Making Hobbyist Happy!

I posted on BP and did not realize how much BS is on there. As a new provider I want to provide the best services possible, so of course you check out competition in your area, but when you google the number, and find fifty different girls, names, and photos under the same account you ralize you may be the only real provider in the area, but then you wonder why is your traffic so low?

You work hard to get the reviews, and repeat clientele to find other providers seem to be out for you because you are the competition now! stealing ads, formations and even photos! (SAD BECAUSE IF YOU ARE REAL THINGS ARE MUCH EASIER!) Haters come from everywhere!

I am just trying to make the world happier one hobbyist at a time!
Google the numbers fellas, because we all dont have the same agenda, and bait & switch is real!

You could make this hobbyist happy by posting taint.

1.Forget BP. Advertise here and P411. 2. Enjoy being with your clients. It might be a business to you but for some it is the only intimacy they get. Don't make men shower and gargle when they arrive. Forget about CBJs. Try to offer something the others don't. CIM, BBBJNQNS, Greek and squirting are just a few. Look at your pricing. If you are 400/hr or over many gentlemen can't afford you. Be real and honest. If there is something that makes you feel really good give lessons in doing it. Lastly, pleasing a man is an art. Teach your clients how to please you and if they are slow learners or just downright lousy in the sack then please yourself for them. When you are happy, your clients will think they are the best thing since sliced bread. When their endorphins clear they may or may not come back. As with any business good service will bring return clients. Oh, if you are a BBW there won't be as many interested. Also make a showcase. You don't need to show your face but the gents want to see what they can.

1.Forget BP. Advertise here and P411. 2. Enjoy being with your clients. It might be a business to you but for some it is the only intimacy they get. Don't make men shower and gargle when they arrive. Forget about CBJs. Try to offer something the others don't. CIM, BBBJNQNS, Greek and squirting are just a few. Look at your pricing. If you are 400/hr or over many gentlemen can't afford you. Be real and honest. If there is something that makes you feel really good give lessons in doing it. Lastly, pleasing a man is an art. Teach your clients how to please you and if they are slow learners or just downright lousy in the sack then please yourself for them. When you are happy, your clients will think they are the best thing since sliced bread. When their endorphins clear they may or may not come back. As with any business good service will bring return clients. Oh, if you are a BBW there won't be as many interested. Also make a showcase. You don't need to show your face but the gents want to see what they can. Originally Posted by heinz5710

Good advice. As a guy, this is my process. I use BP but only as a place to just look. I will never book a BP girl unless I have a second source of info on her. BP is the LAST place I would advertise if I were a provider. First, like you mentioned, there are so many fakes out there. Second, guys will wonder if you are a fake even if you are real. Third, don't be surprised if your pics get stolen on BP. Fourth, if you do advertise on BP make it clear you are on other sites and/or have reviews. There are creative ways of getting that info out on BP.

As for differentiating yourself, try something new. Maybe consider a clock-free date. I think this is one area girls could really separate themselves from the masses. If girls do their market research properly, they can set a fair price and give guys what they want instead of some pre-packaged formula of X amount of time for X amount of dollars. Hobbyists come in all forms. There are guys who want quickies. There are guys who want the hour, but I think a new niche trend in the hobby is expanding GFE. In the past GFE has focused on activities. Maybe it is time for GFE to focus on quality, and a no-clock approach would be a good way to go. Think of it this way. This approach would also help preserve the notion of being low volume. As a girl, what is more important-- getting more money by seeing more men or maybe getting a little less money but seeing far fewer men? Let's say a provider seed 4 men at 1 hour session and gets 200 per session. That's 800/day. Let's say she has a clock free option and only sees 2 guys a day at 350/session. That is 700/day. Sure it is less than 800/day but it is also only seeing 2 guys. By the way, I'd define clock free as up to 2 1/2 hours. I don't mean to imply an all day or over night type date.

One way to make sure you're pics aren't stolen and used in other ads is use a simple sign with your name, contact info and date. Update it regularly. You don't need it in every pic, guys can catch on that the pics are the same chick if you wear the same attire in all your pics. Couple of pics on some hot cocktail dress and a couple of pics in some lingerie or whatever, and at least one sign pic per outfit would pretty much be enough for me to say they're real pics.

I also agree with what heinz and Cpa said. Make the extra effort to set the mood in the place and make the guy happy, not every guy will notice but a lot will if you have dimmed lighting and candles going with music to romanticize the place a bit.

I have to agree with some of the comments above, I have never seen a girl off BP without some other way to verify who she is and most important no LEO. Where I live they have bust's all the time off BP. You would think sooner or later these clowns would get wise but I guess not.

I NEVER choose a lady based on their BP ad. I choose them from ECCIE or P411. If they just happen to "also" post on BP, I don't necessarily cross them off the list for that, but it lowers my image of them.

1.Forget BP. Advertise here and P411. 2. Enjoy being with your clients. It might be a business to you but for some it is the only intimacy they get. Don't make men shower and gargle when they arrive. Forget about CBJs. Try to offer something the others don't. CIM, BBBJNQNS, Greek and squirting are just a few. Look at your pricing. If you are 400/hr or over many gentlemen can't afford you. Be real and honest. If there is something that makes you feel really good give lessons in doing it. Lastly, pleasing a man is an art. Teach your clients how to please you and if they are slow learners or just downright lousy in the sack then please yourself for them. When you are happy, your clients will think they are the best thing since sliced bread. When their endorphins clear they may or may not come back. As with any business good service will bring return clients. Oh, if you are a BBW there won't be as many interested. Also make a showcase. You don't need to show your face but the gents want to see what they can. Originally Posted by heinz5710

Darling, you forget she's in MS. BP is the only solid venue for the state. Secondly, she probably wouldn't be 400/hr. She is already on P411. Third, depending on her area, most DESIRABLE men aren't that savvy, and don't cruise the internet to meet women. And contrary to your belief, in MS, men like thicker women which she doesn't happen to be. And there are plenty of unverified REAL escorts on BP that are probably wondering the same thing.

Let's cool the jets on the assumptions, and allow her to show you who she is. She'll get it together shortly.

Darling, you forget she's in MS. BP is the only solid venue for the state. Secondly, she probably wouldn't be 400/hr. She is already on P411. Third, depending on her area, most DESIRABLE men aren't that savvy, and don't cruise the internet to meet women. And contrary to your belief, in MS, men like thicker women which she doesn't happen to be. And there are plenty of unverified REAL escorts on BP that are probably wondering the same thing.

Let's cool the jets on the assumptions, and allow her to show you who she is. She'll get it together shortly. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

I cruised over to the Miss. ECCIE to see how busy they were. They are not Texas, but they have a fair amount of activity. I don't go on BP in Oklahoma because ECCIE is very active here, but ECCIE is still growing in some areas. Last I looked I had more posts than all of Florida.

MS has a very active market. Biloxi is a gambling hub for a lot of guys in the south who go there for a weekend and I know providers who travel there frequently to gamble themselves and provide while there

you should get something set up on here and market yourself, BP is fun to look at but the couple times i have actually tried to contact its been a waste of time or i felt something fishy going on.

If you post pics, don't do the excessive "sexy" "precious" "luscious" overlays that the BP girls do.

and we do have a fairly active bunch. Post up some pics, that'll help you bigtime.