If you're so worried about that, wtf is being said that is so bad if we see? I think we should at least be able to see our own reviews in full. From the coed section alone it's obvious most of the men on here share a brain instead of having their own opinion anyway
Originally Posted by KitKatt62
If the powder room was not so secret, why can't a guy create a female handle and pay for access like a provider can the ML? It is not that bad things are being said, but the fact that intel on providers that guys prefer to keep amongst the guys but we all know it is not just the guys who have access, not to mention the firing of insults at other guys, most of the time off topic just to take shots at a guy who posted on topic on a thread, both of which are not allowed in coed forums, can be done. If you think Eccie and drama are related, you have not seen anything until you see the ML threads, aka the little boys room! You are right, most of the men share a brain or get told what to think/say and do not openly think for themselves, which is why those that have their own opinion are cast outs and belittled.
Giving providers access to even their own reviews is not good, unless you like drama. You already have enough info to know if a review is fake by just the posting of it from a handle you do not recognize or know. In an honest review, sometimes what is said in the review itself is going to be different than what is said in person to a provider. Reason being, he wants to be amenable and does not want the provider to go gossip about him to others. I know first hand that when you tell a provider to her face that the time spent was average or below, you get your handle bashed to the other providers by her. Maybe, one of these days, it will dawn on providers that just because a guy got off that is not a basis for her to get a good review, even tho she may get a "yes" recommendation. Seldom are "no" recommendation reviews written in order to appease providers that the paying client did not have an awesome time with to save the drama fallout, at least from the providers. Yet, in the ML, the guys may offer intel on their experience, be it BCD or TCB or both.
Now, to keep on topic of this thread so that I do not get points from a mod, since the sites that providers get to place ads are getting shut down and hacked, p411 (a place where providers can also place ads) is always going to be there as I am sure they have the protections in place to prevent that from happening and as the OP said, there is no drama.