So like...can I make this my own personal references thread?

So I want to see a provider that is a super hottie, but she wants three recent references and my phone number. She's a heck of a screener, but I don't want to PM my phone number or have it anywhere on the Internet. I also don't want to use credit cards for P411 or ECCIE.

Normally I'd just call her, but I can't call her until I get her phone number, which she won't get until I PM my phone number. Oh, and there are those references. It's like trying to solve a puzzle.

So maybe I'll just start this thread and anyone that wants to vouch for me being a hobbyist in good standing can just post something. Plus, the usual grumpy old assholes can take potshots at me. It'll be fun!

As a token of my gratitude, I offer you porn.
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I haven't been on here long enough to know for sure but I thought I saw a couple ladies that said they needed recent references, newer than 6 months old. All of yours are older than that. If there is one you want to see, that is probably the issue. You might try starting again with a couple of the newbie friendly providers or go back to ones you have already seen, then do new reviews on them. Below is a general post I made with a list of newbie friendly ladies.

About the phone, get a free google voice number and use the hangouts app to text and call them from.

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This list is made up of ladies that list themselves as newbie friendly on eccie, P411 or both.

Just because a lady is "newbie friendly", not having references doesn't mean they don't ask questions. A lot of them, if not all, still require screening information of some kind. When contacting them, don't expect an immediate response, they could be working, or contrary to popular belief, they may actually have lives outside of the hobby. After you give them any screening information they need, it could still take a few days for them to approve you. This normally isn't something bad about you, it could just mean that they haven't been able to get a response from your references or check your screening information.

I am not specifically recommending any individual provider, you need to make sure you do your homework and read all of the reviews on any that you would like to see. Things change, so just because they are on this list now doesn't mean they are still newbie friendly by the time you read this. Just ask them and be respectful when you do. Don't start by asking them if such-n-such is on their menu and remember, no explicit talk or you "might" not get a response, so read their reviews and find out if what you want is on their menu. You can always try and ask them specifics in person "after" you have had your first date. Just in case you should ALWAYS assume everything is YMMV, meaning that if their menu says, or you see from their reviews that (example) LFK or DFK is on the menu and you go in there with stank breath, multi-colored fuzz growing on your teeth, and green snot hanging out of your nose, don't expect her to kiss you. Some on this list might not be home based here, but travel here often, and some that are home based here, might not be in town as they might be travelling.

Especially since you are a newbie, DO NOT NCNS (No Call, No Show) your appointments or word could get around and you might have a hard time finding another provider that will see you, newbie friendly or not.

This list is in no particular order except that the ones I have seen or communicated with are probably listed closer to the top.

Ladies if you are newbie friendly and I missed you on this list, I apologize. Please let me know so that I can add you to the list for the next time I might post it. If you are on this list and no longer are newbie friendly, let me know so that I can take you off of future postings.

DestinyInKC
http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=141470

SexyKaylen
http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=72815

DallasRain
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=3067

Savannah Moon
http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=240280

SinsOfTheFlesh
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=54993

HBG Platinum
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=99729

JessicaKCRabbit
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=256121

JayceeRivers
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=113900

SillySweetheart
http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=240729

OlderHottie49
http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=194929

Miss Ava Starr
http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=242479

beautifullmeh11
http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=69202

CherryLove
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=113900

LCHanover
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=262484

RobinSwallow
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=229789

Rachel
http://spicyrachel.naughtynsexy.com/

Ari816
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=43896

Mackenzie
http://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=82943


P.S. Don't do what I did when I got on here and not read the forum guidelines. It will help you and keep you out of trouble......maybe.
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Be Safe and Have Fun

Okay ladies, give the man some booty, I give Longermonger the dirty dog seal of approval. He is not the police and there has never been an indication that he is dangerous.

Except that Longer isn't a newby. Just very discrete.

Longer:
Yeah its a pain to reactivate your hobby phone. Consider that an acknowledgement that gals on your dancecard are trusted, thus they use that other number.

Longermonger isn't a newbie. He's been around awhile. This seems pretty extreme to see a hottie lol. Good luck! And here ya go, here's my reference Longermonger

Longermonger isn't a newbie. He's been around awhile. This seems pretty extreme to see a hottie lol. Originally Posted by Gemma34

Yeah, he's been around 2+ years longer than me by the looks of it. Heck, I will always be a newbie myself, which is good because it's like losing your virginity every time. DALLAS TAKE MY VIRGINITY!!!

I only put up the newbie list thinking that "might" help if he needed it even though I suspected that ladies like you would step up.

I do love the ladies like Gemma, Dallas, etc., that will step up like Gemma just did when she knows someone. I might have the same problem as the OP some day if I don't get out there and see new ladies instead of the same ones each time, or if I just stop doing reviews, etc., to go UTR then want to see someone new.

You don't have a burner phone Longer?

...and let me guess, Rosalyn, lol.

Binks if you have only been around since December it is tough for you to vouch for Longer. That is unless you are someone else from the past. ???????

Binks if you have only been around since December it is tough for you to vouch for Longer. That is unless you are someone else from the past. ??????? Originally Posted by noleftturn

HUH??? Not sure what made you think I was vouching for someone I didn't know.

You are very correct and I didn't and wouldn't vouch for a guy unless I pointed the lady to what information I have on them that would make me vouch for them, that was Gemma that vouched for him, not me. Not sure how I would actually be able to personally vouch that a guy is safe to see a woman if I didn't know them personally.

I was actually asked by one fine lady about a guy and I told her that I had never met him in person but have talked with him on the phone and he seemed like he was a nice guy.

You don't have a burner phone Longer?

...and let me guess, Rosalyn, lol. Originally Posted by jayhawkrobbie

Bingo! You're a good guesser.

I have my own security strategy. Not posting many reviews is part of it.

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Duplicate

thanks for the mention

Longer baby..I would so do you!!!!

Bingo! You're a good guesser.

I have my own security strategy. Not posting many reviews is part of it. Originally Posted by Longermonger

I don't know you. I don't know "her".

But what it sounds like is "you have your own security strategy", which is fine, but you wish to circumvent hers.

You don't want to post reviews, which is your right, but you want the ladies to vouch for you.

At first glance it seems quite goose/gander sort of thing, with you wanting to move the disproportionate share of the risk onto the lady in question.

Perhaps P411? I know you have hesitation about submitting certain info through the internet for screening, but I know as far as Denver anyway, you can't have both-total anonymity AND easy and quick screening for bookings-especially with women that are very cautious in their screening. JS