GFE what is the true definition for you

Passion2015's Avatar
This is for all. With GFE being a hot topic lately as far as definition and what is expected versus what's advertised, I thought I would get everyone's view.
Below is what google defines as GFE and I tend to agree.


Girlfriend experience*(commonly known as*GFE) is a type of service a female*sex worker*offers which includes acting like agirlfriend*to the client. GFE may includefrench kissing,*hugging, talking, and eating a meal together.[1]*If the sex worker is male, the service is called the*boyfriend experience


The "girlfriend experience" generally involves more personal interaction than a traditionalcall girl*or escort offers; it varies widely from person to person, however. There is a focus on not just having sex, but also having more of a comprehensive experience.[3]

Often sessions last longer and are "no rush," which means the*call girl*spends the full, advertised time rather than rushing out after the sex is over. Common activities usually offered by GFE escorts include kissing and/orfrench kissing, cuddling, andforeplay.[citation needed]

A call girl advertising the provision of a "girlfriend experience" is implying that she provides deep french kissing (DFK), "full service" (intercourse) usually with protection, and*fellatio*and*cunnilingus, both with or without protection. Advertising a "girlfriend experience" is sometimes used by call girls to promote business.

What's your definition????
dookiexp's Avatar
I think the summary makes sense. For me it's comes down to the lady offer kissing and not being mechanical in nature by having good IOP. This means the provider has to have the personality to make it work and the sex drive otherwise it just feel mechanical even with kissing.

She also needs to hold a conversation and pay attention to you throughout the session.
dodger's Avatar
GFE .. to me .. isn't about chat or role playing a girl friend. i would give it "somewhat .. but not really". yes ,,, i don't book a lady unless the communications were good and i feel a connection; a rapport which makes me feel we will enjoy our time together.

but to me ... gfe is MPCFS, DFK, BBBJ, and MSOG. i don't require an illusion of passion .. an illusion of affection would be nice. of course ... i like the slut .. not sure where that fits with GFE or google's definition.

a challenge for me, recently is the limited GFE .. what the hell does that mean? on lady told me it mean no CIM, to her. another ,..,., no kissing. another ,,,, CBJ. clearly .. "limited GFE" means ... whatever the lady wants it mean.

but ... give me a lady, warm and genuine, who can be the slut .. give me the acronyms listed above (there can be more but those are mine) and i will say .. GFE has been achieved.
dookiexp's Avatar
See to me GFE is not about activities (beyond kissing) its the flow of the session.

Acitivities are just that activities and should be listed. How the provider goes about said activities dictates to me GFE or Light PSE or PSE!

For example CG. If she does CG in a slow rhythm with lots of hip actions and can build up for pop this is more GFE. If she is more quick not quite as rhythmic but not pushing her head all over the place in crazy over the top IOP, its light PSE and if she is rampant and going nuts with lots of noise its true PSE.

At least that my simplistic view of how this all plays out. I could go on about other activities and how they vary.

Myself im in this for light PSE for the most part, Im not into over the top PSE which just feels fake and im not after a girlfriend. I want the lady to be focused on me, be a fun slut but not over the top crazy. Its actually quite hard to find only 5 ladies i have met got it spot on.
We cook a meal together, stream a movie with popcorn and at bedtime do whatever the fuck we want without worrying about protection.

Not gonna happen here.
Who's Your Daddy's Avatar
True GFE for me is defined with three letters.....BBB....she defines IOP at a level you can only imagine.
Iron Butterfly's Avatar
GFE is very subjective, think about most RW girlfriends. Not all like sucking cock or CIM and swallow, not all enjoy Daty, definitely not Dato. Some girlfriends end up not liking sex at all so be carful what you ask for as GFE is not all that it's cracks up to be. I would rather see a turme more like being open to what I like. I think the turm GFE has run its corse so for me I just want a lady to not have so many boundaries. I won't say " I want a Hr GFE" in my date request. I will be spicific. " I want an Hr of mutual touching, kissing, Daty, Dato, BBBJ, and CF. if she comes back with I don't do this or that I may pass but it is out in the open before we meet. I really don't want a lady pretending to be my girlfriend, I want her to have sex with me and have fun, that's more important then a turm or a belief that I am getting something.

IB
Passion2015's Avatar
I agree Iron. I always let a lady know what I enjoy upfront. If she doesn't like it, I move on. Of course there has been times where they say they like it and once there, a different story. Sometimes it's a crap shoot and that's why I rarely and I mean rarely, schedule an hr.
Guest110715-3's Avatar
Netflix and Chill
tp161's Avatar
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  • 10-14-2015, 12:41 AM
To me GFE= kissing, BBBJ, DATY/ DATO.
plow44's Avatar
gfe- face down ass-up ohh and BAREBACK
Guest110715-3's Avatar
Looking at my contacts and phone texts when I am in the shower and asking "Who dis bitch!?" on every text and picture.
Kissing,kissing,kissing,kissin g and a lot of lovin - did I mention kissing?
Making me go to her parents house for holidays.
Passion2015's Avatar
I wonder why, only ONE provider has commented?