Escort code of conduct

Exotic Publishing's
Code of Ethics for an
Independent Escort

You will behave like an escort, NOT a hooker. This list is NOT for hookers who pretend to be escorts. If you don't respect your profession, then this service is not for you.
You dress discrtely and don't look like a hooker wearing clown makeup, or smell like a hooker wearing an entire bottle of perfum because you can't be bothered to shower and clean yourself.
You are very discrete both in the information you collect from the client as well as if you happen to see him in public not during his time with you.This also means if you have a personal driver who takes you to outcalls, he isn't bringing attention to himself so the entire neighborhood watches. While he is there to protect you, making the client nervous is NOT what you are there to do. That defeats the entire purpose of why the client is hiring you in the first place.
You as an escort will NOT misrepresent your gender or vastly misrepresent your physical characteristics.

This includes you only showing potential clients up-to-date photos of yourself, as well as giving accurate hair color, bust size, measurements, weight, etc. Fluctuating the age we don't have too much of a problem with.

If you don't wish to give out your measurements or weight, my book "How to Become a Successful Escort" will tell you how to still be honest without divulging this.
You are clean. You get checked out minum every 3 months and if you are doing incalls, your place is spotless including bedsheets.
You will NEVER work as an escort if you know you have any kind of illness that is harmful to your clients.
You Never use other escort's photos as your own.
If you are an indpenedent escort, you will give all clients and potential clients excellent customer service.

This includes but is not limited to:

a) returning their phone calls within 1-2 hours, or having someone else answer your calls if you are unable to.
b) keep your website calendar up-to-date so there is no confusion. (The EBS Website Manager will be launching soon just for this purpose)
c) you are kind and understanding, while still maintaining your boundaries and business policies.
d) you are all prepared for your appointments meaning you don't get changed at his place or once he arrives, you remember his name, you dress as he requested if it was within your means, etc.
You will keep all appointments you make and if you can't, you will try your best to give the client a mininum of 24 hours notice.
You will be on time 98% of the time to all of your appointments - whether incall or outcall.
You never cut an appointment early or rush the client unless he's just way too difficult to deal with, but generally in that case you should still complete the call and just decide not to see him again.
You cater to the client during his/her appointment and you don't act like a prima dona expecting him to cater to you. This rule is only for regular escorts, not Mistresses for BDSM where being a bitch is mandatory.

You are offering a service to him and while I feel both parties should participate equally, he is paying you for the lovely experience you are to provide to HIM.

So, that means NO answering your phone (it should be turned off) during the appointments, no yapping about all the problems you have, no watching TV while you are with him, no talking with him on the phone or seeing clients while your children are in the other room either quiet OR screaming and crying, etc.

He is there to de-stress, not stress out about all your problems on top of his and the last thing a client wants is to see your kids! VERY unprofessional!
You will not go around bad mouthing clients or other escorts. If the client wants to know your opinion about someone that is different than you trying to get others into trouble or giving them a bad name.
This is in relation to #8, absolutely NO stabbing other escorts in the back by lying about them, posting false ads online about them, posting personal information about them online that the escort may have told you about in confidence, or you trying to prevent them from getting clients.

You are an escort, NOT a hooker! If you don't know the difference, just read this list. Any escort that behaves in this manner is, in our opinion, a hooker posing as an escort.

While you don't have to be best buddies with every escort in the entire world, purposely trying to "get them" is not only immature and insecure behavior, it shows that you are a nasty individual and you need serious emotional help.
You do NOT get to the client's resident or hotel, take his money and run.
You do NOT steal ANYTHING from a client while with him/her.
You do NOT rummage through his cell phone or pockets to snoop while he's somewhere else.
You do NOT blackmail clients, escort agency owners, other escorts, drivers, phone people, etc.
You or anyone you associate yourself with NEVER physically abuses the client unless you, any phone people you hire or drivers you hire have been threatened, assaulted, or are in danger. Then we feel you have the right to protect yourself and your support staff.
Same goes for emotional abuse. Getting extra hours out of the client is one thing & good business, BUT, milking him for every penny he has because he's in a vulnerable situation with you & you are just out to use & detroy ALL men is NOT business, it's serious emotional abuse.
You will Never put a client in harms way unless your safety is at risk.
You keep all information about your clients, support staff, and the escorts you hire completely confidential, unless you have had major problems with them and they need to be put on a badlist or review board.
In the past or currently while working for an escort agency you do NOT steal their clients. That means if the client came from their hard work and money (advertising, connections, etc.), they are the agency's client, NOT yours and we all know how clients will try to see you on the side. It's your job to be professional and say NO. If you want your own clients, that's the time to become an independent and spend your own money and time.

