Hello!
I found a very interesting - for me - article in the New York Times. I personally never believed or supported the notion that men and women are so different psychologically or within behaviour. From what I learned all the brain scans are showing no significant difference and is overrated in popular culture . It much rather fuels the so called "battle of the sexes" and makes consensus almost impossible. (Or some therapists rich by trying to promote patterns of behaviour that are supposed to work ..)
Any thoughts?
MEN and women are so different they might as well be from separate planets, so says the theory of the sexes famously explicated in John Gray’s 1992 best seller, “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.”
Indeed, sex differences are a perennially popular topic in behavioral science; since 2000, scientific journals have published more than 30,000 articles on them.
That men and women differ in certain respects is unassailable. Unfortunately, the continuing belief in “categorical differences” — men are aggressive, women are caring — reinforces traditional stereotypes by treating certain behaviors as immutable. And, it turns out, this belief is based on a scientifically indefensible model of human behavior.
As the psychologist Cordelia Fine explains in her book “Delusions of Gender,” the influence of one kind of categorical thinking, neurosexism — justifying differential treatment by citing differences in neural anatomy or function — spills over to educational and employment disparities, family relations and arguments about same-sex institutions.
The Mars/Venus view describes a world that does not exist, at least here on earth. Our work shows that sex does not define qualitatively distinct categories of psychological characteristics. We need to look at individuals as individuals.
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/04/21/op...=fb-share&_r=0