LITTLE TIRED OF BACKPAGE SLANDER

giasanto38ddd's Avatar
Ok i dont rant much so here is my yearly rant. Not all bp girls are trash scam artist fakes or pimped I for one am not. And it seems anytime a negative review or expierience the same comments come bp angin....blah blah blah Yes us bp gals are less pricey but you get what you pay for ...Gents on here that have vebtured on bp can nor honestly tell me EVERY female they encountered off bp turned into a train wreck. Lots of the lovely ladies on here like myself still advertise on there and yes we go through bad apples on there too but logically the good out weigh the bad or we would not keep spending our money to advertise on there...guys feel free to mention a bp girl you have had a good expieienrce with and felt you got what you paid for... ladies that have or currently still advertise on there and believe you are a good provider providing the service you are compinsated for uo or above par please comment
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Ok i dont rant much so here is my yearly rant. Not all bp girls are trash scam artist fakes or pimped I for one am not. And it seems anytime a negative review or expierience the same comments come bp angin....blah blah blah Yes us bp gals are less pricey but you get what you pay for ...Gents on here that have vebtured on bp can nor honestly tell me EVERY female they encountered off bp turned into a train wreck. Lots of the lovely ladies on here like myself still advertise on there and yes we go through bad apples on there too but logically the good out weigh the bad or we would not keep spending our money to advertise on there...guys feel free to mention a bp girl you have had a good expieienrce with and felt you got what you paid for... ladies that have or currently still advertise on there and believe you are a good provider providing the service you are compinsated for uo or above par please comment Originally Posted by giasanto38ddd
Like I've said many times... ALL these sites that escorts advertise on are a crap shoot and none are better or worse than others. My absolute best experiences have been with girls I initially found on BP and most of them have since moved here and some to P411, but they ALL still use BP
Sorry, but bp offers no checks or balances at all. Eccie at least has some feedback system. Women who try to.pull the shit many bp women do get called out very quickly. that's not to say no women on bp are legit some are. Even some that are not on here as well. But the odds.of getting fucked over on bp are far higher than here. Given how many times lickher has been banned here.I can understand hm wanting lump them together but there are major differences. Especially for a novice hobiest who does not know how to research. And compared to.p411, bp really sucks. I would also consider it far more of a risk for a provider just starting out as well.
If it don't apply, let it fly.
Ok i dont rant much so here is my yearly rant. Not all bp girls are trash scam artist fakes or pimped I for one am not. And it seems anytime a negative review or expierience the same comments come bp angin....blah blah blah Yes us bp gals are less pricey but you get what you pay for ...Gents on here that have vebtured on bp can nor honestly tell me EVERY female they encountered off bp turned into a train wreck. Lots of the lovely ladies on here like myself still advertise on there and yes we go through bad apples on there too but logically the good out weigh the bad or we would not keep spending our money to advertise on there...guys feel free to mention a bp girl you have had a good expieienrce with and felt you got what you paid for... ladies that have or currently still advertise on there and believe you are a good provider providing the service you are compinsated for uo or above par please comment Originally Posted by giasanto38ddd
Did you really just say that? I'm guessing that isn't going to entice anyone to come see you.
I used bp for several months and nothing against bp and some of the great guys that I still see found me on bp. It is like any site good and bad. It is a source for ladies to advertise just like the other sites.
joshf26's Avatar
Let's see, Pre-Eccie, Pre-TER, and Pre-411, I was 3 out of 33. Yep, I saw 33 providers from BP. And 30 were not to par. False advertisements (services not truly offered, bad pics, bait and switches, rip-off's, and just bad attitudes) about 25. The other 5 were okay and just needed a little more. Now 3 hidden gems. So the average paid services was about $.5 and well there you go. As of now, thanks to this and other communities of fellow hobbyist and great providers, BP is no-no. The risks always out weigh the rewards.
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  • L.A.
  • 01-11-2014, 06:39 AM
You are not considered a BP provider in my opinion. You have 3 pages of reviews and have been a member of this site for a long time and have 500 posts. I'm not sure if you're speaking for somebody else or just in general.

