How to ask about a providers menu?

So I've been looking at a couple of providers and have read reviews. The menu for the most part looks great but they list CBJ in most of their reviews. I've had that experience and have a some issue keeping the soldier motivated. BBBJ is probably my favorite activity but some of the ladies not listing if look amazing otherwise. Is there a way to ask without offending them as I understand there are "rules" to the game.

Best thing to do is read their reviews. Most will avoid answering questions when asked, if they have never met you.

Usually if the reviews list CBJ, then the provider is CBJ only, and asking will not get you any brownie points.

I have to agree with the guys here. Typically the girls don't like to answer those kind of questions over the phone for safety reasons. Reviews can be helpful but you could also check to see if she has a personal website. My menu can be found there and I find it helpful and informative if I can direct someone there before meeting so they know before hand what's ok and what isn't. That way you know what to expect. I list all kinds of things on my website you might not have known if you simply just checked my reviews. Also if you have P411 it let's us show an "Activity List" of different things that might be on the menu. Hopefully that helps!

I have to agree with the guys here. Typically the girls don't like to answer those kind of questions over the phone for safety reasons. Reviews can be helpful but you could also check to see if she has a personal website. My menu can be found there and I find it helpful and informative if I can direct someone there before meeting so they know before hand what's ok and what isn't. That way you know what to expect. I list all kinds of things on my website you might not have known if you simply just checked my reviews. Also if you have P411 it let's us show an "Activity List" of different things that might be on the menu. Hopefully that helps! Originally Posted by JessicaKCRabbit

ditto...reviews and a website should tell ya what ya need to know

good luck and have fun

Another option is to post in the " iso" for exactly what you are liking for and choose from the responders

If you are like me and inly get a chance to hobby 3-4 times a year, just come out and ask. A lot have rules about using graphic language. I certainly learned my lesson there. Lost a great provider I was comfortable with. But, if you only hobby 3-4 times a year, why take the chance you see a lady only to find out she doesnt offer what you want. And we all know reviews and activities are not always truthful. Some lie in the ROS, others list activities that the lady doesnt offer. Most activities will be accurate but not all.

A ton of nice looking, well reviewed ladies are out there. If your into something thsts a bit kinky, just ask. Its that simple. If she doesnt allow it when you see her, thats a No review and a waste of your hard earned money. If she does, your fantasy gets satisfied.

Example: Not all ladies like their assholes licked. Ask.....its worth it knowing beforehand

If you are like me and inly get a chance to hobby 3-4 times a year, just come out and ask. A lot have rules about using graphic language. I certainly learned my lesson there. Lost a great provider I was comfortable with. But, if you only hobby 3-4 times a year, why take the chance you see a lady only to find out she doesnt offer what you want. And we all know reviews and activities are not always truthful. Some lie in the ROS, others list activities that the lady doesnt offer. Most activities will be accurate but not all.

A ton of nice looking, well reviewed ladies are out there. If your into something thsts a bit kinky, just ask. Its that simple. If she doesnt allow it when you see her, thats a No review and a waste of your hard earned money. If she does, your fantasy gets satisfied.

Example: Not all ladies like their assholes licked. Ask.....its worth it knowing beforehand Originally Posted by MrNyceGuy

What good does it do if you never actually follow through on it.

Oh wait you could post on every review that you wanna lick her asshole in an attempt to get a girl to respond to you in a pm ...hence allowing you to avoid exactly what your recommending....asking the girl straight up

If a review is posted with activities that a provider doesn't partake in..
On here..she is going to call it out..I promise you that.
Don't be lazy or disrespectful .
Research..
ISN'T THAT WHAT REVIEWS ARE FOR..SHOWCASES & PROFILES.
If someone I have never met before starts asking about my menu..when OBVIOUSLY. my reviews are consistant with my menu..I am really hesitant to arrange an appointment. WHY.. Because there is NO LOGIC behind the questioning.
NONE.
This site & a few others like TER
P411 & even webs are where you get answers.Like previously mentioned.

Or learn to use the acronyms.
ISO Dato - instead of ISO an asshole to tongue fuck.

.... Is there a way to ask without offending them as I understand there are "rules" to the game. Originally Posted by Gavin721

Yes there are rules to the dirty word Scrabble game.
As others have mentioned, do your research.
I'll add: Don't waste their time.
A gal that gets annoyed will not invite you over for a date.
I once saw a gal picking up the pieces of her burner phone that she used for ads, after she had thrown it against a brick fireplace, cause she was annoyed at some guy asking ques.

Or learn to use the acronyms.
ISO Dato - instead of ISO an asshole to tongue fuck. Originally Posted by Mccaffery

LOL

delete

Unless you want responses such as embroidery, gaming, and yelling at the Royals, don't ask me what I "do or don't do". My guard immediately goes up and I'll tell you the exact same thing everyone else has said, "Check my reviews or my showcase." It's a safety issue as well as letting me know you couldn't be bothered to read.

do a search on bbbj in whatever forum(s) you choose. if cbj is def off table then seek what you must have. i know many beautiful women that do bbbj so am somewhat surprised you can't find this too. good luck.