Guys who last very long, or too long

The first and only girl I ever slept with before I got into this hobby, I had trouble cumming because I was so nervous and could not climax. After that when we were about to sleep together the 2nd time she said "Try not to last so long this time." It was a bad seed she planted in my head, and it made me more nervous, and it happened again that 2nd time, could not climax. I felt ashamed of myself at that time Had not slept with her since, and then 3 years later I join in on 411.

But that comment that girl made "Try not to last so long" always stayed with me, and effected me with my first Provider Kaitlyn Dior, and it was happening all over again. I was scared right there that there was something really wrong with me. But Kaitlyn (god bless her sweet heart) she understood my problem and helped me, and I eventually finally climaxed. She told me how common it is. Then the next few understanding Providers after that I got better, and popped at appropriate standard times. In my time with RRS she taught me that it is not a game of trying to get off as many times as you can, not trying to make it a race for it, it's about embracing every second. So quite frankly, based on my Provider experiences, I feel like I could last more than an hour IF I wanted to.

So I'm curious about how most Providers may feel about a client having stamina. Does it impress you?

Two minutes is average for me.

Try not to write such a long post next time.

This is something i've always struggled with. The first 6 months on the hobby, i didnt cum at all. I wouldn't say anything the the providers and after each session some would be confused. Finally, i started to accept it. Then i started experimenting and finally SUCCESS. Now its much easier but it still happens occasionally. I always let them know before hand so they will be prepared. I have a few regulars that are very accepting of it and work with me to make it easier. It has allowed me to focus more on pleasuring the ladies in other ways, and they love that.

I have noticed that some love my stamina and some dont.

Try not to write such a long post next time.


Originally Posted by BWGuy

Oh, excuse me, lol. I'm a writer in my spare time and it's uneasy to hold back what I want to express. I will be mindful of that from now on.

[QUOTE=Gemineye;1058079462]"So I'm curious about how most Providers may feel about a client having stamina. Does it impress you?"

Does it impress them? Are you serious?

No, it pisses them off. They don't give a shit about "impressions". The longer you stay the less time they have to get ready for the next "impression".

Get-the-fuck-out-of-here! LMAO!!!

A "good client" pays the donation, gets their gollies, and gets the fuck out.

[QUOTE=Muscleup;1058079886]

"So I'm curious about how most Providers may feel about a client having stamina. Does it impress you?"

Does it impress them? Are you serious?

No, it pisses them off. They don't give a shit about "impressions". The longer you stay the less time they have to get ready for the next "impression".

Get-the-fuck-out-of-here! LMAO!!!

A "good client" pays the donation, gets their gollies, and gets the fuck out. Originally Posted by Gemineye

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That's not fair to generalize us all. I do like part of the hour to be getting to know each other, kissing, rubbing and foreplay. But I LOVE the other stuff too! The only problem I have with it lasting too long is if the guy is well endowed. Even at one appt a day, a big guy can really make me sore if it goes on a long time, even with lots of lube! At some point I have to gently say, "honey I'm having a wonderful time but I'm getting a little sore". My vay jay jay is NOT a one size fits all, lol! But if he can't finish up pretty soon, there are plenty of other ways to make my leave extremely satisfied!

And if my guys finish before their time, I love to cuddle and touch and have some pillow talk. They don't rush for the door! There may even be time for round 2!

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I'm just kidding!!!

Seriously though, it happens. Mostly those who are nervous or taking certain prescription medications for health issues. It's not a big deal.


Either I'm in my prime or just high energy, I eat my Wheaties on the daily so I'm up for the challenge!

Sometimes I wish I could last longer thank 5-8 minutes. I figure I not only get to have a orgasm, fulfill a fantasy or two, AND get a good workout for the heart.

Like any business, if you pay for X, and you use less than X, the business does better.
More money for less wear and tear.

I had written a loooong reply, but I just deleted it because its going to get the WK and hooker PC police on my ass... so I will just tell you a story....

Imagine you rent a hall for a party. You agree in price, time, amenities. You expect to pay and you expect to receive agreed items like tables, chairs, etc.

If you arrive, and the manager tells you, hey dont use the facilities too much, please use the bathroom just once, use only one glass per person, and leave early, would you rent that hall again?
NO!!!

if they tell you there is no ice, the place is dirty, it smells, and the manager is giving you the evil eye, would you give it a good yelp rating?
NOO!!!

if they hush you and your tall guest and two round buddies out of the hall before your time is up, would you pay willingly?
NOOO!!!

SO now, every time you have a party, you dont have fun because an idiot manager was stupid, mean, bad at his job, and expensive?
NO fucking way!

So if I knew you, and were your friend, and you tell me this party hall manager did this to you, and you are planning the next party at the same place, or even in other similar places you feel a little weird. I would tell you:

"I am sorry dear buddy, but you need to grow a pair of balls. if you are so weak you let previous bad experiences in this industry affect your decisions, DO NOT ORGANIZE ANY MORE PARTIES!!! These party hall managers look like prey, but they are not! some are ruthless and will charge you for the grain salts in the salt shakers"

OK? good luck.

AND I can tell you, there are plenty of gals that love long sessions.
Specially if you tell them about your situation, some will go the extra mile to make you feel comfortable and have a good time.
If you are frank with them it will help a lot.
It is difficult to do, but its the best advice I can think of.

1 min - 1st pop
2 min - 2nd pop
Eternity - 3rd pop

Try not to write such a long post next time.


Originally Posted by BWGuy

Haha! Congrats, you won the internet today!

[QUOTE=Muscleup;1058079886]

"So I'm curious about how most Providers may feel about a client having stamina. Does it impress you?"

Does it impress them? Are you serious?

No, it pisses them off. They don't give a shit about "impressions". The longer you stay the less time they have to get ready for the next "impression".

Get-the-fuck-out-of-here! LMAO!!!

A "good client" pays the donation, gets their gollies, and gets the fuck out. Originally Posted by Gemineye

It's nice to know you are the pimp for all the ladies on eccie and speak for them

Thank you, I get the gist of it now. For years I was under the impression from many sources that a man cumming early is a turn off to women, and the way most people have talked about premature ejaculation made it seem like there is something wrong with the man.

This cracks me up. Porn depicts guys who seem to last forever with a saucy orgasmic sex star before the cum shot. Women's and men's magazine articles talk about men who satisfy a lady best by taking a while before they cum. Be a gentleman and make the lady cum first, they advise. Then when a guy actually trains his kegels so he can take longer to cum, a lady partner comments, that he takes to long (this has happend to me three times in the past 10 months).

Thus, for different reasons than the OP's nervousness, how long is too long for a guy to cum? (Yes, I know it has to be less time than the session length.) Seriously, what is a good humpin' time range so most ladies can get into it, get theirs and enjoy the ride.......and I understand that switching positions often extends a guy's gruntin' O moment too.

My best guess: 4 to 10 min of good humpin' in a pleasurable position, and sometimes, depending on the emotional/sexual click, 15 to 20 min is the cat's multi-O Meow.