common courtesy

Ok, a bit of a peeve here, 3 times recently I have made requests on p411 (all eccie verified providers) and all three times politely asked to be notified one way or the other.

but heard nothing at all, crickets. This is rude. If you can't or won't see me or even if you will never see me for some reason, that is OK, but at least let me know so that I can then ask someone else instead of waiting. "

It would also be nice to have a reason, but even that is not necessary.

And no, I am not going to say who they were, not worth all the drama.

Still reliving those high school rejections?

Ok, a bit of a peeve here, 3 times recently I have made requests on p411 (all eccie verified providers) and all three times politely asked to be notified one way or the other.

but heard nothing at all, crickets. This is rude. If you can't or won't see me or even if you will never see me for some reason, that is OK, but at least let me know so that I can then ask someone else instead of waiting. "

It would also be nice to have a reason, but even that is not necessary.

And no, I am not going to say who they were, not worth all the drama. Originally Posted by spear89

Sorry you went through this sweetie

Common courtesy isn't that common in the hobby.

.....3 times recently I have made requests on p411..... Originally Posted by spear89

Q1 - do you have your account set to see if the lady checks your profile? A1 - you should

Q2 - if so, which ones checked your profile?

Q3 - are you telling them your eccie handle? A3 - never do that

Q4 - are you sending dick pics? A4 - never do that

... I am not going to say who they were ... Originally Posted by spear89

then who cares

...but heard nothing at all, crickets. This is rude. If you can't or won't see me or even if you will never see me for some reason, that is OK, but at least let me know so that I can then ask someone else instead of waiting. Originally Posted by spear89

You are expecting too much, spear.

You don't have to wait. Make a few requests at the same time, and if Provider2 gets back to you after Provider1 does, tell Provider2, politely, that she will have to wait because you already heard back and made arrangements with another.

You are expecting too much, spear.

You don't have to wait. Make a few requests at the same time, and if Provider2 gets back to you after Provider1 does, tell Provider2, politely, that she will have to wait because you already heard back and made arrangements with another. Originally Posted by Sarunga

See, I try not to do that because that would be rude on my part but i may have to start doing it

That's why I said to do it "politely".

How many okays do you have?

Have you ever been denied an okay?

maybe try an iso?

Happens to me all the time, and I've got a shitload of okays. At this point I just send out multiple feelers at once and whoever responds the quickest gets my business, or I just pre book with the late responders if my schedule allows.

Unfortunately some girls seem to think they're doing you a favor to even respond. P411 is supposed to sanction girls who don't respond but I doubt that actually happens.

Such is life...

P411 with several Okays is the best method of contacting a Provider to get an appointment or simply get screened for a future appointment. That being said, there are Providers that choose not to see me. They all responded to let me know that. Only one Provider I've tried to see ignores me or contacts me a month after an appointment request. I just moved on to other Ladies. Established ECCIE Providers are usually quick to respond, as well. Just expect Drama from some of them. Avoid BP completely. IJS

I've had this happen. I try to book a couple of days before and when I hadn't heard back from them after18 hours I sent a PM and a text as this was actually a very active agency on Eccie (no names). Still no response so I contacted another through P411 saw that they checked my profile within 10 minutes and sent me a text and within 30 minutes I had an appointment. As someone has said providers can get banned from P411 for failing to respond but I wouldn't call it in because I'm not a snitch and I'm still interested in the provider. Also when I checked back on their P411 page it was over 4 weeks since they had logged in so I figured that they had registered with P411 to get it on their Eccie showcase page but took the bulk of bookings through PM or text and were too busy to respond. Would have been nice t have been told though.

Q1 - do you have your account set to see if the lady checks your profile? A1 - you should

Q2 - if so, which ones checked your profile?

Q3 - are you telling them your eccie handle? A3 - never do that

Q4 - are you sending dick pics? A4 - never do that Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

Curious...why not tell them eccie handle?