JUST WONDERING if a GUY who PREFERS gfe can be TRUELY satisfied with service from a non GFE provider

giasanto38ddd's Avatar
ok... so i do not advertise or offer gfe sessions generally from to time when i am extremely comfortable with a regular my rules change as the relationship grows but not always so i never advertise as a gfe provider because i always want EVERYONE to get what theeing more active on here i have seen as i am becomeing more active on here i have seen more and more men whom i know prefer or only use ge provider nowys dont rush and am still very sensual but im always ummm whats the word kind of anxiouse that i will totally leave them satisfied and fullfilled as it something itake pride in but when i "research them" check out reviews comments and threads that they are involved in and see consistant menu choices they indulge in that i do not offer i sometimes wonder if they know ahead of time im not gfe so i always tell themto check out some of my reviews to see of my menu options...now just about most of the timethey do call me back and we are both spent at the end of the session but im just wondering if generally they are still the same level of satisfied as if they would have seena gfe provider GUYS OPINIONS? LADIES?
Will Boner's Avatar
What think if I am ok and but just in case well put because most know up and see other of time the part good.
First-- my answer:

MOST guys who prefer a GFE experience are a little more careful about who they choose as their "provider of choice". Some GFE guys just want a quick roll in the hay from time to time as well. This world is not linear. So what I am saying is, some guys will still be intrigued to see you despite your non-GFE status. Don't worry so much about who will and won't see you. You just do the best at what YOU prefer to do and you will have clientele. There are so many gents out there that want so many different things.

Second-- PUNCTUATION!! It quite literally hurts to read a long post with NO punctuation. Even if you don't get it right, an attempt is ALWAYS appreciated!!
For me at 55 years young, I prefer GFE. I enjoy the flirting, deep kissing, subtle touches, making toasts, an intellegent conversation...all that leads up to the passion.
Cheers!
flanker1017's Avatar
LOL
H J you are too funny.
true_whatever's Avatar
Some GFE guys just want a quick roll in the hay from time to time as well. Originally Posted by DecemberLove
This. I greatly prefer GFE sessions but sometimes pure horniness hits everyone and needs to be dealt with

Having said that, some guys like me opt for quicker "solutions" to those moments, like studios or AMPs. I've found that last minute scheduling with an independent can often be too chaotic and stressful.
Every guy on this board prefers GFE. That's why we are all here. But, if a guy finds a certain woman attractive, he will overlook his GFE requirements (to a certain extent) if she at least acts like she is having a good time with him. All things being equal, though, I would say 99% of the guys on this board would be more satisfied with a true GFE provider.
Guest071315's Avatar
Punctuation and bad grammar... I couldn't read it all. But most like GFE.
TexasFlip's Avatar
What think if I am ok and but just in case well put because most know up and see other of time the part good. Originally Posted by Hugh Jardon
freakin' funny

I prefer GFE, but sometimes I just want the sex. It depends on my mood as to what will satisfy my cravings.

I will point out, that if I just want the sex - my partner must be highly attractive (what I find attractive). If I'm in the mood for GFE, looks are less important and it's more about my partner delivering the illusion of passion. Believe me, I know it's all an illusion
mtabsw's Avatar
To me, these terms are a constant source of confusion - but here's kind of what I like, and how I view the spectrum...of HOW we interact...not what menu items are involved.

On the one end is the AMP experience - no kissing period, strict rules, orchestrated, mechanical ... And the guy gets his "O"

At the GFE point it gets incredibly passionate for both - conversation involved whenever either chooses to pause and say something besides "mmmmph, mmmppph,OH SWEET LORD"...etc. And somewhere both usually get their "O" - or by some reviews - lots & lots of "O"s.

Menu items are off topic because you both either have researched your partners well, or you actually know the person as to what their preferences and boundaries are.

PSE is kinda like the porn with everyone's fluids flying, mascara running, screaming, headboard banging "rugby sex".

My rotation includes GFE types and some full-on PSE types and a couple of addictive jewels who go wherever the session leads... No names but initials are RF, LL and CM.

So, my short answer is no, I can't be happy when the session is not pretty close to my above definition of GFE and the associated warmth, depth of feeling and "passion". The real art lies in making us guys believe in the illusion.
true_whatever's Avatar
On the one end is the AMP experience - no kissing period, strict rules, orchestrated, mechanical ... And the guy gets his "O" Originally Posted by mtabsw
Just wanted to jump in here to say that this assessment does NOT apply to the few good girls at the well-known AMPs. Check the AMP forum to find out who they are, if interested.

But yes I agree that most AMP sessions are like this, if the guy just shows up and gets luck-of-the-draw without doing research and/or making an appointment first.

(Clarification: I still prefer GFE from a good indy above all.)
trynagetlaid's Avatar
Pure torture...you making me read all that just to find out your temporary new number.

The big head might care about GFE but the little head doesn't; and with most males the little head rules about 90% of the time.
Red Tex's Avatar
If I am not expecting GFE, then I can get off and get out. I much prefer GFE.
LMAO Hugh..you owe me a new keyboard!
guest061212's Avatar
I much prefer gfe. A non-gfe session can be really good or really bad. Mechanical, scripted, detached are just some of what makes a session bad.