Cracking her Code (Tribute)

Those of us from the ASPD days remember a lady who went by Taylor4Play. She had a post about cracking a ladies code about DATY which was good and something I used and learned from....even maintained a copy of it in a word document to reference to in case ASPD did go down...hey I am an engineer and that is what engineers do...we keep notes and we keep backups in case the worse happens. I thought this was on ECCIE Somewhere, but not finding it...so Figured I would post it as DATY techniques was a subject of discussion in Chat this evening. So here goes: (next post is original copy....so ignore last paragraph...not coming from me)

CrAcKiNg HeR CoDe!
All right, I know this is a long thread, but one with very useful tips for the men. I recently took a poll in chat and asked the gentlemen if they would be interested in a long post like this. Much to my surprise, the response was an overwhelming yes. This is a thread on the art of deciphering a woman's body language BCD. I know these are not the only signals a woman sends during the heat of passion. Nor do all women send the same signal with their body language, but for myself and the majority of ladies I surveyed, this is one of the most accurate pieces of material I have ever read. And I thought it to be an excellent idea to share this with our fine gentlemen. Now let's not turn this thread into a flame. So let's take it for what it is. Fun, thought provoking and educational. OK, gentlemen, here it goes.

You are BCD with a special lady, girlfriend or your S/O, and you are not really sure what she wants you to do to please her. So instead of asking her, God forbid, or trying to learn the signals she is sending you with her body talk, you take off on a wing and a prayer hoping to bring your flight in for a nice, smooth, text book landing, Right? Wrong!

Now this is not about trying to read a woman's mind but rather to read her subtle hints. The signals her body gives you loud and clear. With some slight lingo modifications and additions on my part, the following is a man's guide to a woman's body language according to Julie Stein from the February 2002 edition of Maxim magazine. Read it, Learn it, Live it, Do it.

Signal #1 The Horny Hair Pull

What it looks like: She runs her fingers through your hair while
you kiss her breast.

What it means: She wants oral action.

What to do: Go down on her, for Gods sakes. Do it very
gently. DATY is not the last supper. No biting
or as Doctor Evil says, we don't gnaw on the
kitty. And no trying to crawl in from whence you
were born, that isn't going to happen. News
flash guys, who ever said this is a turn on,
Lied. After slowly DATY, If she starts to push
her body towards your body, (code for "move
in for the Kill"). That is your cue to attack.
Remember You are not on a search and
destroy mission. Slowly start to apply more
pressure till she is knocks on heaven's door.




Signal #2 The Voice-over

What it looks like: (Actually in this case, sounds like) she
whispers how amazingly good you're making
her feel in a voice that's worthy of it's own
1-900 number.

What it means: The lady wants to get verbal, but doesn't
want to come off as crazed dominatrix.

What to do: Even if she is into bedroom babble, most
women are not that comfortable with lines
that sound straight out "Gang Bang 12." So
try saying something not too graphic that will
encourage her to keep communicating. Prod
her with sexy but safe questions like, "Does
that feel good," "Do you like that" or
"What do you want me to do." Make sure to
mention how much her voice turns you on so
that she knows you're are into tawdry talk as
she is. When she answers your question,
pay attention to her vocabulary. The more
graphic it is, the more graphic you
can get into it, too.

Signal #3 The Shutout

What it looks like: She squeezes her thighs together when you
slide your hands down.

What it means: In the past you may have grossly
misinterpreted this move to mean she
doesn't want sex. On the contrary, she is
eager to romp, but isn't riled up enough for
digit play. The leg squeeze is a sign she
wants you to pay attention to other bay parts
until you have her burning like the amazon.


What to do: Let your hands and mouth wander all over
her breasts, hips, tummy and tush,
but stay away from the runway.

Signal #4 The terminator

What it looks like: During sex her pelvis moves up and down in a
robot style and the look on her face is all
business.

What it means: She has had her fun and is ready for you to
finish. She is ready for the grand finale. If
she is cueing you to let her rip. More than
likely she is not going to have another big "O".

What to do: Forget the romance, proceed at top speed to
claim you reward.

Signal # 5 The Hand-off

What it looks like: She restlessly palms her upper thighs or lower
belly while you are rubbing her gem.

What it means: The lady wants to caress her own clit because
she knows how to do it just right, but she
doesn't want you to think she'd rather be
alone while she does it. She knows you are
not a mind reader. It's impossible for a guy to
know exactly the right way to do it. Every
woman is different and she has done this with
herself hundreds of time. It is also a good
opportunity for you to learn what trips her
trigger.

What to do: Encourage her to get hands-on by pulling her
fingers into the fray. At first press your hand
firmly over hers and rub back and forth so she
knows you want her to go for it, like she does
when she is alone. Once she feels
comfortable, slowly remove you hand away,
but keep touching the rest of her body so she
doesn't feel abandoned. Make sure you take
notes! You will be glad you did later.

Signal #6 The Sidewinder

What it looks like: A human T. A second ago she was facing the
headboard while giving you a BJ, Now she is
perpendicular to you but still licking away.

What it means: She wants to slip into 69 but isn't about to
plop down on your mug. She is hoping you get
the idea and pull her into position.

What to do: Show your enthusiasm for simultaneous mouth
to body shenanigans by grabbing one of her
thighs and guiding it towards your head, then
lifting it over your head while moving your body
under hers.

Signal #7 The Slip and Slide

What it looks like: She wiggles her body out from under you,
turns on her side and gives you a wild look.

What it means: She's dying to get on top because she wants
to guarantee delivery on her "O".

What to do: Roll over on your back, pull her on top of you,
then stay out of her way. Unless you are
going to do something to help her
achieve her goal, like massage her breasts or
derriere. When her back arches, her
mouth opens and her hips stop writhing, she is
sending the signal that she has left earth and
is currently hurdling through space.

Well, gentlemen, thank you for taking the time to read this. I welcome any input you may have on this article. Good luck with your future flight plans. And remember that the take off and landing is the most crucial part or any flight. More tips to follow.

Damn that is really cool!


Is there a hobbyist version for C/BBBJ?

Haha I love this.

Was fortunate to see Taylor only once, consider myself lucky. Epic two hours and she is a legend. Her post was great then and still applies today.


Thanks for posting and allowing me to reminise of past hobby experiences.


Bird

Great post - thank you for sharing!

Classic. Thanks for the post NYr.

Very Good!!!!! I may have to give this a try.......

I was a regular with Taylor in the day. She was ATF - and simply non-stop passion. She used to run buy one hour, get one free. 2 hours went by in about 15 minutes it was so good . . .

i luv when they give me the sidewinder....mmmm yummy

Great post!

I need to pay more attention next time I'm having a bit of fun!

Very good. I'd bookmark this link but OMG if someone got on my computer!!!

I guess I'll have to practice this until it is second nature.

One thing I've wondered (and really should and will ask) is what the lady likes me to do with my hands. I tend to love caressing her legs and abdomen up to her breasts while down there. I like to hold her thighs against my head while doing so. As things heat up, I'll explore gently touching the exterior of some entry points - even to insertion if the signals ask for it.

Can any current ladies (since Taylor is retired) comment on this?

Thanks NYr. You are a welcome Yankee in these here parts. No thread with this much good information is too long.

I was fortunate to have Tay as a regular too. Boy I miss those sessions.

Thanks for bringing back some great memories. And the content of the post is great learning materials for all us men.

Thank you for the post ... It is very inspirational

Maybe it should be a "sticky"?