We have providers; what about your SO?

Hello my hobby brothers and all the lovely ladies. I opened an identical thread on the general area of this forum and it got several interesting response. You can check it out here: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=221548 . I want to know what is the South Texas response to this question/statement. Of course, all the lovely ladies are more than welcome to give their POV

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As hobby lovers, most of us have a S.O. We always try to take as many precautions as possibles so that our loved ones (or SO if you will) dont find out about our fantastic hobby since it would spell DOOM to the relationship.

Now my question to you my brothers is; what would your reaction be if your spouse were to frequently visit multiple male providers!?!?!

Eager to ready your responses

~VG
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my situation is a bit unique since my wife has allowed me to bring providers to our room in VEGAS..BUT only in VEGAS and she never participates or watches. (strange.. huh?)

But I have told her "hey go ahead and have your fun too. it's only fair" and she always refuses. LOL..

I would LOVE to watch my SO with another man or multiple men...never happen in a million years, but wouldn't bother me at all.

I'd get rid of the cheating bitch!

My SO probably does mess around. It wouldnt suprise me thats why I have my own little hobby.

I wonder if any of the male providers in south texas have the STL. I'd be surprised if my loving bride would pay for an STL when she has one at home. Who knows, maybe she is. Hmmmmm.

I'd get rid of the cheating bitch! Originally Posted by lance58

Lance that is so funny!

glad to know your point of view on the subject, Lance. No double standard there! (that was too funny)

Interesting!

Well, I have always firmly believed that the day I find a GF or a SO, it will be the day I quit the hobby...

Also, question to some of the +40 yrs old hobby brothers; I have heard that my of you guys play this hobby because you live in a sex-less marriage. If that is the case then why remain married????

Interesting!

Well, I have always firmly believed that the day I find a GF or a SO, it will be the day I quit the hobby...

Also, question to some of the +40 yrs old hobby brothers; I have heard that my of you guys play this hobby because you live in a sex-less marriage. If that is the case then why remain married???? Originally Posted by virginguy

If I was younger you would not have that problem, you are the best.And every time I see you, you are always the kindest gentleman I have ever met!

i dont know why a women would ever have to pay for company.sometimes me and the wife make a add on CL for a guy to come over for NSA play with the wife wile i watch or join,,,we get 100's of replies with in the first 3 hours,by the end of the first or second day we will pull the add down because just way to many replies to go threw them all..

have yet to find that unicorn of a second female,so we are starting to look into sites like this to get some info on the scene.

glad to know your point of view on the subject, Lance. No double standard there! (that was too funny) Originally Posted by Heather Anderson

You know it's not a double standard... if I had a wife or SO, I wouldn't be in the hobby!

Interesting!

Well, I have always firmly believed that the day I find a GF or a SO, it will be the day I quit the hobby...

Also, question to some of the +40 yrs old hobby brothers; I have heard that my of you guys play this hobby because you live in a sex-less marriage. If that is the case then why remain married???? Originally Posted by virginguy

The hobby has a funny way of dragging you back in.....

In my situation... I have a great family. I dont want that interrupted. But the sex is barely there.

I guess I look at the two as different entities. Sex is just that. Sex.

Thats why I look for intense deep meaningful relationships that only last an hour!

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Sympy.

Very well put, Sympy