All you have to do for me is flick your tongue very fast on the clit and voila......your chin is dripping wet with yumy goodness.
Originally Posted by Maci Lynn
DATY, like BJ, is pretty subjective. It helps if all parties involved are assertive and vocal about what they like or dislike. Different women like different speeds, amounts of pressure, etc..
My default style is what M. Lynn prefers - quick flicks of the tongue directly on the clit. However, I was with a woman recently that didn't like it, as her clit was too sensitive. I found her frustrating though as she wouldn't tell me what her preferred style was.
Are providers scared they're going to offend someone by requesting a different style? If so, don't be as any guy doing DATY wants it to be pleasurable for the woman.