The question isn't OVERLY terrible.
I know I would be miffed if I knew a girl I was trying to fuck wasn't fucking me, but slinging pussy on the side. I get the 'business' aspect of it, but no guy wants to be the guy that can't hit it when it comes to a particular woman.
Women do crazy shit like that. They could, A, be a stripper. Or could be an escort, with a male driver, or even a roommate, neither of whom have NEVER fucked her. Any guy that is single, that associates with women he finds attractive, odds are he wants to hit it. Women know this, and can tell by his demeanor and mannerisms, and insinuations. But no, won't fuck him. Will fuck everybody else, but gets offended at the thought of fucking him (the driver, friend zone guy, or roommate, or that nerdy 'cheat off from in class' guy, etc).
Think about Forrest Gump for a second. Did all the dirty work chasing and fucking with Jenny their whole lives, but couldn't hit it pretty much until she was on her death bed. Well, she did let him hit that ONE time before, but it was still well after she'd been slinging it all over the country with every Tom, Dick, and Harry. But the gist of the point is still there.
The guys that treat women the best are [usually] the last ones to fuck them, if ever.
Originally Posted by Randall Creed
LOL! I learned this thru experience in my teenage yrs. There was a chick I was digging that had been hanging with me and some of the "bros". She came by my house one night, just me and her. We had a good vibe and it seemed like we were into each other, but I called myself trying to be the nice guy, be patient, talk to her, and not try to press her for sex, blah blah blah. Called myself "doing the right thing".
A few nights later we all hung out at a friend's house. One of my boys was a couple yrs older and way more aggressive. He barely said a word to her. Decided he wanted to fuck her. Took his shirt off, flexed his muscles, started kissing on her neck, waved us out of the room, closed the door, and turned off the lights. Probably not even 5 minutes later we can hear them fucking while we're sitting in the living room.
That night totally changed my perspective on approaching and dealing with women and I never looked back. I won't lie, it stung a bit at the time b/c I really liked the girl, but the lesson I learned was invaluable and I'm glad I went through it. My pussy rate skyrocketed after that. Lol.