Cum only in dominant form

Can someone confirm that this is kinda norm?
Ultimately only able to cum or stay fully erect when in a dominant position.
i.e. Mish, doggie, etc.
If ever in cg, acg, etc, it only last so long before losing chubness.
And that goes for oral as well.
So if i'm not doing the damage, then it just doesnt work.

Weird? Too much in my head?
Oh well.

Cheers.

I feel your pain. You're not alone.

To me its more "Go hard or go home." Idk why but in any position for me, if im not trying to pound hard then ill get limp. A rare occasion but still exist.

For me its all good. No matter it its slow or fast, easy or hard pounding, the position or who is on top. I stay hard until I pop. The caveat is that there ain't gonna be a round 2 for a while.

Thats def a better way to describe it. Thanks.
Gotta be in control and causing damage, no matter what position im in, or else i lose chubness. So its not the position as much as its the dominance.
Gotta do the pounding.

addicted2U, i think this sums it up for you: "Gotta be in control and causing damage"

if you can change your mindset to "enjoying the delites in all its various ways" (which includes "gotta be in control"), you might be able to experience intimate consulting in a different way.

but, it's your choice and your delites.

very true. Need to get out of my head a bit.
I need a good therapist... and here is where i'll find it.
New goal. "Just enjoy, and allow her to ride the nut out of you."