Is it CREEPY or EDUCATIONAL? Mature Providers and Clients under Age 22?

This dilemma comes and goes with me.

I learned my lesson early on ... that at some point ... when your a 40+ provider .... and a 20yo is asking for a session ...
A red flag comes up ....

Is he looking for his mommy ?
Is he a weird recluse and can't get a date?
Is he looking for Mrs. Robinson?

I reached a point that (depending on the client), the whole idea sort of creeped me out.
Mainly I guess because I ran into a few who WERE looking for their mommy.

I guess there is nothing wrong with "hey little boy .... I can teach you a thing or two" .... but I JUST DON'T KNOW ....

Thoughts?

Try to not read too much into it and carry on with your life.

Could be one of those fetish kind of things, like those milf porns out there, like my friends hot mom and milf lessons. Some people have their thing.

Im 47 but I did have an affair with a teacher in high school...Could be very therapeutic if we did some role play Mrs. Taylor

I think it may just be a preference.
I've always had a thing for older women. In the real world I have had flings with women 20-25 years older than me, starting my freshman year of college.
I am in my mid-30s now and when I hobby, I try and avoid younger providers. I have had more enjoyable sessions with older ones.

Don't think those are mutually exclusive, nor are they the only possibilities. Imposing those limitations means you're going to see what you want to see, and thus, probably only interested in confirmation bias.

As a younger guy, I've almost exclusively enjoyed fuckery with older women. I'd wager they would say I'm rather educated in said fuckery, and was not looking for them to be my mommy.

All that said, lots of people here that hobby I'd also imagine are "weird", reclusive, and would rather pay for a date with sex all but guaranteed than the hassle to get one naturally. Odd alienation-esque language you're taking there. As is the specific age of 22; but doubt that needs any going into outside the obvious.

They just want to fuck.

Be careful with the young lad.

I had a wild fling with a 40+ lady, while I was 18-19.

The worst part was having to return back to the reality and inexperience of the 18-19 year old girls...quite a drop in talent.

...probably why I've been in the hobby ever since

...and thus, probably only interested in confirmation bias.

... I'm rather educated in said fuckery, and was not looking for them to be my mommy.

...Odd alienation-esque language you're taking there. As is the specific age of 22; but doubt that needs any going into outside the obvious. Originally Posted by FunInDFW

Well FID - thank you for your input.

I'm not afraid to admit ... yes ... I'm a sexy hot MILFY 52.
So...22 just popped out there (30yrs younger).

As such is the cliche ... It's always "normal" for men/boys to see older women, but a bit controversial for the opposite. Wonder why?

I guess my point is, you get to a certain age (as a women) that something just aint right.

I understand your ideals that your encounters with older women earned you a masters in fuckery. Congrats!

When I was 30 and even at 40 .. I would see much younger guys.
Never had a problem keeping up with any of them
AND - when I was in Junior High I had a crush on two of the coaches (typically normal).
I just look at the circumstance a bit different now. I'm not in junior high anymore.

Young men can be a joy to visit with, and I DO see clients who are 32 and above. Just for the record.

BTW ...FID, your quite an author ... "Odd alienation-esque language" ... ? Wow, that's my new word of the day!

Also, not sure what you meant by
"probably only interested in confirmation bias".
No worries, don't really care to know.

Hugs,
Torre

I love seeing younger men as much as older men! As long as you are a gentleman and can enjoy an hour or two of fun I can play "mommy" or "daddy's little girl".

The Hobby is about fantasy and fun.

Spikebaby

Be careful with the young lad.

I had a wild fling with a 40+ lady, while I was 18-19.

The worst part was having to return back to the reality and inexperience of the 18-19 year old girls...quite a drop in talent.

...probably why I've been in the hobby ever since Originally Posted by DownForWhatever

Good advice!
And something to definitely think about ...

He's legal.....

You may fuck each other to death.

That would be the only concern.

I broke into the hobby years ago about that age. I saw, and continued to see an older women in her late 40s to mid fiftys.... (she turned 48 twice while I was seeing her and then back to 47 the next year. So who knows) She was sexy and fucking amazing.

I didn't know what I liked, save to say I liked my cock in something wet & warm. She knew exactly what she wanted.....It was great for both of us.

Enjoy the granite rock hard dick that cums, stays hard and just keeps fucking for as long as you want.

I understsnd how you feel Torre. I am 40 year old provider and I struggle with this issue. I have a son that is 24. I cant be with someone that i know is younger than him. So if some guy tells me they are 22 i dont see them. But some I didn't know how old they were. Seems like those are the ones that always come back. I think its knowing we are old enough to have given birth to them. So i try not to think to much about it. Just do my job to the best of my ability and when they come back i know i did something well. Just dont think about it. Just do it.

I started in the hobby when I was 19. I am 39yrs now and to be honest I've always been attracted to women 35-50yrs old. Especially if they have an incredible body. Things haven't changed either. To quote Matthew McConaughey from Dazed and Confused "I get older and they stay the same age."

It isn't anything I regret either. Obviously since I hit my late 20's, finding a mature woman to be with is much easier now. Of course when I was in my early 30's the fear or non-responses pretty much stopped.

So I felt the pain of being younger and seeing that super hot, sexy mature woman (such as yourself) turn me down simply because I was younger. If fact, you... yes you... turned me down when I was in my 20's. Not for any other reason other than age.

Am I super active in the hobby... no... some providers know me and have known me for years now. Many have moved on... and I am grateful for them. I have dated civi's and they always ask me... usually after sweating really hard and shaking "Who taught you how to do that?" So do I chalk it up education? maybe so... however, to me... there is nothing more sexy than a educated, sophisticated, mature woman that is confident and sexually open to enjoying all that physical pleasure can bring.

My question is for you. Why do you show up every 6 months and ask a bunch of stupid questions?