Just a suggestion

When you gentlemen mention that you're looking for a lady to converse with, you just might want to add a few likes.
Such as a type, maybe you go Gaga for blondes?
Well you wouldn't want to have to say no to a gorgeous brunette would you?

I know myself when I was more active I would occasionally reach out to a gentleman who was looking. It was a great help if one knows upfront what your type is.