I love seeing wives that are "no longer interested in sex." Could be many of them are just not interested in sex with fuckwaffles.
Originally Posted by pyramider
Lol! I think you're right pyramider. Both parties can lose interest sexually in the other partner. If a couple doesn't make an effort to stay intimately connected, it's easy to fall into a sexless marriage. It's not just the wifes' fault, of course.
However I do know of cases where the wife announces she's done with sex. I also know of cases where the husband is not interested anymore, because of low testosterone or impotence. If a man can't get it up very well, the woman naturally thinks he's not attracted to her anymore and she takes it personally of course. And is no longer interested in attempting to be intimate when her partner is unable, and doesn't make her feel desired and sexy.
And naturally; "strange" is frequently attractive to men. But if a marriage is strong, neither partner cheats. I've had no less than TWO clients who had shaky marriages to start with; divorce their wives after a few sessions and move me in, to be wife #2. I don't mind at all being a kept woman for a year or two, when he gives me a credit card and pays for absolutely everything. But as far as taking the place of the wife? To a man that cheats and doesn't really value marriage? No thanks. I AM okay if we mutually agree to invite the occasional 3rd or 4th person into our sex lives. Nothing wrong with that as long as we do it together.
If it's an open marriage that's different. And I DO love my married clients; I have about half married and half single. The married guys are just looking for the fun and intimacy that they don't get at home. Many marriages can survive that, especially if the partner doesn't know. There's NO good reason to come clean and confess. It just causes pain.
I've also had several clients who said that they loved their wives very much and had no intention at all of leaving her and would never hurt her by letting it be known that he sees escorts. Many times she can no longer have sex because of medical reasons. And sometimes she just has no sex drive. But seeing an escort is MUCH different from having a real relationship on the side. It's not emotional, not love and there's no strings attached.
And of course this is just based on my own personal experience and is IMHO.