Great thread and information!!! Thankyou : )

After reading this there is def some codes I need to improve on... I will be the first to admit my tcb skills suck!! This hobby can get overwhelming at times..

You more than make up for it

You more than make up for it Originally Posted by Howdy Do Me

Thankyou babe.. I try my hardest to. ; )

Great post, Vicki.

So.......this tells me we have very few escorts in this area.....and a lot of hookers.

Yes, nice post. One of the finer points you missed and has been bothering me for a long time is the " If it's not me, it's free" clause in a lot of ads I see. How does that work?

If I make an appt. a with girl who has that in her ad and I show up and a different girl answers the door, Is she legally obligated to give me a freebie? Is there some kind of renumeration to the given to the girl who gives the freebie? If so does that renumeration come directly from the provider whom I originally wanted to see or does it come from a trust from the Hooker's, I'm sorry, escort's union? Seems like I could get laid everyday for nothing, if I took advantage of this offer Am I missing something in the fine print? Please advise, thanks

So.......this tells me we have very few escorts in this area.....and a lot of hookers. Originally Posted by Hardpiped03

or, or is that and
my peanuts, popcorn, crackerjacks sale will be going down

Exotic Publishing's
Code of Ethics for an
Independent Escort

You will behave like an escort, NOT a hooker. This list is NOT for hookers who pretend to be escorts. If you don't respect your profession, then this service is not for you.
You dress discrtely and don't look like a hooker wearing clown makeup, or smell like a hooker wearing an entire bottle of perfum because you can't be bothered to shower and clean yourself.
You are very discrete both in the information you collect from the client as well as if you happen to see him in public not during his time with you.This also means if you have a personal driver who takes you to outcalls, he isn't bringing attention to himself so the entire neighborhood watches. While he is there to protect you, making the client nervous is NOT what you are there to do. That defeats the entire purpose of why the client is hiring you in the first place.
You as an escort will NOT misrepresent your gender or vastly misrepresent your physical characteristics.

This includes you only showing potential clients up-to-date photos of yourself, as well as giving accurate hair color, bust size, measurements, weight, etc. Fluctuating the age we don't have too much of a problem with.

If you don't wish to give out your measurements or weight, my book "How to Become a Successful Escort" will tell you how to still be honest without divulging this.
You are clean. You get checked out minum every 3 months and if you are doing incalls, your place is spotless including bedsheets.
You will NEVER work as an escort if you know you have any kind of illness that is harmful to your clients.
You Never use other escort's photos as your own.
If you are an indpenedent escort, you will give all clients and potential clients excellent customer service.

This includes but is not limited to:

a) returning their phone calls within 1-2 hours, or having someone else answer your calls if you are unable to.
b) keep your website calendar up-to-date so there is no confusion. (The EBS Website Manager will be launching soon just for this purpose)
c) you are kind and understanding, while still maintaining your boundaries and business policies.
d) you are all prepared for your appointments meaning you don't get changed at his place or once he arrives, you remember his name, you dress as he requested if it was within your means, etc.
You will keep all appointments you make and if you can't, you will try your best to give the client a mininum of 24 hours notice.
You will be on time 98% of the time to all of your appointments - whether incall or outcall.
You never cut an appointment early or rush the client unless he's just way too difficult to deal with, but generally in that case you should still complete the call and just decide not to see him again.
You cater to the client during his/her appointment and you don't act like a prima dona expecting him to cater to you. This rule is only for regular escorts, not Mistresses for BDSM where being a bitch is mandatory.

You are offering a service to him and while I feel both parties should participate equally, he is paying you for the lovely experience you are to provide to HIM.

So, that means NO answering your phone (it should be turned off) during the appointments, no yapping about all the problems you have, no watching TV while you are with him, no talking with him on the phone or seeing clients while your children are in the other room either quiet OR screaming and crying, etc.

