A few times a year I start looking around for a lady to spend an evening with. I travel a lot so I consider it an opportunity to try out a new city.
First, It is hard to find the right girl for this kind of date... It is a big risk and investment for both of us and most ladies are shy about taking the time to get to know each other. I will chat a few girls up, discuss options, until I find somebody that has the right personality for both of us to have a good time.
The setting is always nice, upgraded hotel sweet, champagne, strawberries and other snacks / drinks. And I think I am pretty generous. I even took a girl to a show i wanted to see in the Chicago theater district a few years ago.
As you might imagine the success of these dates are as veried as the personalities of the girls I select.
So, last night was one of those dates. Everything was nicely setup and we met for cocktails on the San Antonio Riverwalk.
All in all it started out as a great evening, a lot of activity and she was a fun girl. Since we discussed activities and rules before hand - we were both having a great time.
About 2 AM we were laying in bed and she was talking about how fun it would be to find a girl to join us for a hour - we could pretend we are a couple and she can join us. I told her I liked the idea, but it is really hard to find a decent provider at 2am, but we could drop a few ISO's and see what we can find - maybe somebody for the morning,
Then, all the sudden, this rare girl starts talking really fast, gets up and makes a cup of coffee, can't sit still, and finally just says she has to leave.
I suspect she took something and it put her on edge. The evening was mostly a success - it was about time for a nap anyway, but I really do like the morning tussle and shower.
Anyway, I get that this kind of date is way out of the norm! But I am sure there are more than a few guys that would love the idea...
Just know that finding the right girl can be really hard!
I keep thinking that I might take a girl someplace really cool - but it would be really risky (and expensive) to be away like that if she flakes out.
And you never know girls, if I am chatting you up - I might be looking for that perfect girl For a date!
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Thoughts and ideas?