Like a Lady or a Piece of Meat

Have always wonder how the lady feels in these transactions. Do the guys treat you with dignity or you just a thing he can use for an hour? I understand it is pay for play model, but I have always had a hard time treating another human being like a rental car....

Both. It's a fine line to walk. Be respectful, hygienic and generous in the time you've booked. All other times leave them alone and accept the fact you are just a client.

Its very easy to tell from posts and reviews how different guys consider the women here. And often how some of these women feel about themselves.

WALDT! However, If you do your homework you won't have that question to answer. As for me, I love the ladies that ARE ladies and treat them AS ladies never like a peice of meat! So, I really cant say I've been with any provider that made me feel like she was just going through the motions or couldn't wait for me to leave. However, A peice of meat just wouldn't do anything for my woody....

I state on my showcase that time is very precious and I would only be willing to spend time together if we can treat each other with respect, like a gentleman and a lady...like a human being to another.
If a guy is looking for a 'piece of meat', he can go to a cheap 'restaurant' and pay much less.
This is the reason why I don't accept half hour appt, BNG, 15 mins, or 5 mins (OMG)...cause I feel like a piece of meat. In my eyes, a gentleman with real "time contraint" will either do:
a. Do not schedule a date knowing he doesn't have much time.
b. Give a lady her hourly rate even though he doesn't have the time to spend the full hour that day. He then politely excuses himself for not being able to spend more time with her.

I state on my showcase that time is very precious and I would only be willing to spend time together if we can treat each other with respect, like a gentleman and a lady...like a human being to another.
If a guy is looking for a 'piece of meat', he can go to a cheap 'restaurant' and pay much less.
This is the reason why I don't accept half hour appt, BNG, 15 mins, or 5 mins (OMG)...cause I feel like a piece of meat. In my eyes, a gentleman with real "time contraint" will either do:
a. Do not schedule a date knowing he doesn't have much time.
b. Give a lady her hourly rate even though he doesn't have the time to spend the full hour that day. He then politely excuses himself for not being able to spend more time with her. Originally Posted by samantha thom

+1

I like playing a Girlfriend, over a Porn Star. Sweet & Classy

Good subject, I always treat all ladies like a friend; but this door swings both ways, I know it's a business, but I have seen some all involved in our conversation before I leave, and just go cold with the clock . Saw a very nice provider last week for an hour appointment, she got me off 30 minutes into it, but spent another hour just talking....... We are humans with feelings on both sides.

I note my files as a DNS if he's been rude or snobbish to me during a session. If he walks in, looks around my place and not at me, refuses a drink (even bottled water) and proceeds to treat me like a greeter at walmart who just happens to suck a mean dcik, rather than a guest in my home, walking around like he is doing me a favor by being there or clearly has no interest in GFE rapport, I make sure to let other ladies know how he may act toward them when I'm asked for a reference. I am NOT PSE as a rule. However, I really really enjoy giving pse (nqns, dt, gagging, face-fcuking, greek, hard ass smacking, hair pulling, tied up, etc) to close "friends" who have earned my trust and respect. To me, nothing is a more special gift than a sassy little woman surrendering herself to being a total slut for a guy who you KNOW appreciates the rarity of it.

I love what ThatHotNurse said. That's how I want to treat ladies and how expect them to expect to be treated.

I love what ThatHotNurse said. Originally Posted by HobbyFan42

Yeah, I do, too. Once the main event begins, I go with the flow. It can get pretty rowdy (and by that I mean intense, nothing off the charts and certainly nothing out of left field) IF the lady seems to be leaning in that direction, but it's more often what would be described as GFE with me. However, without naming names, I could cite a couple instances in which I was pretty much "used" by ladies in the hobby (in a good way), so I don't consider sexually aggressive behavior on either side of the transaction as the equivalent of treating someone like a piece of meat so long as it occurs within the natural flow and "atmosphere" of the particular session in question. Rudeness, stand-offish behavior, and general disinterest in the person, on the other hand, is NEVER acceptable. I go to a session with the intent of the lady being in my "rotation." As such, it's very important that I know and like the person, and that requires genuine conversation. That said, I am an occasional amp customer, and the conversation and "gettin' to know you" part can be a bit of a challenge in that setting, lol.

I refuse to be treated like a sex toy ... that just taint right.

I note my files as a DNS if he's been rude or snobbish to me during a session. If he walks in, looks around my place and not at me, refuses a drink (even bottled water) and proceeds to treat me like a greeter at walmart who just happens to suck a mean dcik, rather than a guest in my home, walking around like he is doing me a favor by being there or clearly has no interest in GFE rapport, I make sure to let other ladies know how he may act toward them when I'm asked for a reference. I am NOT PSE as a rule. However, I really really enjoy giving pse (nqns, dt, gagging, face-fcuking, greek, hard ass smacking, hair pulling, tied up, etc) to close "friends" who have earned my trust and respect. To me, nothing is a more special gift than a sassy little woman surrendering herself to being a total slut for a guy who you KNOW appreciates the rarity of it. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Touche HotNurse!!
Even more perfecter way to say it! (lol and I know perfecter isn't a word)

Refusing a drink is bad?

Its not bad in and of itself, but coupled with the other behaviors it paints a pretty clear picture how he perceives your existence.

I got ya. Its the big picture.
Im usually not thirsty when i get there. Just makin sure i wasnt giving the wrong signals