I don't see providers often, I saw two last year but before that I hadn't seen one for three years. I definitely prefer private incalls, but are no-tell motels safe? I always get nervous and think the cops are about to bust through the door!
I always do my provider research on TER and Eccie and go through verification, so I am pretty sure they're legitimate. I actually just totally ignore providers that have names like Bunny that can't be researched on review sites as a result.