A More “Genuine” Experience in your session.

A More “Genuine” Experience in your session.

IMHO, Most Men ALWAYS gets 1 Bell. (Unless were drunk, lol)
So, our main goal is to get the woman as many O’s as we can. It makes us feel good when we achieve this. I am not sure if it makes us feel, more manly or a stud but, I do know it makes us feel like we achieved our GOAL in a session and now we can get that BELL.

I said that, to say this: This put’s a lot of pressure on a woman to have an Orgasm, especially if she seen a few clients before you. Which we all know, she hasn’t lol. Now if you tell her that you want her to have many O’s BEFORE ya’ll meet, or you’re going to make her have a lot of O’s when ya’ll meet, she’s thinking, OMG I need to cum in order to please him.

Guy’s, DON’T talk about it, or Tell her about it, just do it. Action speaks louder than Words. This QUOTE came from a Veteran Provider that hit home with me.


If you “love to get woman off” … that’s great. Please don’t tell me about it before hand. I don’t handle that kind of pressure on making my body, perform very well. I also tend to become very self aware of everything. It will help both of us have a better time together. (And it will help you enjoy a more “genuine” experience.)


I would greatly appreciate ALL input on this subject.

CG

Let you guys in on a little secret!

Don't rush things! Take your time and for goodness sakes, don't start out too rough or you will lose us!

Start out nice and slow and seductive! Touch every inch of our bodies EXCEPT for our "Good Girls"! Make us squirm and beg for you to enter us!

I will promise you that our orgasm will be achieved more easily if you do exactly what I say! LOL!

Yeah. We're always not wanting the girls to rush. A guy should do the same.
Take a little time at the beginning and try and bond a little bit with a girl.
Your experience will be much better. Especially when she sees that you care
enough to do it. Don't be shocked if she is a little surprised by this.
A lot of girls wont be used to it.

That's interesting. Some ladies here will have as many "Os" as you want them to have.
If that adds to the experience for you, just let them know how many you want to be credited for and they can make it happen.
Just don't get hung up on wondering if they are real or not.
That would be about as futile as wondering if she "really" likes you.

Something I guess I've noticed as I've started my climb towards the 40 yr old mark....


I better not have watched porn and got myself off before I see a client.

(and I swear on sweet baby jesus - I RARELY see more than one client in a day)

I can be a "one and done" type.

Basically - it's if it's in the realm of greek. Maybe it's part mental. It almost becomes an "ok, now get the fuck off me." but not that bad. It's like - my body doesn't desire that goal as much - my ass says, CLOSED! GET THE FUCK AWAY, NOW. LMAO.

Now, straight up fuckin on the other hand...If I keep having O's, well, there's a saying for lots of things - "the more, the merrier" - but like your "veteran provider" said - in her wise and infinite wisdom - don't put that kind of pressure on her. For Christs sake!

Genuine would be free

Genuine would be free Originally Posted by monkmonk

So - is marriage free?

Is your girlfriend free?

Is you sugar baby free?


No sex is EVER free.....

So I call BULLSHIT on "genuine would be free."

Allriiiiigghhhhhhtt!!! monk, see what you've done - you've woke her ^^^ up! LOL

But, some are correct in that you'll get as good of a session as possible if you take it slow and ramp things up taking as long as possible. All that means is that it is possible to have better sessions with a particular coupling than with other couplings. Boy howdy, there's a real news flash! But, there are ladies who respond to some guys and others that don't. That's not YMMV, that's "clickage." I've always wondered about guys who are so hung up on multiple manbells - then again, I'm sure plenty of people wonder about me...hee hee! Guess that means we are all "wonderful."

All in all, the OP's point is a good one and not all that hard for either the gent or the lady to follow. Of course, some just aren't "wired" that way and maybe they can find each other, too.

Randy - where you been?

I've been riled up all night.

Not sure why - but I'm on a fuckin roll.

So, our main goal is to get the woman as many O’s as we can. It makes us feel good when we achieve this. I am not sure if it makes us feel, more manly or a stud but, I do know it makes us feel like we achieved our GOAL in a session and now we can get that BELL.
CG Originally Posted by Copierguy0

CG, if I ever become a provider, I want all my clients to have your attitude. Unfortunately, at my age, I tend to have a more pragmatic perspective. While I make every effort to ensure that she enjoys herself (daty is one of my very favorite activities), I never operate under the delusion that IOP is anything other than a one way street. To me, it is difficult enough in the real world; much less in an environment where your partner has sex three or four times a day, five times a week. I would love to think that I am special; that I make a difference, but truthfully, I'm there for my BELL.

Angie, Old Guys must sleep! And most of us prefer to do it at night...lol. And, as my ol' Daddy once told me (he really did), "Son, when you get older you have to pick your spots. It'll take you all night to do what you used to do all night."

I feel ya!

truthfully, I'm there for my BELL. Originally Posted by eccl3

eccl3, then i would suspect that your NOT one of the guy's that would tell a lady through Email/PM/Phone this:

Now if you tell her that you want her to have many O’s BEFORE ya’ll meet, or you’re going to make her have a lot of O’s when ya’ll meet, she’s thinking, OMG I need to cum in order to please him. Originally Posted by Copierguy0

I Guess some guy's put alot of strain on their session BEFORE it even begins. When ya'll are communicating and getting on the same page, (Sorta Speak) Why not just, Take it Slow and let Nature/Passion take it's course. DON'T say: YOU are going to cum this evening. lol (which she may have done a dozen times already, Hence the Fake Orgasm.) lol How many times a day can a womans body cum? only God knows.

CG

You could just simplify the whole thing and go see Versace.
I don't think it's possible for her to get enough,
but it sure is fun trying to give it to her.

And you get to look at her gorgeous body during
the process.

Let you guys in on a little secret!

Don't rush things! Take your time and for goodness sakes, don't start out too rough or you will lose us!

Start out nice and slow and seductive! Touch every inch of our bodies EXCEPT for our "Good Girls"! Make us squirm and beg for you to enter us!

I will promise you that our orgasm will be achieved more easily if you do exactly what I say! LOL! Originally Posted by Lana Warren

THIS!

Sometimes we can even give explicit instruction, and the gentleman will follow along for like two minutes and it's back to whatever he thinks is best LOL..so find out what she likes, but listen!

Also, I would just like to say that during DATY, stay on the clit if you want her to have an orgasm. When you stop licking/sucking our clit, it is similar to us stopping a BJ right as you are about to come. Just saying!