"First Impressions - Gentlemen you're thoughts?"

Recently I walked into a friends rooms, she had changed the bedding, lighting (color buds), had hygiene products just for gentlemen and other decorations that will turn any room into a sexy fantasy getaway. I take this idea and have made it into my own. Have you even walked into a providers hotel room decorated by her? how did you feel about it and did it make a difference?
I have encountered very nice settings with extra touches that were totally unexpected, and greatly appreciated. It makes for a great time and a lasting impression..............
I think the question should include private incalls as well - as I prefer to not use hotels being that I often break from tours. I know I take pride in my incall and designed it as a romantic and neat home away from home on ranch land. It's a dream to escape the city and see scenic land, horses in the back, INSIDE the city with no need to travel. I also love candles and incense but work to not over do it.
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How a provider has set up her room before the encounter can create a lasting impression.

. . . Years ago, I went to see one of my favorites and she had taken the trouble to place new roses on a vase and had scattered rose petals from the entrance leading up to her bed. The entire scene was unexpected and lit up with romantic candles. She did it for my birthday and I still remember what a precious memory it left in my mind intermingled with passionate love-making that would make any king proud of his wench.

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You only get ONE chance to make a GREAT impression.
I pretty much just look for clean and safe. Once that hurdle has passed, for me, the atmosphere doesn't matter much. I'm pretty much focused on the provider.
That looks wonderful!

I would then take her into the bathroom.......I'd be afraid I was gonna get something dirty!
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lol---I decorate my hotel rooms...I usually do the bedding/hygeine products/bath salts & soaps....and ai even have candles andcandy,along with a table set up of funky skull decorations on a skull scarf

atmosphere is a priority to make a session run smooth!
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  • 11-23-2013, 09:27 AM
Of course it makes a difference. At least to some of us. It all comes down to What is important to the guy?

There are some who really don't care about that. They set aside 15-20 min, want something safe & clean and anything above that is superfluous in their minds. For many of us, the atmosphere matters a lot, and I always appreciate a lady's incall having some obvious signs that she took the time and though to make it appealing to the senses. When I have a lady over I definitely try to do the same.

But the real "first impression" occurs long before opening the door. It's the way she presents herself in her web site, her posts, etc.
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Taint makes an excellent first impression.
Of course it makes a difference. At least to some of us. It all comes down to What is important to the guy?

There are some who really don't care about that. They set aside 15-20 min, want something safe & clean and anything above that is superfluous in their minds. For many of us, the atmosphere matters a lot, and I always appreciate a lady's incall having some obvious signs that she took the time and though to make it appealing to the senses. When I have a lady over I definitely try to do the same.

But the real "first impression" occurs long before opening the door. It's the way she presents herself in her web site, her posts, etc. Originally Posted by Old-T
It's definitely not a big deal for me, even when it's 30 min, 1 hour, or multi-hour. I like things that would be considered superfluous to others; atmosphere just isn't one of them.

To providers, all I need is you (um, plus the safe and clean part).
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I pretty much just look for clean and safe. Once that hurdle has passed, for me, the atmosphere doesn't matter much. I'm pretty much focused on the provider. Originally Posted by emptywallet
This, but mainly because I usually only book hour appointments so I'm usually more concerned with trying to have time for all the stuff I want to do(the list isn't long) without running over time.

I did have one provider romance up the place a bit with candles, music ect. and even though the first visit with her was lackluster, she's one of the few I've seen more than twice and plan on seeing until she retires or I do.

I'm not saying a couple candles and Adele playing is enough to get me to be a lifetime member of your club, but it did show she cared and that was enough for me to give her a second chance.

I do notice the decor(bad word choice but I can't think of a more appropriate word at the time) of a ladies incall, so maybe I would notice and appreciate personal touches she did if they seemed like obvious personal touches and not just "neat, this hotel is pretty nice!" things.
Oh yes, some of the gals really go out of their way.
I remember one gal, met her at a nice hotel, the hotel was valet only.
When she opened the door to her huge room, she pulled me in and kissed me dressed in lingerie. All make up and all like on a date.
It was dimly light with candles all over the living room and bedroom. Enough light to see everything but not bright.
She was on the high end rightfully so, given the accommodations.

One of the best incalls I have ever been to and a very memorable experience.
Can't say what other guys tastes are, mine is all about leading up to the fun, the communication, and visuals.

Am I likely to repeat with a gal at a nice place? Along with a fun time. Definitely!!
Your posted pic reminded me of that DD, except the lights were off and only lighting was candles.
If I walked into that my first thought would be that someone had gone to some extra effort and that this is going to be a great session. A lady that pays attention to those kinds of details likely pays it to other details. And if the atmosphere makes HER feel it, I am already ahead of the game.
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To me it makes a big difference and a very positive experience. It shows to me someone who is professional in everything. In my last review I talked about this and it could be a big reason that I have only seen her since.