
I spend now only a small percentage of what it was costing me to support a loveless & sexless marriage and the quality of service has exponentially gone through the roof. I no longer have to furnish new cars, insurance, a nice home, all the food, all the clothes etc etc, and I haven’t paid for a hairdresser or a facial in some time now…..Arrrgggg….. Well … maybe I have paid for a facial a few times lately. HaHa!
I absolutely love the hobby and the ladies that I see are more than awesome. Yes I pay for their company, but “not even” on the same level.
My hat’s off to each and every Independent lady out there & to each and every hobbyist that enjoys the finer things in life.
To quote a very good friend of mine “Red Meat, Good Whiskey, and Beautiful Ladies”
What more can be said?
MGL

An addiction is defined as the habitual use of something that alters the mood or mind. The thrill and excitement of sex with someone new releases a wave of chemicals, endorphins, and hormones, so I'd say it's easy to become addicted to this hobby. Not getting the same high from an SO is absolutely normal. Being in a long term relationship, as well as having children lowers a mans testosterone, natures way of making it easier for a man to stick around and protect his seeds. Also making the high of seeing an escort all the more intense. Being an enthusiast of worldly sins isn't so bad, as long as you don't let your habit become destructive. If your mortgage and car payment are falling behind cause you just haaaad to have the traveling girl, you may need SA.

What you're feeling is normal, and to be expected, just keep it in check, and enjoy. Everything is good in moderation.

Here are some good reads on the subject.
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases...1010180134.htm
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/13/he...tosterone.html
http://healthland.time.com/2011/09/1...-testosterone/