He is there to de-stress, not stress out about all your problems on top of his and the last thing a client wants is to see your kids! VERY unprofessional!
You will not go around bad mouthing clients or other escorts. If the client wants to know your opinion about someone that is different than you trying to get others into trouble or giving them a bad name.
This is in relation to #8, absolutely NO stabbing other escorts in the back by lying about them, posting false ads online about them, posting personal information about them online that the escort may have told you about in confidence, or you trying to prevent them from getting clients.

You are an escort, NOT a hooker! If you don't know the difference, just read this list. Any escort that behaves in this manner is, in our opinion, a hooker posing as an escort.

While you don't have to be best buddies with every escort in the entire world, purposely trying to "get them" is not only immature and insecure behavior, it shows that you are a nasty individual and you need serious emotional help.
You do NOT get to the client's resident or hotel, take his money and run.
You do NOT steal ANYTHING from a client while with him/her.
You do NOT rummage through his cell phone or pockets to snoop while he's somewhere else.
You do NOT blackmail clients, escort agency owners, other escorts, drivers, phone people, etc.
You or anyone you associate yourself with NEVER physically abuses the client unless you, any phone people you hire or drivers you hire have been threatened, assaulted, or are in danger. Then we feel you have the right to protect yourself and your support staff.
Same goes for emotional abuse. Getting extra hours out of the client is one thing & good business, BUT, milking him for every penny he has because he's in a vulnerable situation with you & you are just out to use & detroy ALL men is NOT business, it's serious emotional abuse.
You will Never put a client in harms way unless your safety is at risk.
You keep all information about your clients, support staff, and the escorts you hire completely confidential, unless you have had major problems with them and they need to be put on a badlist or review board.
In the past or currently while working for an escort agency you do NOT steal their clients. That means if the client came from their hard work and money (advertising, connections, etc.), they are the agency's client, NOT yours and we all know how clients will try to see you on the side. It's your job to be professional and say NO. If you want your own clients, that's the time to become an independent and spend your own money and time. Originally Posted by Vickiny

Very nice post, thank you fine lady!

Exotic Publishing's
Code of Ethics for an
Independent Escort

You will behave like an escort, NOT a hooker. This list is NOT for hookers who pretend to be escorts. If you don't respect your profession, then this service is not for you.
You dress discrtely and don't look like a hooker wearing clown makeup, or smell like a hooker wearing an entire bottle of perfum because you can't be bothered to shower and clean yourself.
You are very discrete both in the information you collect from the client as well as if you happen to see him in public not during his time with you.This also means if you have a personal driver who takes you to outcalls, he isn't bringing attention to himself so the entire neighborhood watches. While he is there to protect you, making the client nervous is NOT what you are there to do. That defeats the entire purpose of why the client is hiring you in the first place.
You as an escort will NOT misrepresent your gender or vastly misrepresent your physical characteristics.

This includes you only showing potential clients up-to-date photos of yourself, as well as giving accurate hair color, bust size, measurements, weight, etc. Fluctuating the age we don't have too much of a problem with.

If you don't wish to give out your measurements or weight, my book "How to Become a Successful Escort" will tell you how to still be honest without divulging this.
You are clean. You get checked out minum every 3 months and if you are doing incalls, your place is spotless including bedsheets.
You will NEVER work as an escort if you know you have any kind of illness that is harmful to your clients.
You Never use other escort's photos as your own.
If you are an indpenedent escort, you will give all clients and potential clients excellent customer service.

This includes but is not limited to:

a) returning their phone calls within 1-2 hours, or having someone else answer your calls if you are unable to.
b) keep your website calendar up-to-date so there is no confusion. (The EBS Website Manager will be launching soon just for this purpose)
c) you are kind and understanding, while still maintaining your boundaries and business policies.
d) you are all prepared for your appointments meaning you don't get changed at his place or once he arrives, you remember his name, you dress as he requested if it was within your means, etc.
You will keep all appointments you make and if you can't, you will try your best to give the client a mininum of 24 hours notice.
You will be on time 98% of the time to all of your appointments - whether incall or outcall.
You never cut an appointment early or rush the client unless he's just way too difficult to deal with, but generally in that case you should still complete the call and just decide not to see him again.
You cater to the client during his/her appointment and you don't act like a prima dona expecting him to cater to you. This rule is only for regular escorts, not Mistresses for BDSM where being a bitch is mandatory.

