Curious to providers: when your ATF list you as a reference

For a new prover, do you ever get offended? When stormy was around I would only see her but when she left, I used her as a reference for new providers but always wonder if that ever bothered her. Let's say you have seen a dude some 10-15 times and know some personal details of their life, you ever get sad that a regular used you as a reference?

No, this is a fantasy land, none of us belong to each other.

The greedy ladies do, because they want all of your money for themselves.

IMO a jealous provider is a dangerous provider!

Not all of them get upset because as Milfy said they know its business. Or, if they are upset they'll never tell the other provider. They may tell you about it though. If they don't reply to the reference request, almost always a sure sign they're pissed st you listing them as a reference

I give all my atf's glowing references. They are obviously stellar clients.

Hurt my feelings? What feelings? 😁

Providers ATFs are called boyfriend, fiancee, or husband.

You're not an ATF to a provider, you're an ATM.

Even if they did, you think any provider is going to ADMIT they get offended here? FFS

I would say if it was a ladies ATF, it might hurt her feelings a little. After all, providers are human. Just like any business that involves human interaction, feelings can get hurt. However, her giving a reference, remembering this is a business of fantasy & fun and not acting childish is what makes her a professional.

I give all my atf's glowing references. They are obviously stellar clients.

Hurt my feelings? What feelings? 😁 Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

That's my girl, only feelings I get is during the big release! And it's like heaven on earth

I would say if it was a ladies ATF, it might hurt her feelings a little. After all, providers are human. Just like any business that involves human interaction, feelings can get hurt. However, her giving a reference, remembering this is a business of fantasy & fun and not acting childish is what makes her a professional. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

Being asked for a reference from your atf, does not necessarily mean that you are not still his. Just because Jack Daniels is your favorite drink, doesn't mean thar you never want tequila, does it? If you drink some Vodka, that it no way means you no longer hold Jack as your favorite. You just wanted something else.

Or, and this may be the case, your ATF client is on the other side of town and needs service but simply can't get to you. Maybe it's a schedule issue. We are horn dogs, sometimes we need fucked or sucked at times you are not available.

You go to the store because you really need to get drunk. They are sold out of Jack, though! They still have SoCo.
Not your favorite, buy it'll do. Jack is still your favorite.

I encourage my clients to cheat on me as often as possible! I can deal with clients seeing other ladies MUCH easier than I can deal with a super clingy, obsessed client who starts to get the wrong idea about what this is and isn't.

Heck, I have helped my friends pick out other providers to play with. I'm not worried about them seeing anyone else. I know what I bring to the table and I know they'll be back.

Heck, I have helped my friends pick out other providers to play with. I'm not worried about them seeing anyone else. I know what I bring to the table and I know they'll be back. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

She gets me and I have never even met her.

I will tell you can use me as a refences ATF or Not

no one owns you ...

NO! never! I LOVE to share!! & i love to watch

Heck, I have helped my friends pick out other providers to play with. I'm not worried about them seeing anyone else. I know what I bring to the table and I know they'll be back. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Exactly.