when your ho gets moody...

Let's say your ho cancels because she had a shitty day and she doesn't wanna risk you picking up on that and having a shitty time with her.

Is that not considerate? I mean really? You wanna spend an hour with a cunty bitch? Can't you just go home for that?

Just how far in advance did she cancel?

An hour.

I've had bad days before and pushed through it but when your spidey sense it telling you "don't do it..." Isn't it better for everyone to cancel?

Idk, my experience says listen to your gut. My gut said to cancel earlier but I kept wrestling with it. I should have acted sooner.

I think a professional should be appreciative of those that want to see you and realize that they might have gone through a lot of trouble to set aside their play time. They chose you to spend that time and their hard earned money with. Don't let them down and make them regret their choice.

Rather than disappoint them, get out of your feelings.

If I'm having a fucked up day, I welcome a client's visit as a way to turn those feelings aside and have fun putting a smile on a man's face.

One must appreciate the business they chose to participate in. That's what defines an escort vs a "ho".

I can appreciate that as long as I haven't driven for hours, rearranged a bunch of shit, etc. Time is valuable on both sides. But, if the gal calls ahead and says she's having a shitty day, I can probably find other plans.

No he didn't. And I offered a $100 off my hourly rate when and if we reconnect. I think that's fair. I've been wrong before though.

To be fair, I've never had to cancel because of a shitty day before. And normally I'd agree with you, Kitty. Usually a session does turn it around. I just had that feeling today. .

No he didn't. And I offered a $100 off my hourly rate when and if we reconnect. I think that's fair. I've been wrong before though.

To be fair, I've never had to cancel because of a shitty day before. And normally I'd agree with you, Kitty. Usually a session does turn it around. I just had that feeling today. . Originally Posted by THN

I understand THN, believe me, I've had the same feelings...what I do though, is realize that out of 100s of girls he could have seen he picked ME. He chose YOU. Take pride in that. Feel good about it. Make him happy and show him that he made the right choice.

While you or I might see clients every day, I try not to take it for granted and realize there are girls who aren't even getting calls.

I've cancelled and even been guilty of just not answering the phone before, but since then I've rethought my game and took it up a notch and in the long-run going that extra mile is what defines your success. That goes for whatever you do in life.

No he didn't. And I offered a $100 off my hourly rate when and if we reconnect. I think that's fair. I've been wrong before though.

To be fair, I've never had to cancel because of a shitty day before. And normally I'd agree with you, Kitty. Usually a session does turn it around. I just had that feeling today. . Originally Posted by THN

Everyone has crappy days. As long as you offered to make it up to him it should be fine. If he's a smart guy he will be back....heck everyone needs to partake of the Pepsi challenge!

Depends on how bad the time would have been. Sometimes a suboptimal performance beats none at all, especially for those of us who do not have that much time to hobby because of work commitments. An hour isn't much time to rustle up a plan B.

No he didn't. And I offered a $100 off my hourly rate when and if we reconnect. I think that's fair. I've been wrong before though.

To be fair, I've never had to cancel because of a shitty day before. And normally I'd agree with you, Kitty. Usually a session does turn it around. I just had that feeling today. . Originally Posted by THN

Always go with your gut sweets. There are a select group of ladies that pride themselves on quality of service they provide. I'm sure you are in that group. I like to think I am as well. I would never want a gentleman to leave a session with me feeling anything but absolutely and completely satisfied. You cannot guarantee that level of service if your mind isn't right. I think you did the right thing, and offering such a generous discount says alot about your caliber of services.
Hope your day gets better babe!

Xoxo
SP

Depends on how bad the time would have been. Sometimes a suboptimal performance beats none at all, especially for those of us who do not have that much time to hobby because of work commitments. An hour isn't much time to rustle up a plan B. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

+1. I think it's pretty cunty to cancel short notice. I hate when that happens. It usually ends up worse for me than if I had not scheduled. Trying to find plan B is less than 50/50, is likely a subpar experience, and I had to prep (manscape, find the time, etc) when I originally scheduled. The credit is a nice touch, but not something I'd prefer or take someone up on. Time is more valuable. Plus, I'm sure seeing you at less than optimal is still a really good experience.

$100 off, I'd be cool with that

I do feel bad for canceling. I know we all have lives to live and our time is precious. I honestly felt I made the right decision at the time. I just didn't see things getting much better throughout the course of our conversation leading up to the time of the appt. Things were just rubbing me the wrong way and eventually i was just like, nope. I'm okay admitting I fucked up though. And I most likely did. It wouldn't be the first time. I'm human. :/

I haven't seen a ho in months

Best I can recall an hour notice is better than I usually got.

At the bare minimum I would like a 1.5 notice just so I don't drive to dallas, where most of the talent is at, and with traffic you have to deal wit to get there it's fustrating when a girl does not anewer or cancels on you when your in the general area or in route . There's a lot that goes into the hobby for guys, prep, scheduling around work and other commitments , that when your route you already in the mood anticipated reliefe, when it does not happen it is a big let down, mood killer, and if you get on the iso last minute , some times you get lucky, but most of the time you get stuck with a girl that you would probably never see but go ahead and do it anyways because the build up toa release is unbearable.

That being said if a girl gives me 2-3 hrs, I can try to find some one else, take care of it myself hope to see her soon, if you got any provider friends that you might recommend and are available to fill in for you, that go a long way as well, that would definitely keep you on my to tdl.