You are offering a service to him and while I feel both parties should participate equally, he is paying you for the lovely experience you are to provide to HIM.

So, that means NO answering your phone (it should be turned off) during the appointments, no yapping about all the problems you have, no watching TV while you are with him, no talking with him on the phone or seeing clients while your children are in the other room either quiet OR screaming and crying, etc.

He is there to de-stress, not stress out about all your problems on top of his and the last thing a client wants is to see your kids! VERY unprofessional!
You will not go around bad mouthing clients or other escorts. If the client wants to know your opinion about someone that is different than you trying to get others into trouble or giving them a bad name.
This is in relation to #8, absolutely NO stabbing other escorts in the back by lying about them, posting false ads online about them, posting personal information about them online that the escort may have told you about in confidence, or you trying to prevent them from getting clients.

You are an escort, NOT a hooker! If you don't know the difference, just read this list. Any escort that behaves in this manner is, in our opinion, a hooker posing as an escort.

While you don't have to be best buddies with every escort in the entire world, purposely trying to "get them" is not only immature and insecure behavior, it shows that you are a nasty individual and you need serious emotional help.
You do NOT get to the client's resident or hotel, take his money and run.
You do NOT steal ANYTHING from a client while with him/her.
You do NOT rummage through his cell phone or pockets to snoop while he's somewhere else.
You do NOT blackmail clients, escort agency owners, other escorts, drivers, phone people, etc.
You or anyone you associate yourself with NEVER physically abuses the client unless you, any phone people you hire or drivers you hire have been threatened, assaulted, or are in danger. Then we feel you have the right to protect yourself and your support staff.
Same goes for emotional abuse. Getting extra hours out of the client is one thing & good business, BUT, milking him for every penny he has because he's in a vulnerable situation with you & you are just out to use & detroy ALL men is NOT business, it's serious emotional abuse.
You will Never put a client in harms way unless your safety is at risk.
You keep all information about your clients, support staff, and the escorts you hire completely confidential, unless you have had major problems with them and they need to be put on a badlist or review board.
In the past or currently while working for an escort agency you do NOT steal their clients. That means if the client came from their hard work and money (advertising, connections, etc.), they are the agency's client, NOT yours and we all know how clients will try to see you on the side. It's your job to be professional and say NO. If you want your own clients, that's the time to become an independent and spend your own money and time. Originally Posted by Vickiny

Irrelevant

Irrelevant Originally Posted by J.J. Walker

Laugh My Fucking Ass Off.
It deserved to be spelled out.

Lol just thought some people needed to be reminded of the "unoffocial" code of conduct. I got quite the chuckle out of some of these lol

Yes, nice post. One of the finer points you missed and has been bothering me for a long time is the " If it's not me, it's free" clause in a lot of ads I see. How does that work?

If I make an appt. a with girl who has that in her ad and I show up and a different girl answers the door, Is she legally obligated to give me a freebie? Is there some kind of renumeration to the given to the girl who gives the freebie? If so does that renumeration come directly from the provider whom I originally wanted to see or does it come from a trust from the Hooker's, I'm sorry, escort's union? Seems like I could get laid everyday for nothing, if I took advantage of this offer Am I missing something in the fine print? Please advise, thanks Originally Posted by drluv1

I've only seem that clause with back page girls who have no reviews or a personal website. If you see verified providers with reviews, and stop trying to find "the diamond in the rough" on BP, you shouldn't have a problem!! Glad I was able to help!

Lol just thought some people needed to be reminded of the "unoffocial" code of conduct. I got quite the chuckle out of some of these lol Originally Posted by Vickiny

Vicky -- the thread is great and informative.....
It's just that JJ has a way of taking a page of text and writing a word or attaching a picture that makes me spit whatever is in my mouth onto my computer screen....

He does it to many of my long winded responses as well....
Whenever he does respond to one of my posts... I am at first taken aback... and then honored that he took the time to make my day....

Consider yourself as having been complimented... perhaps to the Nth degree.....