Why?

I hobbied in many countries and a whole bunch in the US and there is one thing that I never understood. Why do I always get asked if I am married? And then if I answered no, the next question is almost always if I have a girlfriend?

What's the purpose of the question? Am I supposed to say "Yes! I am cheating?" does anyone ever believe me when I say no?

Any thoughts?
Maybe its a bigger turn-on of the lady?
I am confused... Are you saying that the ladies like married men more?

It just seems like such an awkwar question to me... What's the next question after I say "yes I am married"?

Why are you cheating on her?
I can see if its something a regular asks after a few encounters because you build a friendship.

But on a first encounter... thats just strange. I knew i lady long time ago, she used to get off by being fingered with the ring finger. She said the feeling of a wedding band entering her would make her gush.
Agreed... I think after multiple visits it would make sense but I am usually asked on the first one
DRSlut's Avatar
AMP's tend to ask that quite a bit. Not sure why, though.
Trey's Avatar
  • Trey
  • 06-25-2012, 11:28 AM
Had a girl go off on me for cheating on my chick, she was there to fuck for cash. We still Fucked anyway she was a good lay. Never called her again after that however.

Most times its just small talk. I mean we are two strangers about to fuck you need an ice breaker. I just say yeah and she don't like to fuck that's the end of it.
I rarely go back for seconds, for me the fun is always in the first encounter.

But I get asked this question from independents, AMPs, agencies, high dollar escorts, strip clubs, BP girls... Everywhere.. And in different languages too!
Ms. Athena's Avatar
What would it matter one way or another if your married or not. And as that is your RL, it is non of my business unless you choose to share. Providers are here to provide a service of your needs that are not being meet elsewhere.....If your transmission goes out and you dont have the tools or ability at home to fix it, you take it to a Pro. Well were are Pros here awaiting your needs with our skills and abilities.............Ill check your dip stick any day..lol
Lol, Ms. Athena. You're awesome
Been asked a lot myself. With Indy's always felt it was just conversation. At amps I kinda get the feeling they're looking for WKs to carry them away. I have a friend who got into a relationship with a t-road girl for a few years that way.
MrClark's Avatar
Luckily I'm ugly as hell ,I've never been asked .At AMP's they ask that to go along with your LIC # finger prints ,eye retena scam for later on blackmale use only.
KatieKatie's Avatar
It sounds like these ladies need to either shut up and don't say anything or learn better conversational skills. Who cares if you are married? Not us! I don't want to remind you of that. I also don't care what you do for work. If I asked you those two questions I would feel like I need to know everything else. Social security number, date of birth, moms maiden name, etc. Obviously they are just dingbats with nothing else to talk about. I'd much rather talk about the weather.
Guest123018-4's Avatar
The answer is; does it matter.
I only want you to be my girlfriend for an hour.
I don't care either. But I do like the thought that a married guy has to go home clean lol. Or his wife will kill him lol. I know, wrong! But it kinda is a turn on