have never had a BBJ bring me TC

any other guys out there like this? it just doesn't happen for me. complete bbj has never brought me to completion.

don't get me wrong. feels good. but it just can't take it to the next level. however, once I have reached that next level (masturbation, intercourse), then yes, a bbj can get me to completion. so, I like the bbbjtc once I'm "there", but I need either masturbation or intercourse to get me to that point.

When I was young I had the same problem. Ended up in a relationship with a therapis, PHD type. We went to couples therapy and the therapist told me it was my fault and that I had a taboo with it and I needed to relax and concentrate on how it mademe feel, and not how I percieved it as an inconvienience from my SO. A month later and i no longer wanted to fuck. I just wanted BBBJ. Worked like a charm and it was not physical but rather psychological. I guess I had to conquer this barrior where I thought it was a selfish act and not something the SO wanted to do.

I like recieving but have the same issue never TC. I usually have to do some intercourse then get close, pull out and let them finish me off orally. I'm sure it will happen eventually.

You're not alone, Rex.

My ex told me that he could never get off with oral. Well, that was BEFORE he knew me!

I have met more than a few gentleman that had the same concerns. It's not a problem for me, just let me know so I don't try TOO hard and make you or me sore!

Well, a few months ago, I had a date with a younger man and he expressed his concerns about not being able to have an orgasm during oral sex! I told him not to worry and if it happened, great......if it didn't, no big deal! I must have have hit the right spot because all of a sudden, the bed started to shake, he's shaking, sweat pouring off of his forehead.........that's when he started whistling Dixie!

I love you Lana. Cannot see you Nurse. We work in the same industry. Shit

Awwwww...

I have only had two ladies able to get me to completion via BBBJ in my 10 years of hobbying. It is no big deal though to me and not a deal breaker.

A BBBJ gets me off almost 100% of the time IF the lady knows what she's doing. It's more likely for me NOT to get off if I'm plowing a woman that's lying there like a corpse or who's only sucking to ge it over with. After more than 30 years of getting inside of women I find myself more attracted to experience than energetic youthfulness. Give me a woman that doesn't flinch when I push down her throat any day!

I couldn't get off with a BJ for more than 10 years. Of course, I was married back then.

You're not alone, Rex. Originally Posted by Sum1Else

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Ditto...

hmmm. I'm pretty dang good.

I agree with ^.

Easiest way for me to pop is via a BBBJ (preferably an infamous one). The TCIM is extra nice.

Infamous BJ is the cure.