If you are ONLY on BP and not a member of this site or P411 there is ZERO chance I would even remotely consider seeing you.

BP is the wild wild west and there "ain't no sheriff"

I don't think the problem is with providers who use multiple ways to advertise. The providers ONLY on BP are the problems. I think enough stories have played out to validate this.

Nothing is 100% but I like to minimize my risks.

I said it before and I'll say it again. Fuck you backpage.
Key point is that you advertise here AND BP. My first hobby experince in the US was on BP. Paid for an hour MSOG, after my first pop, she bolted out the door and i still had 40 mins left. Only BP girls i see now are reviewed on Eccie. Too many horror stories on BP and the percentages seem to work against us hobbyist of having a drama free encounter.
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Let's see, Pre-Eccie, Pre-TER, and Pre-411, I was 3 out of 33. Yep, I saw 33 providers from BP. And 30 were not to par. False advertisements (services not truly offered, bad pics, bait and switches, rip-off's, and just bad attitudes) about 25. The other 5 were okay and just needed a little more. Now 3 hidden gems. So the average paid services was about $.5 and well there you go. As of now, thanks to this and other communities of fellow hobbyist and great providers, BP is no-no. The risks always out weigh the rewards. Originally Posted by joshf26
And I say you are careless and don't research your BP targets well enough. My success rate on BP is no different than it is on here. MANY of the reviews on ECCIE are way to "positive" for fear of provider retribution or for huge discounts (I've received more than 1/2 off from very highly regarded providers for the promise of a positive review that states their advertised price) The description hobbyists give in reviews of providers "looks" or weight are at times very different than reality. The photos of many ECCIE providers are miss-leading or worse in their showcases. The one area I pretty much agree with is bait and switch, it does happen on BP, but those ad are usually red-flag ads any way. Even though I've never had a bait and switch situation here in ECCIE, I have seen providers who's photos are almost like bait and switch and were taken many years and/or pounds ago...
I do agree with Lickher that research is the key. It really does not matter what site you find her on if you do your do dillgence. Tineye, google image, phone number searches, using review sites like these, P411, etc. Going in blind and hopeing for the best will get you burned. If you dont find enough info to make a solid choice, don't do it.

And if you do run into a bait and switch, WALK AWAY. Quit rewarding them.
Hang in there. I take each person (provider) one by one as a person, not where they advertise at. If a provider is honest and fair, or dishonest and a crappy person, them being on ECCIE, BP or EROS isn't what made them that way. They are what they are.

In fairness, that same thing holds true for the hobbyist. You are what you are.
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And I say you are careless and don't research your BP targets well enough. My success rate on BP is no different than it is on here. MANY of the reviews on ECCIE are way to "positive" for fear of provider retribution or for huge discounts (I've received more than 1/2 off from very highly regarded providers for the promise of a positive review that states their advertised price) The description hobbyists give in reviews of providers "looks" or weight are at times very different than reality. The photos of many ECCIE providers are miss-leading or worse in their showcases. The one area I pretty much agree with is bait and switch, it does happen on BP, but those ad are usually red-flag ads any way. Even though I've never had a bait and switch situation here in ECCIE, I have seen providers who's photos are almost like bait and switch and were taken many years and/or pounds ago... Originally Posted by LickHer
I see. Yeah, but as stated in my comment, this BP was before I knew there were resources to research a provider. This is about the first 6 months I started in the hobby. Than a wonderful Eccie provider told me about P411, TER, and Eccie. Ever since I've had a better success rate finding what I want. I'll admit I was careless. Thanks for your insight.
Technically, it's libel.
Technically, it's libel. Originally Posted by LilMynx69
A nit.

She ^^^ just picked it....