Has this happened to you?

A few years ago I had my first hobby experience. I found a very young and attractive young lady I read many reviews on. Unfortunately, I think I was so overly excited by the moment that my session didn't turn out as well. I was very nervous and I couldn't shut up, but worse of all when it came time to do the deed I had a major problem. No.... Not what you're thinking, it was actually the opposite. I couldn't pop! I tried and tried, but my dick was numb!! She tried all that she could, yet it didn't work. I left my first hobby experience with such frustration that I almost didn't try it again. Is this a common occurrence?

It happens to the best of them nothing to be ashamed of

I'm 59 so, "popping" is an occasional problem for me, but I keep trying. The most important thing for me is to just enjoy spending quality time with a lovely young lady.

Oh Yeah. Happens sometimes for 2 reasons. After an extended session with a vigorous and enthusiastic BBBJ followed by a multi position CFS, I often find my dick to have become desensitized and a little numb.
I can no longer cum with either BBBJ or sex and usually have to resort to whacking off like a mad-man.
That's sometimes the price you pay for extending yourself.

A few years ago I had my first hobby experience. I found a very young and attractive young lady I read many reviews on. Unfortunately, I think I was so overly excited by the moment that my session didn't turn out as well. I was very nervous and I couldn't shut up, but worse of all when it came time to do the deed I had a major problem. No.... Not what you're thinking, it was actually the opposite. I couldn't pop! I tried and tried, but my dick was numb!! She tried all that she could, yet it didn't work. I left my first hobby experience with such frustration that I almost didn't try it again. Is this a common occurrence? Originally Posted by Vulgar1999

That's nothing, my one and only time was 80 times worse. Lets just say when I left her incall she was crying. I didn't hit or yell at her and it wasn't my dick fault .. It's a stupid crazy story. I gave up hobbying before I started after my one time. I don't want to hijack your thread, but yea I know you could have had a worse experience. That's nothing. lol

More power to yall who do this hobbying thing .. real shit.

Yeah, it happened on my first visit to a provider. I was wound up so tight that I just could not relax and enjoy the experience. The girl was cool about it and did her best to get me to pop but it was a lost cause. I left frustrated and disappointed with myself and it took me a while to screw up the courage to try again. I have now figured out what position works best and it isn't an issue anymore. I do agree with the others who say they can get desensitized. Extended bj will do that to me. sometimes.

Its great to know Im not the only one. I have no problem with getting aroused, but I may be the exception because I have never been able to complete the deed with a provider. I enjoy the fun and games, but have never found a lady that can get me off. Not their fault, dont know what it is, but Im still trying for that first time.

I've had the same problem when with a partner. I know it is a mental issue because I have no problems getting off by hand when I'm alone. I've heard people say that watching porn is a common cause. Your body gets used to associating watching porn with arousal that it starts having trouble getting aroused without it. I have to admit though it isn't easy giving up watching porn.

I have the issue in room to hot

Oh Yeah. Happens sometimes for 2 reasons. After an extended session with a vigorous and enthusiastic BBBJ followed by a multi position CFS, I often find my dick to have become desensitized and a little numb.
I can no longer cum with either BBBJ or sex and usually have to resort to whacking off like a mad-man.
That's sometimes the price you pay for extending yourself. Originally Posted by BushDrummer

Indeed - that happened to me even when I was twenty and still does.

But I prefer a nice lay-flat doggie style with a woman with a nice ass is even better than the manual alternative...

The good news is, a nice BJ to begin, means its on as long as she likes.

i suggest you take it slow and easy, focus on the activities, and let come what may.
engage in stimulating conversations, caresses, kisses, sucking, nibbling, touching, teasing, etc. etc. etc. recognize what feels goods and what doesnt. recognize what makes her feel good and what doesnt. keep at it until hopefully joy ensues. and if you dont actualy ejaculate, you will probably have had a enjoyable, pleasurable, and deliteful time with her.

there have been encounters where i've come w/in 5 mins of arriving at her place and then cant come again for the rest of my time.

there have been encounters where i've come twice in 55 mins at her place.

and there have been encounters where i couldnt come after 55 mins at her place.

but i've enjoyed each and every deliteful minute i was with the woman.

Its those times that seperates the GREAT providers from the rest of the crowd!