Psychic Orgasm - Psycholagny

Well, focused erotic imagery is my thing. You are more into the spiritual and alternative psych side of eroticism which is great. We need more women into all forms of erotic imagery. Most providers are clueless. When I get with a provider who I have seen before or know a lot about and have seen her pics, I like to prepare mentally for the session so that when I am with her, I really get into whatever we are doing in an almost trance like state- very focused so I can focus my erotic energy into and on her and feel hers as well. Certain activities like cunnilingus really allow me to get totally into an erotic trance with the provider.

Most providers are clueless Originally Posted by whitechocolate

Its not that they are clueless its a matter of specification and training. Some are into different things and maybe we are clueless. I have delved into that subject since i am 16 years old and i have challenged many men sexually. Its true what you say about me being more into the consciousness expansion thing.
But i am sure we would have fun together nevertheless. I have learnde to orgasm without even touching myself or being touched and i dare to say that i can give a man an orgasm without even touching him or him being touched by himself. Its a matter of states of consciousness.

I just feel that most providers dont appreciate the value and importance of the mental side and erotic imagery in particular when they do a session. Too much concentration of just the physical. The mental side is their friend and a great tool to make the session super. Yes, I would love to meet and have fun with you. I will say though I definitely want to have my hands, mouth etc all over you and have yours all over me while we practice our erotic imagery.

I just feel that most providers dont appreciate the value and importance of the mental side and erotic imagery in particular when they do a session. Too much concentration of just the physical. The mental side is their friend and a great tool to make the session super. Yes, I would love to meet and have fun with you. I will say though I definitely want to have my hands, mouth etc all over you and have yours all over me while we practice our erotic imagery. Originally Posted by whitechocolate

Of course, well my passion artistry is not limited to, but i do appreciate the mental side a lot. I get bored easily from just the physical

yes, the mental side is that deliciousss topping that really spices up the dish.

Its not that they are clueless its a matter of specification and training. Some are into different things and maybe we are clueless. I have delved into that subject since i am 16 years old and i have challenged many men sexually. Its true what you say about me being more into the consciousness expansion thing. Originally Posted by ninasastri

I completely agree. Many, many people have no real sexual training or even a desire to explore beyond the mundane in many areas not just sexuality. I think because it feels good already so why bother. It's a shame really, the best sex comes from a fertile mind and a well trained body with regard to pleasuring oneself and a refined technique for pleasuring one's partner.

But i am sure we would have fun together nevertheless. I have learnde to orgasm without even touching myself or being touched and i dare to say that i can give a man an orgasm without even touching him or him being touched by himself. Its a matter of states of consciousness. Originally Posted by ninasastri

I do not know if I actually qualify within the scope of the thread / technique. I can make myself orgasm with out manually stimulating my self, but imagery alone won't do it. I have to contract my muscles. The pubococcygeus is easy. It's the tiny muscles over the clitoris that are dastardly difficult. But when they are contracted, it is like a mini-O right then and there.

yes, the mental side is that deliciousss topping that really spices up the dish. Originally Posted by whitechocolate

It is indeed. And i hope one day we can explore the "pure mental " sessions as well ....

I completely agree. Many, many people have no real sexual training or even a desire to explore beyond the mundane in many areas not just sexuality. I think because it feels good already so why bother. It's a shame really, the best sex comes from a fertile mind and a well trained body with regard to pleasuring oneself and a refined technique for pleasuring one's partner.



I do not know if I actually qualify within the scope of the thread / technique. I can make myself orgasm with out manually stimulating my self, but imagery alone won't do it. I have to contract my muscles. The pubococcygeus is easy. It's the tiny muscles over the clitoris that are dastardly difficult. But when they are contracted, it is like a mini-O right then and there. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

Cool! I do agree with you completely. And this is one thing where i have to say that age matters. No matter how you put it, an older provider is more experienced in that matter :-). I don`t say i am "old" with 35 but i have years of training and no 25 year old can come close to that ;-).

Yes if you contract the muscles that is a good start already. I have to admit i need a man to pleasure himself or feel excited so i can come too by feeling his energies go up and down. And he needs to be on the same mindwave or stimulate me with talk as well. Right now - in one of my friends with benefits constellations we do a lot of exploration of that techniques, so that is why i felt i needed to post here. I am usually a bit shy when it comes to such things, many misunderstand this sex magick stuff , but its a great thing actually - liberating Tantra :-).

Hugs

Cool! I do agree with you completely. And this is one thing where i have to say that age matters. No matter how you put it, an older provider is more experienced in that matter :-). I don`t say i am "old" with 35 but i have years of training and no 25 year old can come close to that ;-).

