What happens....

If your new but don't have any references. The only couple ladies that you've seen were from bp and they change their number. How can I enjoy this website without any references or someone giving me a chance?
Where do I start in Dallas?

There are ladies who will see you. They usually advertise themselves as "newbie friendly" and hopefully they can provide references in the future. You have also posted reviews and that goes a long way to establishing your bona fides.

Mr. Stewart, Select the search tab at the upper right, put in "newby friendly" and cull through the hits. Alternately, go to the Dallas Requests and ISO board here on ECCIE and create a thread. Hopefully, newby friendly providers will respond for you.