Now that waves have settled in other parts of the board

....I for one, am extremely grateful at how decent and respectful the West Texas gents have always been in regards to the issue that has the bigger cities in an uproar...dare I say it?? ...Yes, I will. The BBFS frenzy that appears to be going on it seems on epidemic levels (to be the clear..the amount of requests providers are getting for it). Thankfully, I have only on a couple of occasions been asked if it's on the menu and I say no and that's it...dead issue. It's easy to be tactful and assertive with someone if they happen to ask. Yes, providers get bombarded with requests of all sorts and sometimes it gets frustrating and you want everyone to read the "Hobby Ettiquette" book, but that doesn't happen, so you enlighten them with a ...not going to happen response. But I for one, being the human I am, have urges as Im sure everyone else does to have a full natural experience with someone bc, come on....it feels damn good. And I'm not saying hobby related or not, it's just the urge to have that full closeness to someone. We ALL have at one time (even now those with SO's) have natural encounters b/c, speaking frankly...it feels damn good but we are part of a "fantasy" world where we must each be diligent and be accountable for our own actions and safety.

From a provider's perspective, Ive learned to pick my battles when it comes to hobbying and meeting people. I pursue what I feel to be a well fit situation for me and most gents ask about the do's and dont's which I appreciate.

IN A PERFECT WORLD, WE COULD ALL HAVE FUN WITHOUT WORRYING ABOUT CONSEQUENCE OR RUDE AWAKENINGS IN REFERENCE TO WHAT WE MAY EXPOSE OURSELF TO, however.....back to reality--that isnt the case and so it's about each individual being vigilant with their lives and lives of others and respecting the boundaries that this hobby has.

And for the record...I DONT OFFER BBFS!!!! Simply saying, I once was in a marriage (LMFAO) that I thought would last forever (ROTFLMAO) and we had au naturale encounters and it felt GREAT! So, I understand the desire for that extra closeness with someone but at the end of the day in this world...it is a tisk tisk NO NO!!

This is my .02.....

xoxox,


Ash

No one can deny that bb feels great, but you are right that we do have to be careful for our own person and always be safe.

I have read some post on this subject in the DFW boards, think I will sit this one out.

What I like about the west texas ladies and gents is that it seems we can have serious and well-thought out discussions without a bunch of fucktards jumping in with holier-than-thou attitudes who want to condemn everyone else for anything and everything they "think" someone else might be doing.

In this world, I think the only person you can really speak for and pass judgement on is yourself...and I don't know about the rest of you, but I've usually got my hands full taking care of my own self to be worring about what the rest of you are doing with your lives. We all know that people do stupid things every day, and we all know a lot of them lie about it, so I'm gonna make sure that I'm protected, and I'll sleep well at night knowing that I'm safe. I'm happy with that as I don't really have the time nor the inclination to be policing and/or passing judgement on everyone else.

There is only one thing missing in your avator Bailly.

What is a fucktard lionheart?

What is that cash I feel silly I dunno??

What is a fucktard? Originally Posted by cash69

pardon me for jumping in with an answer.....

fucktard, a male (in the hobby) who acts in a retarded fashion.
hooktard is a provider who acts in a retarded fashion.

it can be temporary, or permanent

hope that helps

What is that cash I feel silly I dunno?? Originally Posted by thatgirlbailey

Someone on their knees behind you.

pardon me for jumping in with an answer.....

fucktard, a male (in the hobby) who acts in a retarded fashion.
hooktard is a provider who acts in a retarded fashion.

it can be temporary, or permanent

hope that helps Originally Posted by texasjohn1965

Thanks for chiming in TJ! That's a much better definition than what I was about to have to orchestrate...

I agree we need to practice safe sex. Im confussed and read alot on the web. We all practice cfs but daty or bbbj seems just as risky or im I missing something.

Ashton, Girls, have you considered using womens condoms, it makes the guy think he is BB, (well he is) BUT, you have the condom in Several girls i know use them, . Womens condoms are as safe, maybe safer than mens.

I agree we need to practice safe sex. Im confussed and read alot on the web. We all practice cfs but daty or bbbj seems just as risky or im I missing something. Originally Posted by westtxbudman

You are right, and "Dental dams" are available for this. Its like a sheet of saran wrap!!! LOLNot as tastey as the real thing, but protective. The same membrane is in the mouth as inside of the Va-JJ. Yes the same can be passed orally

Someone on their knees behind you. Originally Posted by cash69

Well we are gonna have to fix that next trip to your town huh!!!

Yes, AshleyAshton

I agree that this topic really stirs up the pot in other locations. I think in West Texas we can have a rational discussion that doesn't denegrate. This thread just proves that.

Thoughts and opinions being thrown out for all to consider. In the end, we make our choices and live with those choices.