PSE and GFE .. what the difference?

coolguy's Avatar
Being in the hobby long time but untill now didnt find good answer for this

also PSE finish?

appreciate ur input


I found this to be helpful for myself just a few weeks ago.


The Erotic Review FAQ for Newbies.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=27659&bo ardID=33

GFE & PSE is addressed as well as some other useful info...
Hawkeye9's Avatar
cim or cob
gregory_m2003's Avatar
no offence techgeek but eew.. that was one messy website that you posted.. links all over the place.. and have to go back and forth to see each comment..?
hard to believe it is one of the popular escort review sites..
i'd rather wait for some experienced senior here to explain the difference between GFE and PSE ..
Kelly TNT's Avatar
[ame="http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2434"]http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2434[/ame]

Here is a link to a thread I started about the subject.

I hope this helps!

~Kelly TNT
ANONONE's Avatar
I tend to be a purist. For me PSE means you are a provider that has actually been in a professionally shot and mass produced video, preferably an actual feature movie rather than a bunch of gonzo internet porn.

Some will argue that it is how the session is conducted and that GFE is somehow kinder and gentler while PSE is wild and crazy.

The problem I have with that logic in a distinction is that it seems to denigrate a GFE as incapable of being a bit on the lusty, bawdy side. Some of these folks will insist that a Porn Star Experience is a notch above a Girl Friend Experience, so it is a slippery slope. In fact, I usually just avoid providers that claim to offer a PSE as it it is usually just a ruse to charge more.

Years ago I had a session that was advertised as PSE and really all the gal did was moan more and act campy and let me shoot a private video (this was the premium upgrade of a hundred dollars from her normal rates) and I confided in her that if that was a PSE we just did, I think I will stick with the GFE since you seemed more relaxed and just into it when we met in the past. she agreed and pretty much ended that offering in her business plan.

Then later, I was with a couple of actual porn stars and decided for me, you can advertise that acronym all you want, but if I can't go out and buy a video of you and watch it, I am probably going to move on to a different provider. In other words PSE is a special fetish--being with a celebrity.

More times than not, I am a huge GFE fan. . .but every once in a while I want to feel like Evan Stone. If I can't find you in the AVN database. . .

no offence techgeek but eew.. that was one messy website that you posted.. links all over the place.. and have to go back and forth to see each comment..?
hard to believe it is one of the popular escort review sites..
i'd rather wait for some experienced senior here to explain the difference between GFE and PSE .. Originally Posted by gregory_m2003
No offense taken, Im sure feedback regarding usability of their site would be welcomed.
GFE consists more of passion, romance, the illusion that she-likes you and is your girlfriend. Holding, cuddling, kissing.

PSE is more of a no holds barred fuck fest. There is no passion or romance. Not the "I really like you" just the "fuck me, fuck me hard and do it right." No kissing or romance. Just come in, get on, get off, get out. Hot, fast, sweaty, make me your sex slave type sex.

It's not really a CIM/COF issue. Many ladies offer that in their GFE sessions. It's more about the passion, or lack thereof.

Make sense?
SaintPat's Avatar
I did not read all of the links but I think Hotlips did an excellent job of describing GFE vs PSE
gregory_m2003's Avatar
I would prefer the romantic, passionate action with kissing and cuddling anytime over the so called PSE experience. Honestly I don't get what is so special about PSE. Unless you are doing it with a big porn celebrity as anonone mentioned, just for the fantasy value of it..
And even if it is a celebrity porn star.. I would prefer to do a nice GFE with her rather try to bang the **** out of her..
Great explanation! On a personal note, I prefer to vacillate between the two, depending on how things naturally unfold...
Poppa_Viagra's Avatar
GFE, she pretends she likes you.
PSE, she pretends you made her orgasm.
WE (Wife Experience), Fox news reported on someone's survey, 87% of married women sleep with their husbands to get them to help with the house work.
Great explanation! On a personal note, I prefer to vacillate between the two, depending on how things naturally unfold... Originally Posted by Katerina
Amen to that.. i want both.Let's hear it for vascillating.
gimme_that's Avatar
theres other views of PSE in this thread...
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=27916

I think the best sessions implement both GFE and PSE generally. I prefer a mostly PSE experience with crucial elements of GFE sprinlkled in such as kissing, cuddling, reciprocal massages, etc added from GFE as well.
Sir Lancehernot's Avatar
two thoughts:

1) If, after we're done, her face looks like a glazed donut, she's provided me with a PSE.

2) With a GFE, I feel like I have to also be concerned with whether she's enjoying our activities. If I go in expecting a PSE, I feel like I have to be less concerned with her pleasue, and that she should be focusing on mine.