Bare and in my throat. Or covered in my throat.

Serious question.. In previous threads I've gone totally against bbbj. I've been BASHED countless of times for not offering bbbj, lol. After my recent visit with my OBGYN
she actually told me its quite "safe" - and contracting something isreally hard. I love sex, and LOVE oral. Bit I honestly want to be SAFE. Any pointers? Comments? Has anyone heard otherwise?

I think it irks really up to you sweetie. You are the only one that can make that call. Playing safe is essential to our group and if the more comfortable you feel the more enjoyable you are as a provider.

After my recent visit with my OBGYN
she actually told me its quite "safe" - and contracting something is really hard. I love sex, and LOVE oral. Bit I honestly want to be SAFE. Any pointers? Comments? Has anyone heard otherwise? Originally Posted by SashaMay_xx

Huh?!? Your medically trained physician advised you it is safe and you're asking a shmb for a second opinion?

Huh?!? Your medically trained physician advised you it is safe and you're asking a shmb for a second opinion? Originally Posted by saustin

I mean. I have just been so closed minded to it. And in general wanted to discuss it. That was all

I think it irks really up to you sweetie. You are the only one that can make that call. Playing safe is essential to our group and if the more comfortable you feel the more enjoyable you are as a provider. Originally Posted by M4ww2

Hats off. Lol. I've been really BASHED for doing cbj. Lol. And I personally, enjoy oral. No pun intended. So when my doctor told me that I was just like... Hmmm.

I have to agree with her. The 4 years I have been doing this, I have never had any issues. Now, I'm not saying something can't happen, but to each their own. Just do what makes you feel most comfortable, bc if you're nervous the while time, you will be able to see that. Good luck and be safe.

I have to agree with her. The 4 years I have been doing this, I have never had any issues. Now, I'm not saying something can't happen, but to each their own. Just do what makes you feel most comfortable, bc if you're nervous the while time, you will be able to see that. Good luck and be safe. Originally Posted by Blueeyedginger

THANK you! Lol. Just wanted some reassurance from a provider. You know? But then again wonder what provider will be like. "YEAH, I got a forest fire in my throat right NOW! "

THANK you! Lol. Just wanted some reassurance from a provider. You know? But then again wonder what provider will be like. "YEAH, I got a forest fire in my throat right NOW! " Originally Posted by SashaMay_xx

My lil man has been down many throats and never had a issue

1. My doctor knows what I do.
2. I get tested every 3 months at least (no problems so far )
3. I've been doing this for ten years, and bbbj has never been a problem for me, and I do cim.
4. It's totally up to you. For me, I'll gag on latex.

My lil man has been down many throats and never had a issue Originally Posted by biglatinmale

My lil man has been down many throats and never had a issue Originally Posted by biglatinmale

1. My doctor knows what I do.
2. I get tested every 3 months at least (no problems so far )
3. I've been doing this for ten years, and bbbj has never been a problem for me, and I do cim.
4. It's totally up to you. For me, I'll gag on latex. Originally Posted by tntangie

Girl. Your a savior. Lol. I think im more comfortable no.

For me, I'll gag on latex.

I get the whole question as it pertains to safety. Everyone has to make up their mind regarding their own safety concerns. But as one that is regularly tested and decently informed on what acts fall as high vs. low risk, I believe your MD is correct (would have loved to be a fly on the wall for that convo LOL).

I also do not want a CBJ--dealbreaker for the most part. I would (usually!) rather skip the BJ altogether than receive it covered. Risk/reward is skewed too far to the absence of reward with a CBJ!!!

Anyway, my question is to TNT's quote above: I can't imagine anything pleasurable about putting latex (or any rubber material) in your mouth. OK, statement not a question but the point is the same. That just seems gross. But then so does putting a dick in MY mouth, so maybe I simply cannot relate.

Or maybe I can. Had a civi chick that insisted on dental dam if I wanted to go down on her. Yuk. Persevered through the first time because I liked and wanted to bang her. There was no second time when I confirmed this would be the lay of the land unless we were married (NOPE!) or completely exclusive (MAYBE, at some point, but not with HER!).

Hooray for condom free BJs!!!

I get the whole question as it pertains to safety. Everyone has to make up their mind regarding their own safety concerns. But as one that is regularly tested and decently informed on what acts fall as high vs. low risk, I believe your MD is correct (would have loved to be a fly on the wall for that convo LOL).

I also do not want a CBJ--dealbreaker for the most part. I would (usually!) rather skip the BJ altogether than receive it covered. Risk/reward is skewed too far to the absence of reward with a CBJ!!!

Anyway, my question is to TNT's quote above: I can't imagine anything pleasurable about putting latex (or any rubber material) in your mouth. OK, statement not a question but the point is the same. That just seems gross. But then so does putting a dick in MY mouth, so maybe I simply cannot relate.

Or maybe I can. Had a civi chick that insisted on dental dam if I wanted to go down on her. Yuk. Persevered through the first time because I liked and wanted to bang her. There was no second time when I confirmed this would be the lay of the land unless we were married (NOPE!) or completely exclusive (MAYBE, at some point, but not with HER!).

Hooray for condom free BJs!!! Originally Posted by NTXReggie

Lol wouldn't you have? It was the most awkward conversation EVER. Especially when I disclosed exactly what I was doing. And exactly what my concerns were lol. She was stunned. Lol. It was quite humoring.

What does TNT stand for, also what is dental dam. (Excuse my ignorance) but yes the Latex is DISGUSTING! I just was always scared. I guess ignorance can be an excuse the FIRST TIME. LOL

Sheesh! Ask us guys if we think girls with B cups or less should get a boob job. The "politically correct" answer is Do what makes YOU happy while their little voice screams "YES! Big boobs are awesome!!" Guys prefer a BBBJ. We prefer cumming in your mouth and swallowing is a cherry on top.

Oh.. btw... Do what makes YOU happy.

And there are different levels...you don't have to go from CBJ all the way to BBBJNQNS.
You can always do BBBJ and finish other ways.

But really you should only do what you're comfortable with.