Yes if you contract the muscles that is a good start already. I have to admit i need a man to pleasure himself or feel excited so i can come too by feeling his energies go up and down. And he needs to be on the same mindwave or stimulate me with talk as well. Right now - in one of my friends with benefits constellations we do a lot of exploration of that techniques, so that is why i felt i needed to post here. I am usually a bit shy when it comes to such things, many misunderstand this sex magick stuff , but its a great thing actually - liberating Tantra :-).

Hugs Originally Posted by ninasastri

I actually find that if I don't use to many terms and use a blindfold to let your partner "fly" it's best for someone that isn't accustomed to the sexual energy that can be found if one tries. Maybe it's a bit of dare to hope and masturbation makes you go blind combined that scares people off, but I get your point.

And yes, I agree age does matter. I have always been sexually curious, but obviously, I have not always been sexually advanced. I think people have to want to be. As an example, when I was young, I had a lover that was much older than me. I can categorically say he was not an advanced lover. He was a caring lover, but not into the cerebral.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psycholagny

"Psycholagny is a sexual term that refers to the ability to reach or achieve orgasm without any physical stimulation of the genitalia, usually achieved through mental stimulation or fantasy alone. Also referred to as a "psychic orgasm" [1][2]."

Has anyone else ever practiced or meditated on this? For me sometimes physical contact is absolutely not necessary to achieve an orgasm. Recently i started having cybersex with a friend of mine and we have been discussing this - which i thought was so special to me - and he referred me to this term. Originally Posted by ninasastri

I wish I could! Not like I haven't tried..lol

I remember laying in my bed at night trying to think myself into a orgasm. Camille brings up a good point though, I have had intense sexual dreams where I had an orgasm, and then woke up and thought WOW! So there absolutely is something to this as far as mind over matter and making it happen. Just wish I could do it while I was awake too!

Currently i am trying to practice to learn squirting. One of my lovers is into that and i want to learn. Anyone experience? I know some women can do that naturally, and i have to learn. Has anyone of you ladies experience in actively learning that? I realize i am getting wetter, especially also in combination with that psychic orgasm intensity, but i have never squirted yet. . It should be a surprise for someone special, so i am actually trying to practice it with my friend with benefit to surprise lover one day..... He he :-).

As to dreams with sexual content: I have to admit they annoy me rather than satisfy me, because it feels like torture to be so close to coming and not being able to. And then i dream like an idiot of masturbating and never come. When i awake i am really upset, so i try to avoid dreams with sexual content by regularly masturbating. I only have these dreams if i don`t have sex for longer periods of time due to lovesickness or other issues that are stress related :-).

I actually find that if I don't use to many terms and use a blindfold to let your partner "fly" it's best for someone that isn't accustomed to the sexual energy that can be found if one tries. Maybe it's a bit of dare to hope and masturbation makes you go blind combined that scares people off, but I get your point.

And yes, I agree age does matter. I have always been sexually curious, but obviously, I have not always been sexually advanced. I think people have to want to be. As an example, when I was young, I had a lover that was much older than me. I can categorically say he was not an advanced lover. He was a caring lover, but not into the cerebral. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

Yes i agree with that too. Terms limit. For example erotocomatose lucidity. It is used in Tantric practices as well and i am sure many escorts practice it, but if you google the term its only connected with ALeister Crowleys Magick which is great too, but i don`t want my studies to be limited to only one person :-). Besides Crowley scarey a lot of people so i rarely mention him exceopt with friends and with clients i try to use some tantric terms of explanations :-) (lol). Its all the same anyway. Sometimes you do something and then you realize "oh this is that and that practice"....;-). I think especially we escorts do that a lot, because intuitively we all exercise energies and sexual expertise. Labels don`t matter so much, except for discussion :-)

Nina, exploring anything with you will be my pleasure

Nina, exploring anything with you will be my pleasure Originally Posted by whitechocolate

I just feel that most providers dont appreciate the value and importance of the mental side and erotic imagery in particular when they do a session. Too much concentration of just the physical. The mental side is their friend and a great tool to make the session super. Yes, I would love to meet and have fun with you. I will say though I definitely want to have my hands, mouth etc all over you and have yours all over me while we practice our erotic imagery. Originally Posted by whitechocolate

I wonder if your first sentence sort of ties in with what Olivia is saying about their being a difference between being sexually experienced but not sexually advanced. I think many people (not just providers) fall into that trap???

C xx