Why would one charge the same high rate if the guy only wants a bj or a massage?

You do realize MANY girls offer both massage and gfe at two different rates. do you consider it an "upsell" or two different areas of the market?

You are paying for time.

How about making the Search tab a friend and do some homework. You will learn a lot more and I will not be telling you to download porn.

You are paying for time.

How about making the Search tab a friend and do some homework. You will learn a lot more and I will not be telling you to download porn. Originally Posted by pyramider

well i just ask for some tips from hobbyists, who're longer in the game than me. so if you got offended ,my apologies mate

I am not offended. I believe newbies should be do their homework and then ask questions. Many of life's questions can be answered by looking.

You do realize MANY girls offer both massage and gfe at two different rates. do you consider it an "upsell" or two different areas of the market? Originally Posted by capitalvista

2 different areas.
There are guys who don't wish to fuck and are comfortable with just paying for a good rub down and release.

If you seek out a lady that has a full menu but you only want to sample a specific item on the menu (unless she specifically advertises different prices) I would think her advertised rate is the rate she expects regardless of your limited preferences. Your mindset is kindave like going to a buffet restaurant and thinking it should be a different price because you only want dessert.

Just one man's opinion.....

agree with logan. I have two rates for massage and gfe, but if I only had a gfe rate it would not matter if the guy only wanted x. the rate would be the same. I get more massage clients than gfe, so that is why I have two rates. I won't fuck for the massage rate, but don't think it would make sense to charge a bj and massage guy over 300 either. tis why I have both.upsell is basically lying from what I have heard. girl says the rate is 200 and the guy thinks that includes everything. he gets there and she says that is just for hj. two market areas is exactly right.

would be different if the girl only does gfe, then you can't expect a lower rate just because you don't want to daty and fuck. when a lady has two rates she is falt out saying you get x for this and y for this. choose.

I get asked a lot for massage, and I don't mind giving a massage and a back scratch. The end result is the same.......... so...... the gift is the same. So far, no complaints!

would be different if the girl only does gfe, then you can't expect a lower rate just because you don't want to daty and fuck. when a lady has two rates she is falt out saying you get x for this and y for this. choose. Originally Posted by Massage By Mandy

I agree with this.

I know many providers who do massage only at a lower rate and GFE as a higher rate. Some are even trained massage therapists.

If a guy wants massage only. I really think they should just see a provider who offers a massage only package. There are many of them around and as i said.. Some of them are even Trained and have Diploma's in massage.

I Only have a GFE rate and if someone wants to book me for massage only. I would do it but i would not lower my rate.. why? Because i don't really do massage and i admit i don't have the first clue on giving a good massage.

Usually if a guy wants to see me with massage only. I would let them know that i don't really do massage only but if they still want to see me. They are free to do so.

Providers tell you it is their time you are paying for.

What goes on during that time is what is on their Menu and the Hobbyist choice of menu items he or she chooses to partake in.

Seems simple to me ??

Rate is what, it is.

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I have only one rate it is for my time... I am all inclusive.... How we choose to enjoy that time is between 2 adults BCD... Never an up sell,,,, If a bargain for limited menu is what you seek then SEARCH!!!!!!

Because if you want a purely verbal, of course visit that involves swinging from the chandeliers or a visit that consists of watching football and killing time on commercial breaks or whatever else I Still have to pay for an upscale hotel, do the maintenance to make sure hair/nails/outfits are perfect, make sure the room is amply stocked with everything nesscessary from fluffy clean towels to candles and music etc, etc, etc...

If you seek out a lady that has a full menu but you only want to sample a specific item on the menu (unless she specifically advertises different prices) I would think her advertised rate is the rate she expects regardless of your limited preferences. Your mindset is kindave like going to a buffet restaurant and thinking it should be a different price because you only want dessert.

Just one man's opinion..... Originally Posted by Logan135

I am going with Logan as well

This is a very interesting subject and there is no one right or wrong answer. Basically, it is what the gal enjoys doing in the session and her desires and business practices. It is a lot easier and less expensive to run a buffet restaurant if customers are only choosing dessert for the owner, chef and busboy and in many ways safer with less a problem with food borne diseases from improper preparation and keeping it at the right temperature prior to service.

Some gals have a one price approach. It is their time, their business plan.

Some gals have a tiered approach. Perhaps an a la carte approach if you will.

Some massage & rubdown gals will upsell you for higher levels of service.

I know a really cute little RMT in Arlington. First time I saw her was off a BP ad for massage only. With a small tip, got L1. Next time I saw her from her ad here, we did a special little deal we worked out with massage first, then L1/L2. Next time I saw her, I really wanted her great massage, so I did an hour at her massage rate and then an hour at her FS rate. (Sessions 2 & 3 were all agreed to before we got down to monkey business.)

Recognize that on your first visit, it will be what the lady says. If you hit it off with her, she may be willing to offer a special deal for the levels of service you desire, politely ask. If she says no, don't throw a temper tantrum. Make a decision. It is your money, it is her time. Are you willing to pay your money for her time at the rate(s) she wants?

Also, remember that at those inopportune times of the month, a lady might be willing to offer you a minimal activity session at a reduced price because she is limited in her ability to play.