Andi Rae NCNS Me Twice In One Day

I put out an ISO Thursday night for an early morning Friday session at 6. I had several ladies PM me telling me they were available. I chose Andi Rae. Her pictures looked great and our conversation went well so I said let’s do this. 5:00 am and I see her PM giving me directions to her place. I leave and took me about 40 minutes to get there. I am parked in front of her place getting ready to PM her that I was there and she sends a PM saying don’t come in. I open it and it says “My spouse and I are having an argument. Please do not show up. I am so sorry”.

Needless to say I was pissed because it took me all that time to get there and she cancels right when I am at her door. I leave upset and I go to the gym to work off the anger. After a while I felt bad about being mad so I send PMs during the day asking if she was ok. I told her I know things happen, I chose her for a reason and would still like to see her.

She contacts me at 1:12 saying she is not having the best day but she still wants to see me again and offered an amazing deal, I say I would take it but did not hear back so I sent out my second ISO an hour later asking for the same session I did the night before.

Again I had some wonderful ladies say they were available including Andi Rae. She gives me a list of times I can go see her today, Saturday, Sunday and Monday. I chose her again and told her I would be there at 3:45.
At 3:41 I am in front of her house again. I sent her a PM to tell her I was there and ready when she was. She sent me a PM saying that the day had been a crappy one and she did not want it to affect her performance and Asked to do Monday. Now I am really pissed, she is NS me again at her door. If she was not up to it why offer me Friday afternoon? If she was not up to it why accept my offer of 3:45? If she was not up to it why wait (AGAIN) until I am at her door (AGAIN) to NS me again.

I sent a PM asking was she really going to do this. She still has not responded by the time of this posting. Andi recently came back after 3 months out of the business from whatever legal issues she had (You can read up on that in her posts if you want) and I know we all have bad days. Some of you will blame me for the second time and quite frankly I blame myself as well after getting burned the first time. But I really never thought it would happen again exactly the same way.

All she had to do was say after the first NS can we wait for another day. She did not have to offer me again, she did not have to accept again. That is no way of doing business. I truly hope she gets her act together soon. Extremely Frustrating

Make peace and move on. This is the first of the month and rent is due. There are a plethora of other ladies who are ready to make things right.

You're right and I have. Thanks pretty lady.

You're right and I have. Thanks pretty lady. Originally Posted by Denton_Dream

You're welcome. Happy Hobbying ❤️

No disrespect but those red flags were flying like crazy. It is so unbelievably UNCOOL to leave someone hanging like that because they can't control their own drama in their life but people like that go on my "hot but hell no" list right then and there.

Next time, heed the warning and find a stable solid provider. They are everywhere and much more fun.

None of us are perfect but when another persons drama, drains my time or energy they are gone gone gone.

Sorry this happened to you.

Sorry this happened...I've had a few experiences like we all have with clients and now I stand firm by these mottos:

Fool me twice, shame on me

When people show you who they are....believe them... the FIRST time and move on

No disrespect but those red flags were flying like crazy. It is so unbelievably UNCOOL to leave someone hanging like that because they can't control their own drama in their life but people like that go on my "hot but hell no" list right then and there.

Next time, heed the warning and find a stable solid provider. They are everywhere and much more fun.

None of us are perfect but when another persons drama, drains my time or energy they are gone gone gone.

Sorry this happened to you. Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

No disrespect taken. I blame myself as well. Thanks for sharing ��

Sorry this happened...I've had a few experiences like we all have with clients and now I stand firm by these mottos:

Fool me twice, shame on me

When people show you who they are....believe them... the FIRST time and move on Originally Posted by Sophia Banks

Amen. Thankk you 😍

FYI, if she contacts you and cancels, its a cancellation. she could have just left you hanging. Only you can decide if you want to try again.