Awkward Appointments or No Chemistry

As the title says, ever have one? How'd you handle it? Would you go back? Was it just a one off?

I'm asking because I had one in the beginning of the year. She was attractive, all positive reviews, and really tried to please. I don't know what it was but it was like walking with two left feet. IOP/ conversation wise she was great. It was just the actual act, including foreplay, kissing, etc. I got hard and did the deed. Didn't/ couldn't finish though.

Now I was going through my P411 okay and I saw her name and remembered the appointment. Now I'm wondering if I should schedule for another try or just leave it be. Honestly I'm leaning towards leave it be. It was that awkward. Almost like two siblings making out. bleh.

So anyone else have a story or experience like this? I don't wanna be the only weirdo.

If you felt awkward, she felt awkward. Move on. That's what I would do.

Based on what you said, that she tried to please, could mean that the next time could be great.

When they just go through the motions, or exude a attitude of not caring, that's when you don't at least consider trying again. Just my opinion.

Based on what you said, that she tried to please, could mean that the next time could be great.

When they just go through the motions, or exude a attitude of not caring, that's when you don't at least consider trying again. Just my opinion. Originally Posted by Sadsack

On second thought, sure, try again, but don't blame her if it doesn't improve. Just move on.

Leave it be. Nobody is compatible with everybody...it's a lizard brain and pheromone thang...nobody's fault, unless you refuse to honor nature's messages..if you ignore them the fault will be yours.

As the title says, ever have one? How'd you handle it? Would you go back? Was it just a one off?

I'm asking because I had one in the beginning of the year. She was attractive, all positive reviews, and really tried to please. I don't know what it was but it was like walking with two left feet. IOP/ conversation wise she was great. It was just the actual act, including foreplay, kissing, etc. I got hard and did the deed. Didn't/ couldn't finish though.

Now I was going through my P411 okay and I saw her name and remembered the appointment. Now I'm wondering if I should schedule for another try or just leave it be. Honestly I'm leaning towards leave it be. It was that awkward. Almost like two siblings making out. bleh.

So anyone else have a story or experience like this? I don't wanna be the only weirdo. Originally Posted by Permission2Look

Agree with what others have said; just leave it be. There is no way it is going to work perfectly with every lady you see.

Can't tell you how many awkward sessions I've had, when I could tell so much the gent wasn't into me. They always let me finish, but I could just tell. It didn't matter what I did/didn't do, sometimes that je nais se quoi just isn't there between 2 people. Then I felt super awkward for the rest of the sesh having to finish this guy who I can tell wants to be elsewhere or just wants it to be over.

There are tons of ladies out there, I am sure you will find one or even some that you have a better connection with.

Now, do I feel instantly attracted/connected to every single client I see? Of course not. However, for me personally, if I can tell he is enjoying it and enjoying me, that is enough for me to feel some kind of chemistry/friction and want to perform the best damn session I possibly can. It is very cerebral...if the gent is sending out whatever vibes, I pick up on them and it influences how the session goes.

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It is up to you to meet her again or not. But if the whole kissing, foreplay etc was really awkward I wouldn't meet again. Like Don said, you can't have great chemistry with everyone.

If you really like her pursue her. People have bad days. Every encounter is different. But the meetings you enjoy should be followed through. My two sense. It's not just them, always remember it could be us too. Even it is a business decision ladies in both sides of the world are tender in nature. No one wants to loose a good client, we do prefer to be regulars mixing variety. Honestly, I am blessed to meet some nice individuals and yummy is one of them.

Why do you want to see the same whore twice?,,,It doesn't matter if the first session was great or not,,,Most whores in Houston are terrible the second or third time around. If the whore can't get the job done right the first time around or if you were not all that into her in the first place, then you need to move on.

Why do you want to see the same whore twice?,,,It doesn't matter if the first session was great or not,,,Most whores in Houston are terrible the second or third time around. If the whore can't get the job done right the first time around or if you were not all that into her in the first place, then you need to move on. Originally Posted by TheCat'sMeow

Lol. What a big man behind the keyboard. Everyone pay attention.

Lol. What a big man behind the keyboard. Everyone pay attention. Originally Posted by cctex

^^^^^^^

we do prefer to be regulars mixing variety. Originally Posted by Caligula1

You are so wrong there,,,The regulars have a stable of proven whores if they get bored with the same whore but at the same time they don't want to take any chances with newbie whores or whores that will fail the chemistry test,,,Prolific, non-regular Johns are immune to fail as long as they are seeing a variety of well-reviewed or popular whores that offer consistent, cookie-cutter services to all Johns. However, in a crappy hobby city like Houston that has too many fickle whores this can be more of a challenge.

Post traumatic spa rejection disorder?

^^^^^^^

Originally Posted by TheCat'sMeow

I just know what I like citizen. It's ok though, maybe some hooktard will pat you on the head.